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From The Vault: Head Is A Must
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 09. Apr, 2009
As I sit at my desk just thinking about life and trying to figure out my next move to get over the hump and become more successful as a writer. I can’t help but think of the way her lips felt on mine. What her tongue motion is like, how she moves her lips while going down and then it hits me. Oral sex is very important in a relationship, whether you swallow or not. Gone are the days of females who “don’t give it”, but we are in a new era of females. An era I like to call “The Pause Era”.
The pause is when both parties know that head is going to come, but she’ll lay there on her chest or abs and stares at it. I hate this, I don’t want to come out and say “Hey baby, suck my stick”, but I can’t help but get impatient, sometimes wanting to grab her head and push it on the manxilla. I sent out a tweet asking people how you ask for head. jlbean said
”neva ask for oral sex. If it’s not offered assume u ain’t getting it.
I’m sorry but that’s unacceptable to me. Head is a must, and to assume I’m not going to get it, is going to leave me with a spitless stick. I refuse to allow that to happen. We’re all adults and as smart as I am I don’t know what the wait is for, because when head is a possibility I try to always make sure I do a few things
Yet, despite these measures if you ask for it, or even motion towards it, the longer she’ll take. Teasing the Manxilla is not a good thing, but the irrational mind of the female somehow believes this is a great idea.
Ladies head is important and you shouldn’t make men wait for it, if you know you do it and you know you’re going to do it. I don’t want to have a debate about it, call me spoiled, but I want your mouth on my d*ck ASAP!
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamen.
And halleujah. That is all. Carry on.
and don't approach it like it's a chore….like “Ugh, I gotta do this again?” Because it will show in your performance, and that's about as bad as not doing it all.
When you make a conscious effort to smile when you're in a bad mood, eventually your smile will put you in a good mood. It's called faking it till you make it. Same thing kind of applies to head when he asks and you weren't thinking about it or weren't in the mood to do it…you got to fake it till you make it, and eventually you'll be as into it as he is & it's good times for both parties
(J.M.O.)
I think some women may not want to suck a man's d*ck unless they KNOW they will be getting their pussy licked too. Honestly some men want there dick sucked all the time but don't wan to return the favor.
Personally, I wouldnt even think of giving head to no man without some papers stating that this ninja is free of STD'S, HIV/AIDS…when he can prove this..then he can get head as much as he wants to..
I had an issue with giving head until I got with my current boyfriend. He eats pussy like its his last meal, the only person to ever make me orgasm from head, so I can't deny him head. Nothing is sexier to me than after he goes down, he stands up and smiles because he knows a good job and i take advantage of that position and go at it. I've found he gets turned on the most if he's standing up and i'm suckin him off in the doggy style position. He's an ass man so he loves the chance to smack and squeeze my ass while I'm giving him head. Id rather have my man come out and tell me to give him head then ask for it. The more authority he has in his voice, the sexier it is. If you don't give your man head when he wants it and you're not willing to surprise him with it every now and then, don't expect him to be completely happy in the relationship.. For every girl out there who aint willin to please her man, there are 10 other women that would kill for the chance.
There are several reasons why women don't give head at all or why they are sometimes fickle or hesitant about doing it and it has nothing to do with your d*ck being fresh and clean – that goes without saying – cause if it ain't clean you ain't gettin pussy either
Personally speaking it has nothing to do with him eating me or eating me well, of course it’s great if he does it and does it well but for me it's based simply on whether or not he's “that guy” and if he “inspires” me to want to do it – it’s more about what he has to offer outside of the bedroom that makes me want to please him like that…again, it’s just like wanting to make his plate or do anything that brings him joy sexually or otherwise.
You can lay the best pipe and eat the best p*ssy in the world but if you’re severely lacking in other areas it’s gonna impact her response to you sexually
Being “that guy” and “inspiring” her can even change the mind of a woman who hates giving head…true story
I'm telling you guys “Your Head Is In Your Hands”
in gettin sick of this bullshit that you need to give head or anything sexual in a relationship. what about the people who dont want to have sex before marriage? everyone making it seem that having sex is all it is to a relationship and without it you screwed seriously come on. Im not puttin my mouth on no niggas dick. umm did i mention this some bullshit lol
HAHAHA I feel you, but let's be honest. You have to keep up with the time. Example
Let's say you get offered 2 jobs. They both pay 20 bucks an hour, both have 2 weeks vacations… Both have a chance for growth… only difference is one offers benefits the other does not.
Which one will you choose?
I changed a few minds… was a one nighter, and i did the look like i wanted head… she wasn't having that. So I put it on her… gave her the D of her life. Walked up to the top of the bed and put it right in her mouth… she was sucking me for the rest of the night!!
But it's nothing i' know my “Plate is good” one chick had to turn on the lights before sucking me off. I was like ain't it beautiful? got some banging head after that. lol
Waves papers like a mad man!! Just kidding. How are you doing today Janee?
