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9 Tips To Calm Her Angry A$$ Down
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 31. Mar, 2009
“A man would prefer to come home to an unmade bed and a happy woman than to a neatly made bed and an angry woman.” Marlene Dietrich. One thing I have learned from my ex’s is not to battle an angry woman. I would try my hardest to get a woman to not be mad at me, but it never works. Fighting with an angry woman is like trying to wrestle a lion with an alligator attached your left leg. What I have learned though are a few methods to help a woman calm down from being angry.
Shut Up: As men we are always trying to come up with “facts” to help a woman understand, and by doing that we end up in deep doo doo. We will say something that will out us, or make it clear that we lied about something else. So the best thing to do if your woman is mad at you is to be quiet and don’t offer up anything she has not asked you.
Come Clean: I do not know why men insist on arguing when they know they are wrong. Perfect example, I was watching Maury, and this guy was on tape backstage kissing on the decoy, yet he still refused to admit that he did cheat on his girl. A woman can tell when a guy is lying and there is nothing they hate more than being lied to. At the end of the day, women are just like men, the quicker you tell the truth, the quicker she will get over it.
say no to the long drive ur ass be done came up missing…
Knowing how I am, I'd probably dip and come back when things have calmed down. I'd only take being fussed at or yelled at for so long until I start doing the same thing
I cant stand it when men stay cool..Makes me think they got something up their sleaves!
I would absolutely hate if my SO walked out on me even though I try to walk away he always pulls me back…But if he did it, I would be so livid… It happened Sunday to be exact. I tried to walk out of the bathroom and he pulled me back… but when he walked out AND cut the light off, I wanted to kick him in the back of his knee caps… so being cool is always perfect.
Good points
Lemme find out you were paying attention in Conflict Resolution 101.
good point, i gotta RT this so more men will get it!
I have just copied and pasted this entire article and sent it to him. Good Lawd. Come clean is the best way. Because trust, the evidence is overwhelming, and there is always a point to why I am pissed-the-hell off.
The best blog by far.
Amendment. I do NOT I repeat I do NOT, do the loud arguing and screaming. That is just not worth it at the end of the day. I am always calm. I do not allow a man to get me that riled up. Because 9 out of 10 times we can take that time to learn about what is making each other mad, come to a conclusion and learn from it and grow. I have never been the arguing type.
And besides it makes you look old to do all of that arguing.
well said!!! lol
I LOVE YOU FOR THIS POST!!!!!!!!!
i agree with the don't argue one 100%. it takes two people to argue and if you ain't sayin' nothing the argument ain't goin' nowhere. but i disagree with you xilla on the car drive… she could grab the wheel, throw it park while you driving.. then theres the cigarette lighter!
I'm not into arguing and drama (who really is now-a-days though) but I can't STAND for a man to walk out on me! I'm all for saying what you have to say (cus we both know we aren't going to come to an agreement) and then going our seperate ways for the time being.
this post is 100 thousand trilllion on point!!
LMAO! at the Maury example.
im not the arguing, fighting kind of woman.
a nigga fuck up, and i have something better up my sleeve
It was all good until you said go for a long car ride.
No, no especially if ole girl is the one rolling. If mister wasn't following steps 1-car ride…. consider his face on the milk carton or in one hell of a car crash. You don't want an angry woman behind the wheel of a car. Not safe for the passengers or other drivers. Yet if she agreed to the car ride probably means she's somewhat calmed but speaking from experience could be a trap..lol.
Good points for sure.