7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date
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Written by Streetz for BlogXilla.com
When guys meet women, bag the number, and set up dates, we tend to think the hard work is over. Many guys I know don’t stress preparation for the first date. We think: “What’s so hard about the first date? You show up, speak, and she’ll love you, right?!” These are the same dudes who wonder why a shorty didn’t return a phone call or text from them ever again. Men commit common mistakes on first dates which can end their season before opening day like torn ACL’s. It may take some focus, consultation from friends, or plain old common sense, but men must work to avoid the following symptoms of a first date fail:
Talking too much - Fellas, you go out on dates to have a good time, get to know an interesting young lady, and to see if you’re going to score try to chill with her again. She isn’t there to INTERVIEW you. Some dudes will sit and tell a woman their entire life story, without ever asking her one question. Then when she finally gets a word in edgewise, you cut her off and spit another monologue! After a while, she won’t care that you drive a Benz, co-starred on an episode of PTwitty TV, or shot hoops with Obama. If she decided to let you take her out, she’s already intrigued by something about you. It’s now your duty to develop and cultivate that same intrigue on your end by letting her speak. Communication is essential on the first date. You both need to find out about each other, so you know if shorty is a 10 or a fraction. Conversation is a two way street, so stop swervin’ in the other lane!
Lack of home training – If you consume your meal like kindergarten kids at recess (burping, food all over your face, etc.), your sexiness will drop 700%. If you drove, and your throwing back double digit drinks, that means you show a lack of care for your date’s safety. Not to mention that you’re drunk,which will spell doom for all you lushes, lightweights, and “drink till we throw-up” lookin’ ass dudes. If you open no doors, not even one, or show some type of chivalry, she will know, trust me. If you act like a douche bag to waiters, store attendants, and other people, she’ll see that and wonder if you’ll act the same way to her. NOT a good look. Proper table etiquette and behaviour demonstrate character and personality. You can pay for school but you can’t buy class! (c) Jay-z
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