I was in a relationship once with a girl I was giving the world to. I don't ask for much, just bring to my life what I can't buy. I held nothing back from her. I could tell though after a while that somthing wasn't quite right. It took attention from another female for me to recognize what was missing. My girl never listened to me. I try to live my life so I don't have to lie. So I sat my girl down and explained to her how I felt. I didn't yell, wasn't condescending. I looked her in the eye and poured out my heart. That was extremely difficult and it took tears to do it. I didn't mind. If a man can't cry with his girl who can he cry with right? The outcome: I've never felt so humiliated in my entire life. She still didn't listen and acted like what I was asking was unreasonable and she would do me the favor of doing what I wanted. Funny thing, it wasn't too long after that she complained that I never tell her how I feel like I used too. I don't blame her for it. Our relationship was the most postive one her family of 4 sisters and a mother had ever witnessed.

To most women that means “let me have my way.” and if you do let her have her way and it doesn't work out, “you should have been a man and not let me do it.” So how does a grown man stop a grown woman from doing anything?

Most of the time as men our value system is based on our ego and how things look to other men. We refuse to look bad. So if our heart is broken, we take that as an attack on our manhood and we'll go into another relatioship quickly or we'll sleep with a bunch of women to prove “we still, go it” or I don't need that chick anyway. Or our value system is that we are not a man if we don't have a women and some money. That leads men to make bad decisions.

Truth is, when as men do we have anyone to listen to us? Even when we were kids and we cried we were told to SHUT UP and BE a man. Or remember when you were in school, The guy who listened to women and was sensitive, never got dates. Even in most relationship I've witnessed, when a guy has a problem and opens up to his woman, she tells him he needs to figure that out on his own or call me back when you get your stuff together. Women on the other hand will express themselves, even when we don't want to hear it.

men who hit a woman “back” do it because they feel like they have been disrespected. self defense is rarely the incentive. you need to ask your self why your with a woman that disrespects your strength in the 1st place.

next time your 4 year old kid or senile grandmother throws a tantrum and hits you 1st remember to punch the shit out of them