Comments on: Ho No More

By: Sexy N Sassy

Sexy N Sassy — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 23:40:42 +0000

I dont know why these hoes do that. I mean like they have alot of nerve to even go there. Usually hoes only get recognize for being hoes. Thats something you could never live down, in my book. So I dont see why, when they get with a particular man they get this way. But no matter how much they try to change,they will always have hoe tendacies. Thats why you cant make a hoe into a house wife.

By: HeadMistress

HeadMistress — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 21:29:42 +0000

@ “That is a statement of personal opinion just as me saying i was rejecting a societal role.”

Yeah, I am a person and that is my opinion…

@ ” For you to agree that a double standard does exist but then say what YOU dont have the desire to be sound judgmental to me.”

Being judgmental within reason is not a bad thing.

Based on my upbringing, being a ho is not respectable or appealing (in a man or a woman) to me and I choose not to be that and YES, that is a form of judgment…its called personal judgment

Am I on a crusade to persecute those that choose to be hoes…NO, hence, my personal judgment is “within reason” as it only affects me and how I live my life

Every woman alive has faced some form of double standard, I'm sure most have chosen one DS or another to challenge and assert ourselves against…again personal choice and judgment dictates which DS we choose to conquer…

By: hazysin

hazysin — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:27:40 +0000

@ headmistress...There is a double standard but as far as I'm concerned it can stay forever because I have no desire to be like any man that sleeps around with random chicks..

That is a statement of personal opinion just as me saying i was rejecting a societal role. For you to agree that a double standard does exist but then say what YOU dont have the desire to be sound judgmental to me.

Being the only female with 10 brothers (including a twin) exposed me to that same double standard on a constant and daily basis until i was at a point where i could assert myself......

Oh but i can completely agree with you about the change thing though

By: The Undresser

The Undresser — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:55:16 +0000

lmao. If this entry isnt the truth, I don't know what is. Although, I'm never the “right guy”……I'm the dude that beat it up before u got to her……thankfully.

By: yes

yes — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 09:28:45 +0000

exactly

By: TRJ

TRJ — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:46:59 +0000

but you only got one life why not have fun before its too late and you married with 2 kids. i know for me all the sex im having right now is just so if and when i get married my wife could have the best stress reliever, so why she it be different for a woman to do the same?

By: TRJ

TRJ — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:41:57 +0000

but the thing about that is when the opposite sex tells you about their “adventurous” sex life it makes you wonder if this relationship yall are about to try going to fall down because either this is how she gets it in or whats going to happen when she see the next fly young dude? if a girl or a dude had sex wit A, B, and C when he or she gets to D what do you think they are going to do better yet how would you feel if you are D. nevertheless if the feelings are true between the two people then just as you said the past sex life would have to be accepted. i guess its all about both parties and their feelings.

By: TRJ

TRJ — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:30:27 +0000

i have met a couple females like this. when i ask the same question to them (in better choice of words of course) i get answers like “you make me feel special”. so i have came to the conclusion that it is us men who make them change their ways. i say this because if the tables are turned and i am the hoe its like i know when i want to just sleep with a female, that means no feelings are involved and everything we do together is only for me i dont care about her feelings and she dont make me feel anything other than when im cumming. however if i run into that one woman who makes me feel like “that nigga” and i aint even touch her yet then ima stop bullsh!tting. another reason is b/c when you have sex for the first couple times you will have some type of feelings for them people but once you make sex a habit it will not have a intimate sensation anymore but when you find that person who gives you that intimate sensation w/o any sex you will have a change of heart

By: BlogXilla

BlogXilla — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 01:28:38 +0000

I don't think it's about acting ho-ish I think it's more men wanting sex… and a man most likely isn't going to wife someone who's been around the block in the first place… but that doesn't mean we will treat them like shit either. We will still be nice to them still take them out and hell we might even get them a thing or two… we just want to have sex and i'll wait for a good women, but i'll be damn if i wait for a hoe.. makes no sense.

By: BlogXilla

BlogXilla — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 01:26:17 +0000

Yeah man I feel you, happens to me too. I think it's just the in thing for women to say… because i hear it all too often…