Questions Men Should Never EVER Ask

Posted in Uncategorized on Mar 12, 2009

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Written by Ms Sex ED

 

James Allen (1855-1942), a New Zealander statesman has been quoted as saying, “For true success ask yourself these four questions: Why? Why not? Why not me? Why not now?” And while I believe this to be true in general terms, it does not always ring true when it comes to relationships. Why is it that some men have to know all of your business? True, questions help you gain knowledge but it seems like the ones that aren’t even your man, want to know the most about your whereabouts. Then there are those rude questions that a man should never ask a woman period. Seriously dudes, what is up with the 21 questions? I’ve decided to outline questions that men just don’t need to ask (unless you have been with the chick for awhile) and why: 

WHO was that that just called you?

Okay seriously, why would you ask a female that? If she didn’t get off the phone and say, “That was Tracy, she wanted to know…” then she doesn’t find it necessary to tell you who was on the other line or why they called. This goes for text messages as well. This could warrant the response, “Why, you paying my bills?” No need to get upset if she doesn’t tell you. Do you really want her all in your phone every time your friends call? There are some things that are personal to people and they don’t think you should be questioning them about it.  

This includes:  “Who were you with last night? Who told you that? Who was the last dude you slept with?” 

 

WHAT do I gotta do to get with you?

If you have to ask this question, I can tell you the answer: Nothing! You don’t have to do a thing because she is not interested in you at all. Like I have said before, if a woman wants to be with a man, he will know. She will do or say something that lets him know he has the green light. How is a female supposed to answer that question anyway? “Well if you want to get with me you need to take me to the movies, buy me some flowers, and take me back home.” Is that the type of female you want? 

This includes:  “What do you want to do next time you see me? What time are you going to call me back? What would you do if we were alone together?” 

WHEN are you getting your hair done?

Whenever you make a statement about a females appearance (without her asking your opinion) be prepared for some type of backlash. Most women are sensitive about the way they look. So if she hasn’t gotten her hair done she could just be scrapped for cash. Now if you are asking because you want to pay for it, let this be known up front. For example, “Baby, why don’t you let me pay for you to get your hair done?” Now she still might respond with, “Why, what you trying to say?” But at least you tried. Best advice is to just leave the topic alone unless you all are really close. This goes for clothes as well.  

This includes:  “When you going to clean this kitchen? When you going to give me some head?” 
 

WHERE are you going tonight?

This is simple and is similar to the “Who was that that just called you?” If I didn’t tell you, it’s because I didn’t find it necessary that you know. 

This includes:  “Where did you get those shoes from? Where did you meet the last dude you slept with?” 

WHY don’t you swallow?

Many women are willing to (at some point) try something new with their partners but if you keep asking them over and over it becomes annoying and after awhile she wont do it simply because you keep asking. If she tells you why she doesn’t swallow and gives you an answer why, leave it at that. And if you just have to have a girl that swallows your baby batter find someone else, believe me, she will not mind. 

This includes: “Why didn’t you pick up the phone? Why do you have this single ply toilet tissue? Why don’t you shave?”  

HOW many dudes have you been with?

Why? Why do you want to know? You know you aren’t going to get an accurate number. Let’s say she says she’s been with 43 dudes, are you going to look at her differently? You asked and now you know. Never ask a question that you don’t really want to know the answer to.  

This includes:  “How many dudes have you banged on these sheets? How much money do you make?” 

What type of dumb questions have you been asked by males or females?


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  • I've never been one to ask those questions because it's a clear sign of insecurity.
  • natalia
    When you gon let me hit?
    Does me or ya man hit it better?

    Blah Blah Blah....dont worry bout it !!!!
  • Blacksand
    I have not and will not ask any of those questions. If you are handling your business you do not have too. The woman you are with will make it clear. That is all I have to say about that.
  • Best post ever....that's so true the dudes you not checking for are the main ones asking all the questions
  • MissSexED
    Thank you! I'm glad to know I am not alone on this.

    and please excuse the grammatical errors/typos. Ugh I hate that!
  • LOL, too funny. Yes, I'm never asking any of those questions...ever. I'm secretly terrified to do so. I like my girlfriend and I ain't trying to fuck it up.

    -Ed.
  • danielle the bedroom beast
    My ex boyfriend used to always ask me if i liked it right after sex. He would be like " baby you liked that right?" The first time it was iight, but to me if you ALWAYS have to ask me then something is obviously wrong..........I guess he had low self esteem lol
  • onebaddboo
    I completely agree!!!! I could understand if later on he made a reference to something new he tried and wanted to know if I liked it but needed to hear that I liked it is a no, no.

    He was there, HE SHOULD KNOW!
  • ihateu
    that ish happened to me too..omg it was so annoying...it we were together 4 times a night he was asking me 4 times...i started having nightmares with that question...
  • i don't think I've ever asked any of those questions. mainly because i'm a private person and i wouldn't want anyone asking me those questions. the question bout how many dudes she's slept with, i truly don't want to know. like you said i'm not going to be satisfied with the answer no matter what.

    i haven't been asked any type of ridiculous questions. maybe because i don't give off the vibe or act like i would invite such foolish behavior. lol.
  • Isis
    I hate that "Who was that"?. . bugs the hell outta me
    I had one dude ask me to change my hair color because it reminded him of his ex. (while mine was natural and hers was dyed)

    And never ask for a threesome if we wanted one we would tell you.
  • Once, me and my friends were out and this guy approached one of my friends and asked if her hair was real! BIG NO NO!!

