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You’re Sexy When…
Posted in Relationships on 16. Apr, 2009
Sure the shorty in the picture is sexy, but Sweat pants hair tied chilling with no make up on that’s when your the prettiest I hope that you don’t take it wrong. ~ Drake
I’m sure most of my readers know I like a different kind of girl, and not the avg version of beauty. Most women go through hours of prepration to get cute, but there are a lot of times when men think a woman is sexy even if she is not all dolled up.
Sweatpants - sweatpants and a nice booty is a turn on like none other. Most times when a woman is wearing sweat pants they either don’t have panties on, they are wearing a thong or their panties are showing all of these things are extremely sexy. Ladies when you’re wearing sweatpants us men stare extra hard watching your booty jiggle. EXTRA HARD!!
Hats: The other day I bumped into one of my homegirls and she was laying low in work mode. She wasn’t dolled up, decked out, or anything like that but I promise you she was sh*tying on every girl on the block. Maybe it was because I used my imagination and told myself if she is this cute now imagine when she throws it on and it was something about that confidence or even I just don’t give a damn attitude that made me want to sop her up like a biscuit from popeyes with strawberry jelly!
Scarf: Every so often when I’m in the supermarket or running to the corner store I’ll bump into a girl wearing a multi-color silk scarf and it does something to me. I can’t help but place myself in her living room snuggling up with her watching a movie at waiting for the credits to give her a kiss and make my mouth. Also a lot of times when a girl knows it’s about to go down she will prepare for the events to come. She will wrap her hair so she won’t sweat it out. LOL
Boy beaters and shorts: fellas once a girl let’s you see her in her boy beater and shorts you’re her man or main f*ck buddy. Seeing a woman in her sleep wear which is not lingerie is one the best sights. I like my woman in her boy beater and shorts. It could be an old t-shirt, or some old sweats. Regardless the house clothes are sexy even when they are not. Because they become even more sexy when they are laying on the floor while I’m eating her with a bullet.
not to toot my own horn….
im so glad im a natural beauty lol
anywho my most favoritest natural attire is
a bra & panties when im in the house of course=]
2 words SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL!
Great post Xilla!
We are sexiest when we least expect to be, when we're not “trying” to be…
I love this! I totally agree…alot of the times I get compliments is when I'm dressing down and chilling. I like being a natural beauty
I agree….I like this post
I admit, that I like to look cute when I go out whether it's to dinner, a movie, a lounge or just to hang at a friends house.
But I noticed that when I think I look “okay” that's when I get the most attention. When I think I'm doing it up….I get a couple of looks but I don't pull the same numbers I do when I'm on my chill out sh*t…lol
Exactly, there's nothin wrong with kickin it up a notch when you're goin out but every woman should be comfortable with her “everyday natural look”
There are chicks whose life depends on 2 hour hair, makeup and wardrobe sessions otherwise they won't even leave the house to get milk and pampers for the baby…LOL
yea but that looks like a nose job in your grav… lol hi janet! lol just kidding.
lol!! i knew someone was gonna say somethin about my janet grav!
LOL @ scarf tho…but I totally feel this as a woman,
I love it when attractive men take notice or try to holla on my plain, not glammed up days. like your girl with the hat
when you got it, you got it,
I love that, cause it means hopefully LOL he is really SEEING ME
and then when I do put it on……
I DAZZLE em…..LOVE THAT!!!!
Love that Drake Quote as Much as I love this Post…Dope!
Great to Know Real men are out there With a Understanding of Sexy… U never fail to Amaze=) Lol! at Boy beater…
I never try to be sexy…to me either you are , or you're not…something contrived isn't sexy IMO its just as natural for some as breathing. *shrug*
i lovee just leavin the house w. a scarf on a v neck tee sweats & some jordans..
full chill out mode & still cute.
although i did have some chics try to holla at me…
think thats the down side.
You're right about that!!! Thank goodness I'm not friends with anyone like that….it sounds annoying lol
I saw a woman on the train today in some grey sweats, some air force ones a nike tee shirt, and some lip gloss. She was in full chill mode and she was gorgeous to me. I walked up to her and said excuse me miss, you are very attractive and then I took my seat. She just smiled and I inhaled her natural beauty. As I exited the train I touched her shoulder softly, smiled at her and said have a good day. I appreciate a woman's natural beauty. I didn't want anything from her. I just appreciated what I saw in her. Great post Xilla
Cosign on all except the scarf..lol. Maybe its cause im Haitian and Ive been exposed to scarfs from sisters, moms, gfs, etc my whole life, but idk about a turn on. Boyshorts and wife beaters are sexier than ballroom gowns on the right woman…true story!
