Hugs And Kisses

Posted in Relationships on Mar 12, 2009

Kiss

As you stand there looking at the smile on your date’s face, as the two of your are about to part ways from a wonderful date. There is sexual tension sure, but this person was so nice you don’t want to seem like a whore or that you’re only out for sex. You want to kiss them, but you’re not sure of the message that it will send. What do you do?

So instead you engage in a long passionate hug telling them how wonderful of a time you had on this wonderful date. Because we all know after a wonderful date, you whole day is better. I’ve been there standing in front of a subway entrance wanting a kiss, wanting to ride back home with such a sweet girl, but not wanting to seem like the sex guy.

You feel this way because this person is different, sure you want to sleep with them and do all of the things you’ve probably read on previous post on blogxilla.com, but at this moment it’s not even important. What’s important is the advancement of this relationship. What’s important, is that you can see the smile on their face and feel the enjoyment and the pure happiness that person feels when they are around you. So you go home, and lay in your bed alone, hugging one of your extra pillows thinking that it’s your date, only filled with authentic goose down, instead of the lovely soul you’ve feel in love with.

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  • BabyHaitiGirl85
    So sweet
  • Blacksand
    The special beauty of the beginning of a relationship is priceless. It is the anticipation of experiencing something soft and tender in a world full of thunder.
  • shayna
    * sigh. . .. this just made me think of my ex.
    I agree the feeling of the beginning of a new relationship is pure bliss, until it ends :-/
    (if it does). Then in the end you think back to all the good times & then you wonder if you actually miss them, when we actually miss a feeling that we felt.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    i always wrastle with this....i am not a big fan of kissing. especially when people have a juicy mouf. YICK! i have big lips and they're soft and men always wanna kiss me... it grosses me out tho! EW! i love hugs tho, or body kisses...that's ok.... i think playing tonsil hockey right away is slutty tho... a nice peck or hug is fine... too much too soon never works!
  • Isis
    I hat kissing too. It pisses my bf off cause he loves it but I don't. I prefer a warm embrace any day.
  • kandy
    Definitly reminds me of my bf cuz we love kissing cant never get enough!! And when we do lay in our bed we dont want it to end. Hopfeully what we feel now will never end its a great feeling. And as you mentioned, on the first date, we did not kiss but when we did later on it was unforgettable!!
  • I really like kissing and the beggining of a relationship is priceless. That stage when you are still feeling each other out and wanting to learn new things. If only we could hold on to that part forever. Alas, that is not life. We get used to each other. We show our true colors. Its great when we still have that same feelings (or something close to it) as our relationships grow.
  • what?
    HUH? I'm so confused...Xilla did u write this?
  • nothing like the beginning of a relationship. i just had a flashback while i was reading this article.
  • Isis
    The beginning of a relationship is wonderful something about the newness. It puts you right back into vulnerable world of a child. the raw overwhelming emotion, the way simple things mean so much. The sentimental texts, staying on the phone while barley saying a word, loving gestures. The way the thought of that person can brighten your day. . . .then the newness wears off
  • Silly_Chi
    New relationships are the best there is... as said before the newness is something that excites u and scares you all at the same time. Kissing on the first date is fine as long as its a nice peck and a heartfelt hug. I loves kisses and they are the best when its with the person you really like or love. This entry is so true and I believe is a feelings that all are aware of...
  • nynikki
    I love the anticipation right before the first kiss. In that moment it's the best kiss you've ever had, because it hasn't happened yet - all potential. Most times the anticipation is better than the actual kiss. Sadly I've only been kissed well by one man and I let him slip away (dammit!)
  • hunniebee724
    Awww :-(

    The "new relationship" feeling *can* last though. Every time I'm with my fiance', it feels like the first date....except for the "getting to know you" conversation....now it's wedding planning and finances. We both still get butterflies and hate being away from each other. True love is amazing. There's always something to learn from a relationship that doesn't work out, so take them as learning experiences because one day you *will* find the right person. Things won't always be perfect, but you'll both be willing to work through those trying times no matter what it takes when it's really meant to be.

    ~Melissa
  • TRJ
    kissing expresses trust and love think bout it you are connecting your lips to another person's lips and tongue. i can almost guarantee if two people kiss one will have for the other. hugs can vary. however these actions go along woth sex in the sense that the more open you are with it the less meaning it has to you.
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