http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:32:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-2/#comment-4320 BeautifulBray Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:45:35 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4320 A close friend and I were actually just talking about this not too long ago. Not only guys, but girls as well can definitely work on being straightforward about what it is that they want. In regards to guys, some of them run around the truth so much that they don't even realize that 9 times out of 10 if they kept it 100 they could possibly get what they want. There are just as many chicks who are down for just getting smashed(not me) as there are guys who just want to smash. <br>As for the ladies if you're not down for fooling around with someone or are looking for a relationship, fooling with a dude in hopes that it'll turn into something that you want is NOT the mood. Then you get mad that he doesn't want to wife you or act up because ya'll aren't exclusive. To be honest you don't have a right to be upset, because just like he might not have been honest, neither were you... Both sides need to just say what they want. A close friend and I were actually just talking about this not too long ago. Not only guys, but girls as well can definitely work on being straightforward about what it is that they want. In regards to guys, some of them run around the truth so much that they don't even realize that 9 times out of 10 if they kept it 100 they could possibly get what they want. There are just as many chicks who are down for just getting smashed(not me) as there are guys who just want to smash.
As for the ladies if you're not down for fooling around with someone or are looking for a relationship, fooling with a dude in hopes that it'll turn into something that you want is NOT the mood. Then you get mad that he doesn't want to wife you or act up because ya'll aren't exclusive. To be honest you don't have a right to be upset, because just like he might not have been honest, neither were you… Both sides need to just say what they want.

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-2/#comment-4327 BeautifulBray Sat, 21 Mar 2009 01:45:35 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4327 A close friend and I were actually just talking about this not too long ago. Not only guys, but girls as well can definitely work on being straightforward about what it is that they want. In regards to guys, some of them run around the truth so much that they don't even realize that 9 times out of 10 if they kept it 100 they could possibly get what they want. There are just as many chicks who are down for just getting smashed(not me) as there are guys who just want to smash. <br>As for the ladies if you're not down for fooling around with someone or are looking for a relationship, fooling with a dude in hopes that it'll turn into something that you want is NOT the mood. Then you get mad that he doesn't want to wife you or act up because ya'll aren't exclusive. To be honest you don't have a right to be upset, because just like he might not have been honest, neither were you... Both sides need to just say what they want. A close friend and I were actually just talking about this not too long ago. Not only guys, but girls as well can definitely work on being straightforward about what it is that they want. In regards to guys, some of them run around the truth so much that they don't even realize that 9 times out of 10 if they kept it 100 they could possibly get what they want. There are just as many chicks who are down for just getting smashed(not me) as there are guys who just want to smash.
As for the ladies if you're not down for fooling around with someone or are looking for a relationship, fooling with a dude in hopes that it'll turn into something that you want is NOT the mood. Then you get mad that he doesn't want to wife you or act up because ya'll aren't exclusive. To be honest you don't have a right to be upset, because just like he might not have been honest, neither were you… Both sides need to just say what they want.

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4319 mkrob.com Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:43:47 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4319 As long as both parties understand and agree with what's going on, I see no problem with the smash and dip!!! As long as both parties understand and agree with what's going on, I see no problem with the smash and dip!!!

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4326 mkrob.com Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:43:47 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4326 As long as both parties understand and agree with what's going on, I see no problem with the smash and dip!!! As long as both parties understand and agree with what's going on, I see no problem with the smash and dip!!!

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4317 Isis Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:17:53 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4317 lol. .yeah i learned that the hard way lol. .yeah i learned that the hard way

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4325 Isis Thu, 19 Mar 2009 02:17:53 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4325 lol. .yeah i learned that the hard way lol. .yeah i learned that the hard way

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4314 Jane D Wed, 18 Mar 2009 22:18:06 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4314 girl yes....thatz why i don't even mess with it because all it takes is one time with a crazy and........ girl yes….thatz why i don't even mess with it because all it takes is one time with a crazy and……..

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4324 Jane D Wed, 18 Mar 2009 22:18:06 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4324 girl yes....thatz why i don't even mess with it because all it takes is one time with a crazy and........ girl yes….thatz why i don't even mess with it because all it takes is one time with a crazy and……..

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4311 Jane D Wed, 18 Mar 2009 22:15:22 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4311 Co-sign, Blacksand comes wit it....LOL Co-sign, Blacksand comes wit it….LOL

]]> http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/17/he-just-wanna-smash-and-thats-ok/comment-page-1/#comment-4322 Jane D Wed, 18 Mar 2009 22:15:22 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4672#comment-4322 Co-sign, Blacksand comes wit it....LOL Co-sign, Blacksand comes wit it….LOL

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