I agree with this pust completely. The only thing is that not all girls can pull the look off. If you seen some 300lb women wearing any of those suggestions you just might NEVER want to see another chick wearing it. It does come down to natural beauty, and either you have the look or don't. If you are attractive all dolled up chances are you will look good in chill mode too, and vice versa.
I would remove the scarf from the list and add sports bra though, just my opinion.
i don't wear make up like that, so thank you jesus i been blessed with natural beauty
I have been telling dudes for years about girls in sweatpants and no one wanted to listen.
Man, that is so true…I don't know why guys like to holla when I'm rocking sweats, no makeup, and I feel like my hair is looking too plain. The times I'm running around getting things done and I don't want anyone to look my way are the times dudes want to talk. Then I look funny because I'm trying to get in my car as quickly as possible. LOL
That's true. I even noticed…when I'd be on chill mode w/my ex…and I'd be en route or away from him for a moment…I told him…how weird it was that guys would be complimenting me and throwing smiles my way or just checking me…and I'd be rocking some bball shorts or sweats w/a tee. I'd be walking around mad comfy because I'm not worried about impressing any man on the street…but that's when they'd try to holla! He'd just laugh…
I guess if you can look good in sweats then you look great in anything else.
Oh….and I was listening to that Drake song last night…In fact I can listen to him every damn night.
@Streetz Sak pase
Yup, I notice that I get more shine from the fellas when I'm on the run, in the scarf/sweats. I asked my BGF (Best Guy Friend) He tole me that's when I woman is less intimidating so *shrugs* hey, it is what it is and it's all good.
i tend to prefer the naturale beauty and a female in shorts and a wife beater is so sexy!
imma keep it funky i love when a girl is just chilling wearing her everyday…. i just like to chill with shorty when she loose and comfortable. On some real shit a good majority of the times (this being me) if i see a chick well done up, hair and make up, YEAH i might look, but would i approach her? Most probably not. It gives off an impression like she stuck up. Especially when a chick is going to the corner store to get some milk. I like to just see a girl at her vulnerable moments. it just makes it sexy, and i love me sweats with a thong, plays with the mind! i thought i was the only weird one…
This is so true. When I am laying around the house in my wife beater and boy shorts he can't keep his damn hands to himself.
The other day I was washing dishes in a pink sweatsuit and he kept running up behind me and humping my butt. It was so funny.
I haven't rocked a baseball cap since Mary's video back in the day. We're having a lunch date then going to the auto show, may be a good look for today.
I do tend to rock a scarf, but its often tied to the side to make it more fashionable. And its a designer scarf. Not that crap I sleep in, LOL!!!
But I can't leave the house, regardless of what is on my body ,without my MAC 'Oh Baby' lipglass. I could be wearing a moo-moo and with that lipglass on, I am poppin.
Men are such simple creatures! FAF!!!
YUP!! Your first paragraph sounds like some R. Kelly in the kitchen type of stuff.lol It's good that he is on you like that! That makes everything interesting. I bet if he stopped doing that you would be wondering why? (I bet you would) lol!
Rock a cap, it is almost beoming a lost art. I think caps look great on a woman. It helps frame their face and bring out whtever features they choose to accentuate. For instance their lips with their MAC Oh Baby lipglass!!! I ain't mad at you Lady Jei! Get em' Girl!!!!!
And yes, we men are simple creatures. We are visual. We like it simple with just a little touch of mystery that makes us wonder what else is she covering up? That is the truth. And I'm Gone!
Ms. Lili, you are on point. Your quote summed it up.
“I guess if you can look good in sweats then you look great in anything else”
When you can do that you are doing it big. That is when a man can truly see how confident you are. When a woman is in chill mode not trying to be all dressed up and she still has what I call unintentional swagger. She is doing it. A natural beauty is what men want. And you said you were in D.C. right!!!lol Have a good weekend!!
If you got nice healthy thighs and you wearing boxer shorts ima hafta try real hard to control myself. What is it about a woman who looks comfortable that makes me want to slide up behind her and neck-kiss her?
Thats when you know you got it…damn the club how many niggas can u snatch while you're in your work clothes? lolz i been saying that a lot females try too hard to catch men