Hahaha – I'm sure you have changed a few minds Xilla ;-D
I ain't mad at you – nothin wrong with head from random chicks if you can get it, you just have to be prepared to deal with the randomness with which they decide to give it or not…LOL
I think this post is a little one-sided. There are so many guys out there trying to force their d*ck in a girl's mouth, but once you motion at returning the favor they say some bullsh*t like I don't do that or I will only do that for my wife. WTF!?! But somehow I'm supposed to drop to my knees when he flashes “that look” GET THE F*CK OUTA HERE!
FELLAS: Head can ONLY be a must if you are just as willing to do it and do it just as well as you would want your d*ck sucked. None of that 45 minutes of head and you lick to cooch once to get it wet right before you bullsh*t us by sayin “Oh, I wanna feel you” or ram some dry, ashy ass fingers in me and then try to get some. The next guy I give head to will “feel” me on his face or he won't feel my mouth or my cooch! That's just how it's gonna be!
In that case Misscee you have to find somebody who believes the same way that you do. trying to have a sexless relationship with someone who eat, sleeps and dreams sex is just not going to work!
I ain't mad at you Ms. Squishy. You've got every right to feel that way because it happens. it ain't right, but it does happen.
I don't ask for head. I put in work to have work done on me. I want my woman to enjoy my oral skills as much as I enjoy hers. I want her wet wet on my face like a beard. I want the woman I am with to reward me for a job well done. Therefore, I will go down on her with a smile and not leave until she is satisfied and expect the same from her. That is just me.
I feel you Ms. Squishy.
I want to try it with my current boyfriend…need tips
aint nothin wrong w/ givin head…..
but i know this is gon shock the shit out of yall, but im 32 and i have never gave head. i have an amazing sex life. im not in a exclusive relationship. my two sex buddies tell me all the time that my nookie is the best they have ever had, and they too please the shit out of me in bed…..but anyway, ive always wanted to do it but i just never had. to be real, im actually kinda worried that i'll just do it wrong, like rub my teeth across the shaft or something…lol…but anyway, let me know fellas…feedback/comment how u like….
I wouldnt really say head is a must b/c if a female is too quick to suck my junk then giving head is probably her habit and its no tell where her tongue been. on the other head its some females i know i wont eat for anything so if she give me head and expect a favor i will look at her like she stupid, so to avoid all of that i gotta bite the bullet and not get my thang swallowed. but i do agree with how you feel about when females just sit there and look at it, i hate that. i would be more happy if she just come out and say she dont want to give me head, at least i know, other than her sitting down there just holding it. but ladies you have to want to do it also, dont force yourself to do it b/c its going to be a unpleasant experience for the both of us, and a dude like me, if i let you suck my johnson, is more than willing to return the favor.
as a female, a fine line must be walked on this subject. i usually go with how i feel in my gut. i never give head the first time, that;s for sure…oh no! but if i am diggin you and we gets down and we have great chemistry, i can dig it. i'm diff. i guess though cause i really enjoy giving head. but that's cause i had to work and get good at it, so i like doing it and i like feeling in control and feeling him react to what im doing with my mouth. if u suck at it and are unsure, it'll be bad for both of you lol. also, i only swallow with my man. and ladies, u can't do that for everyone cause there's sumthin in a man's brain that says if u swallow, you're a keeper. nigs get turnt out on that shit lol!
Well since you have them papers..COME ON DOWN BABY AND LET THE HEAD MASTER TAKE CARE OF YA…LOL…im as good as i can be Mr xilla
lol @ “aint it beautiful” i think i'm going to steal that one from you sir.
Most chicks have no ideal what a good head game can get em.
lol @ “aint it beautiful” i think i'm going to steal that one from you sir.
Most chicks have no ideal what a good head game can get em.
I agree ImFresh: my man eats like a champ(!) so i have no problems giving him head whenever (and without hesitation). And i also agree that if a woman hesitates to go down on you- assume you aint getting any. PEOPLE- we cant be giving head to every mofo out there. There are STDs out there… are you using dental dams? Giving head with condoms? Be safe.
I agree ImFresh: my man eats like a champ(!) so i have no problems giving him head whenever (and without hesitation). And i also agree that if a woman hesitates to go down on you- assume you aint getting any. PEOPLE- we cant be giving head to every mofo out there. There are STDs out there… are you using dental dams? Giving head with condoms? Be safe.
That is the truth. Thats why I always go first. “Lick first Suck Later” is My Motto
and the randomness of whether its good or not…she can be willing as hell but has heard teeth is sexy…LOL
I love giving head. i love to see the pleasure in my mans eyes when I wrap my tongue around his head.
men have their nerve…you're complaining about a “PAUSE” when a lot of men dont even fuckin eat pussy! imagine a woman's frustration!
How bout lick and suck at the same time??????, a lil thing i like to call the 69
Preach!!!!!!