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And so why do i want to get married agian?

Being in a relationship takes so much work its something you have to put effort into where as being a player is basically doing you. Your own rules and everything. being a player is all about fun and selfishness, and a relationship takes all you time dedication and commitment, takes you being willing to give your all to someone

TheWiz....I'm soooo biting my tounge right now LOL!!!

LOL. . .Thanks for biting it

But once a man find's a woman he finds a good thing. God said so.

Its so easy to be selfish and not have to give much to someone else... relationships take effort and time and selflessness...

I liken a player to being a child. When you are a child you speak, think and reason as a child. Thus, you chase the women and go for self keeping everything on your terms. But when you grew up and become a man you have to put away childish things like that.

As a man you want to find a woman because like lady Jei said a man that finds a woman finds a good thing. God sai it. That's enough for me. Besides that, who wants to go from woman to woman. Eventually the player ends up lonely.

It is hard to find a woman and satisfy her in her entirety. That takes work. You've got to put your time in and not be mad about it. You've got to make your woman your top priority. Players don't want to do that. What they fail to realize is that once you find that woman and make yourself vulnerable to her and give everything you have to her she will return that Love in more ways than you can imagine.. Good post XIlla.

Hey xilla how do you feel about the Steve Harvey book, just a question? I wanted your take on it?

Blacksand pretty much said it all but I'd like to add...is it ever really hard to do wrong or to live selfishly etc????no its easy almost takes No real effort or thought and thats across the board not just relationships......

i might have to disagree with the bored part only b/c when you have a stable of freaks who you can call for this and that, once they are used for the things they are good for, it gets boring. for example, my xbox 360 is collecting dust, why b/c all the games i have has gotten old to me just as your stable will b/c you have had all the fun possible. once you realize "oh she got some good head" or "she get real wett" they will fail to amaze you. any real dude at some point and time will want something to come home to not just something to come home with. but all in all it is hard to stay committed to one person but its a two person thing, you and her both have to ready to be committed.

After a while, even players get bored with running around with different partners all the time. Eventually, a player will feel empty and used, and will want to be loved, valued and appreciated by a good person.

A good relationship brings fulfillment, security, true companionship, and happiness ... no matter how long it lasts, because NOTHING is greater than LOVE.

True to that on the last paragraph

great post! the rewards are way sweeter when you are in love, nothing like it!