    I don't think I've ever had a guy ask me stupid questions because they already know!
  • nynikki
    I was on a date and the guy thought it was OK to ask if I'd ever been pregnant! Whoo, I was caught so off guard and so offended. Men need to know this is NOT a first date question. Really I don't know when this question would be OK. Maybe right before you say "I do"? Help me out.
  • MissSexED
    Wow!!! Are you serious? Where do these guys come from? I don't know what I would've done
  • TheWiz
    my grandmother always told me "Never ask a women a ? you can't handle the answer too" . . .so I pick wisely what ?'s I ask . . .and I would never ask any of those
  • DomiMami
    Speaking of questions ole Wizzy one, what had-happened with baby moms and your main chick?

    I agree with that statement @Never ask a question you dont want the answer to.

    Men sometimes are more hypersensitive about our social lives, they forget all the shit they have done. If you want to marry a virgin, go the R Kelly route and get a 10 year old cuz girls today be buckin!

    Great post Ms. Sex Ed
  • MissSexED
    Thank you!
  • TheWiz
    I put all the cards on the table
  • DomiMami
    Good to hear. Did everything work out for the best.....OR did everything work out to your liking? And how long til your baby is due?
    I know we talked shit, but I wish you all the best.
  • TheWiz
    Everything worked out for the best.
    Baby is due late july/early august.

    Its cool i needed/deserved it, tough love. . . I can take it . . .lol

    Thanks
  • hunniebee724
    My ex used to ask me who was on the phone all the time....and then get mad if I didn't tell him right away. Drove me nuts....which is one of the reasons he's an ex!

    I've had guys ask if my ass was real.....if I wasn't only 5'1" I would've smacked them in the mouth!

    ~Melissa
  • MissSexED
    I get, "Is that your real hair?"

    Yes Motherf*cker!

    Some guys (that I don't even know) will try to feel my head for tracks!

    WTF?
  • hunniebee724
    Damn....at least they don't try to touch my ass....cause then they WOULD get smacked. It's like they never saw a white girl with a big booty. Even my EBD/SLD students have more respect than to ask stupid questions like these!

    ~Melissa
  • Blacksand
    Yal are becoming more prevalent. I think that is a good thing though. But in the end, eventually like Eddie Murphy said in Raw 1987 it's the Same ol ritz cracker.. Have a good weekend!
  • DomiMami
    LMBAO you aint shit for that one.
  • conscious
    whatever question you ask a women you'll never get a str8 answer
    their all liars! lol

    i ask what i want when i want, i have no limits, if you cant answer then thats your problem lol
  • DomiMami
    This aint all true.
    Im truthful and upfront always with my husband, but that still dont mean he will like the answers to my questions. Especially that damn sex partner one. But HEY, I aint an ordinary biotch.

    And there is a difference between NOT answering those questions you asked and lying about them
  • HeadMistress
    o_O @ "DID YOU CALM?"
  • onebaddboo
    I'm thinking she ment "did you cum", but I can't be too sure.....
  • HeadMistress
    LOL...me too but that's not even a typo, that's pure Oswald Bates type shyt...LMAO
  • DomiMami
    Damn repeat offenders
  • HeadMistress
    LMAO!
  • Just Saying
    Great post! I co-sign on the "is that your real hair?" Get that a lot. Plus my last boyfriend, in the beginning stages used to turn off my cell phone when he would come over. It's not till people call my house phone asking why my cell phone was off would I then go and check and it was off. This insecure muthafucker would turn it off everytime. Hated that. No who was that, what did they want...just straight turned it off.
  • MaMa_MIA
    Hahah good one friend...def questions you shouldnt ask because unlike some girls who want to be private i will tell you the real answer and i guarantee he won't be around much longer...However the only question I would NEVER answer is the "How many ppl you slept with" ... Thats oober private and no mines isnt a big # but thats something you share with your dude that has been with you for a min...

    LOL & THEWIZ i def agree with you! Never ask a question you not sure you want to kno
  • ihateu
    the dumbest question ever that i hear every day when i go out is ''are ur boobs real''?ughhhh i hate it..some guys r just pathetic...there r girls in this world who have 36dd from their mommas..including me;-)
  • Blacksand
    Ignore those ignorant dudes, they make it more difficult for real men like myself. God Bless you and the other women of the world who are walking around with homegrown 36dd's. Thank you Lord for creating them!!!! Have a great weekend ihateu. (SMILE)
  • ihateu
    thanks blacksand:P:Pyuppp i try to ignore but it's not working very well...i wish u a great weekend too(smile back ::) )
  • Blacksand
    You are welcome. Happy Monday to you. keep on smiling ihateu it makes the day brighter! Be easy!
  • Squishy
    I had somebody ask me very randomly, "You eva been wit a nigga from prison?"
    I took that as my hint to walk away and never look back. lol
    Part of me wanted to stay though... I wanted to see where that pick-up line was going. lol What could he have followed that one up with????
  • HeadMistress
    Wow, that shyt is funny!!!

    It almost reads like Will Smith's line in Bad Boys II when he asked that kid "You ever made love to a man?" LMAO
  • TheWiz
    LMFAO
  • ashley bell
    the one i hate is "when we gone go out on a date?" or "When you gone let me hit"...so annoying
  • Rashida
    most ridiculous ? ever:
    You ever have a penis bigger than mine?
    Why?? Why would a dude ask that?
  • TRJ
    i feel you those are some questions no dude should really ask although i have ask a few of them questions but i got all positive answers but still when i look back myself asking those questions i know i shouldnt have
  • FanceeFoxx
    Those were excellent questions and points brought out.

    What about that dumb question most blackmen ask, "DID YOU CALM?" Its really shows stupidity and lack of skills. However when a man got real skills-As it should be obvious.
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