9 Tips To Calm Her Angry A$$ Down

Posted in Rated Grown Up on Mar 31, 2009

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Stay Cool Fool: If she is angry do not get mad at her, you can control the flow of the argument by staying calm and keeping a mellow tone to your voice. Kill them with kindness, if you raise your voice she will raise hers, at the end of the day the only person that can make you mad is yourself. So if you stay cool, she’ll not only calm down (eventually) she will more than likely think she lost the argument.

Pay Attention: Whatever the problem is, she will let you know what her major issue, so don’t brush her off. Listen to what her concerns are, because most time during an argument people argue about 2 totally different things. She might be mad at something that is easily fixed and he’s arguing an entirely different issue.

Put Your Self In Her Shoes: You don’t have to agree with her beef, to see the point in her argument. More than likely she doesn’t even expect you to understand why she is mad. She just wants you to realize why she see things a certain way. Acknowledging her concerns and seeing it from her angle can get you in bed having make up sex faster than you can say “put the condom on with your mouth.”

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  • honeybrown
    say no to the long drive ur ass be done came up missing...
  • Knowing how I am, I'd probably dip and come back when things have calmed down. I'd only take being fussed at or yelled at for so long until I start doing the same thing
  • I cant stand it when men stay cool..Makes me think they got something up their sleaves!
  • OxyGen
    I would absolutely hate if my SO walked out on me even though I try to walk away he always pulls me back...But if he did it, I would be so livid... It happened Sunday to be exact. I tried to walk out of the bathroom and he pulled me back... but when he walked out AND cut the light off, I wanted to kick him in the back of his knee caps... so being cool is always perfect.
  • EbonyLolita
    Good points :) Lemme find out you were paying attention in Conflict Resolution 101.
  • good point, i gotta RT this so more men will get it!
  • Lady Jei
    I have just copied and pasted this entire article and sent it to him. Good Lawd. Come clean is the best way. Because trust, the evidence is overwhelming, and there is always a point to why I am pissed-the-hell off.

    The best blog by far.
  • Lady Jei
    Amendment. I do NOT I repeat I do NOT, do the loud arguing and screaming. That is just not worth it at the end of the day. I am always calm. I do not allow a man to get me that riled up. Because 9 out of 10 times we can take that time to learn about what is making each other mad, come to a conclusion and learn from it and grow. I have never been the arguing type.

    And besides it makes you look old to do all of that arguing.
  • Its_whateva
    well said!!! lol
  • Bitchiemood
    I LOVE YOU FOR THIS POST!!!!!!!!!
  • i agree with the don't argue one 100%. it takes two people to argue and if you ain't sayin' nothing the argument ain't goin' nowhere. but i disagree with you xilla on the car drive... she could grab the wheel, throw it park while you driving.. then theres the cigarette lighter!
  • onebaddboo
    I'm not into arguing and drama (who really is now-a-days though) but I can't STAND for a man to walk out on me! I'm all for saying what you have to say (cus we both know we aren't going to come to an agreement) and then going our seperate ways for the time being.
  • DC_REALEST
    this post is 100 thousand trilllion on point!!
  • theFEMALE
    LMAO! at the Maury example.

    im not the arguing, fighting kind of woman.
    a nigga fuck up, and i have something better up my sleeve
  • It was all good until you said go for a long car ride.
    No, no especially if ole girl is the one rolling. If mister wasn't following steps 1-car ride.... consider his face on the milk carton or in one hell of a car crash. You don't want an angry woman behind the wheel of a car. Not safe for the passengers or other drivers. Yet if she agreed to the car ride probably means she's somewhat calmed but speaking from experience could be a trap..lol.
    Good points for sure.
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