Letoya Luckett Blog: Why Are We Afraid To Be Alone?

Posted in Relationships on Mar 05, 2009

 

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Former Destiny Child member Letoya Luckett is the latest celebrity blogger on globalGrind.com and she is dropping some knowledge on relationships asking why are women afraid to be alone.

Why do we choose to stay in wack relationships when we know we deserve better? Is it the whole comfort thing or maybe low self esteem? Could it be that we would rather stay with an idiot than to face the “A” word?

Why are we so afraid of being alone??

Well I have to admit…..for someone who use to have that fear i’ve been single for awhile now &
I must say it ain’t that bad!!! I love getting know me & discovering who the hell I am.

When your in love u tend to get so caught up in the other person that u loose yourself. When u fall hard it’s a wrap. U put yourself second trying to satisfy them. Not cool!

Before getting into a new relationship we gotta know who we are, what we want, & what lines can’t be cross & stick to it!!!!

God has to come 1st in every decision u make. Trust me he will save u from getting into a lot of crazy situations. Let him be in the driver seat of your life.

For all of my fellow single ladies!!!!! While God is preparing our husbands, The man that he has hand made specifically for us. Let’s take this time to be “Married to Jesus”

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  • Sexy N Sassy
    She is so damn right, you have to have a relationship with god before you can develope one with a man. I always tell people god and my 11 year old son is my man. I know those two love me unconditonally!
  • Blacksand
    True indeed Ms. Sexy N Sassy, unconditional Love is given to us by God. Unconditional Love is what we desire from a man or a woman. That is why we sometimes look for Love in all the wrong places. All the while knowing that God has someone for us but resisting that idea because we may not be willing to take the time to prepare ourselves for the one God has for us. Peace & Blessings
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    this really bothers me about sistas! some non sistas too... i know women here so dayum desperate they PAY NIGGAS to be around them... sponsoring all the dates, getting clothes, and begging for the smallest bit of attention! i tell my girls all the time that they should love themselves, enjoy doing different things and men, and learn to date themselves.... at least twice a month i treat myself to a manipedi, great meal, and great fugg... i love me enough to treat myself to the best of everything that i can afford.... i love dating myself... once i got to that pt, men began loving to date me too...
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