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	<title>Comments on: 3 Great Reasons Men Don&#8217;t Holla At You</title>
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		<title>By: peepo</title>
		<link>http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/03/03/3-great-reasons-men-dont-holla-at-you/comment-page-2/#comment-15813</link>
		<dc:creator>peepo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 May 2009 10:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ok my two cents, as a young 20 yr old black female who lives in new orleans, and who is going to med school.&lt;br&gt;I hate it when black guys talk to me and try to get my attention because they just don&#039;t know when to quit. I even get attention from ones who are old enough to be my father. and young ones who come for campus tours in high school. as someone who isn&#039;t really comfortable with starting a relationship with someone I meet on the sidewalk, it is really annoying. There are appropriate situations like clubs, parties, etc, but not on the sidewalk, at wal-mart while i&#039;m buying tampons, or when I AM WITH A GUY FRIEND, or when I am talking to one of my professors. It does not make me feel special, it makes me feel like a walking vagina. It doesn&#039;t make me feel special because the feelings are grounded in anything stable or real. They are based on impulse. Now a guy friend I meet in class that starts to like me after we&#039;ve been friends for awhile-it shows me he likes me for more than just superficial, stupid reasons-stuff that doesn&#039;t last forever. stuff that can dissapear in a car wreck or something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ok my two cents, as a young 20 yr old black female who lives in new orleans, and who is going to med school.<br />I hate it when black guys talk to me and try to get my attention because they just don&#39;t know when to quit. I even get attention from ones who are old enough to be my father. and young ones who come for campus tours in high school. as someone who isn&#39;t really comfortable with starting a relationship with someone I meet on the sidewalk, it is really annoying. There are appropriate situations like clubs, parties, etc, but not on the sidewalk, at wal-mart while i&#39;m buying tampons, or when I AM WITH A GUY FRIEND, or when I am talking to one of my professors. It does not make me feel special, it makes me feel like a walking vagina. It doesn&#39;t make me feel special because the feelings are grounded in anything stable or real. They are based on impulse. Now a guy friend I meet in class that starts to like me after we&#39;ve been friends for awhile-it shows me he likes me for more than just superficial, stupid reasons-stuff that doesn&#39;t last forever. stuff that can dissapear in a car wreck or something.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 08:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>U should put up a new picture because it completely juxtaposes what you are saying in your article, those girls look awful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>U should put up a new picture because it completely juxtaposes what you are saying in your article, those girls look awful.</p>
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		<title>By: 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 08:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>U should put up a new picture because it completely juxtaposes what you are saying in your article, those girls look awful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>U should put up a new picture because it completely juxtaposes what you are saying in your article, those girls look awful.</p>
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		<title>By: 1</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 08:55:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>U should put up a new picture because it completely juxtaposes what you are saying in your article, those girls look awful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>U should put up a new picture because it completely juxtaposes what you are saying in your article, those girls look awful.</p>
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		<title>By: Isis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 11:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m right behind you, as much as I would love to love a black man its just don&#039;t seem latent right now. I just started opening up my circle and I have to say I like it. Thoughtful, romantic, mind blowing dates. What more can you ask for.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You usually find love in the last place it seemed possible. If more women would realize that it starts that way (loving oneself ) then the better off we&#039;d all be</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m right behind you, as much as I would love to love a black man its just don&#39;t seem latent right now. I just started opening up my circle and I have to say I like it. Thoughtful, romantic, mind blowing dates. What more can you ask for.</p>
<p>You usually find love in the last place it seemed possible. If more women would realize that it starts that way (loving oneself ) then the better off we&#39;d all be</p>
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		<title>By: Isis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 11:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m right behind you, as much as I would love to love a black man its just don&#039;t seem latent right now. I just started opening up my circle and I have to say I like it. Thoughtful, romantic, mind blowing dates. What more can you ask for.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You usually find love in the last place it seemed possible. If more women would realize that it starts that way (loving oneself ) then the better off we&#039;d all be</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m right behind you, as much as I would love to love a black man its just don&#39;t seem latent right now. I just started opening up my circle and I have to say I like it. Thoughtful, romantic, mind blowing dates. What more can you ask for.</p>
<p>You usually find love in the last place it seemed possible. If more women would realize that it starts that way (loving oneself ) then the better off we&#39;d all be</p>
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		<title>By: Isis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Isis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 11:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m right behind you, as much as I would love to love a black man its just don&#039;t seem latent right now. I just started opening up my circle and I have to say I like it. Thoughtful, romantic, mind blowing dates. What more can you ask for.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You usually find love in the last place it seemed possible. If more women would realize that it starts that way (loving oneself ) then the better off we&#039;d all be</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m right behind you, as much as I would love to love a black man its just don&#39;t seem latent right now. I just started opening up my circle and I have to say I like it. Thoughtful, romantic, mind blowing dates. What more can you ask for.</p>
<p>You usually find love in the last place it seemed possible. If more women would realize that it starts that way (loving oneself ) then the better off we&#39;d all be</p>
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		<title>By: Thoney Gangstasweet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thoney Gangstasweet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 10:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes! this guy recently ran that line on me. i was so buy playin mean i didn&#039;t see ur comment... honey,&quot;i&#039;m sorry sweetheart i&#039;m dating someone, but i&#039;m really flattered fa real....&quot; &quot;so yo guy don&#039;t let u have buddie? u don&#039;t need to be witta man that control u...&quot; honey,&quot; its not that, its that i don&#039;t believe in extrage penis&#039;s up in my situration...i have enough buddies and friends, and sponsors that spend...there&#039;s no room for you in my crazy party of a life.&quot;  &quot;shawty u funny tho. i like yo smile and u thick as hell. u need to get off that!&quot;[at this point me and my unofficial escort have walked a whole city block and a half!] honey,&quot; u know what...i&#039;m laughing AT you and tired....can you ride me on yo back? if not i&#039;ma need u to leave me alone joe. i gotta gets back to the ghetto&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;random story from a random blogger. the end.... :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes! this guy recently ran that line on me. i was so buy playin mean i didn&#39;t see ur comment&#8230; honey,&#8221;i&#39;m sorry sweetheart i&#39;m dating someone, but i&#39;m really flattered fa real&#8230;.&#8221; &#8220;so yo guy don&#39;t let u have buddie? u don&#39;t need to be witta man that control u&#8230;&#8221; honey,&#8221; its not that, its that i don&#39;t believe in extrage penis&#39;s up in my situration&#8230;i have enough buddies and friends, and sponsors that spend&#8230;there&#39;s no room for you in my crazy party of a life.&#8221;  &#8220;shawty u funny tho. i like yo smile and u thick as hell. u need to get off that!&#8221;[at this point me and my unofficial escort have walked a whole city block and a half!] honey,&#8221; u know what&#8230;i&#39;m laughing AT you and tired&#8230;.can you ride me on yo back? if not i&#39;ma need u to leave me alone joe. i gotta gets back to the ghetto&#8221; </p>
<p>random story from a random blogger. the end&#8230;. <img src='http://blogxilla.com/blog3/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Thoney Gangstasweet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thoney Gangstasweet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 10:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes! this guy recently ran that line on me. i was so buy playin mean i didn&#039;t see ur comment... honey,&quot;i&#039;m sorry sweetheart i&#039;m dating someone, but i&#039;m really flattered fa real....&quot; &quot;so yo guy don&#039;t let u have buddie? u don&#039;t need to be witta man that control u...&quot; honey,&quot; its not that, its that i don&#039;t believe in extrage penis&#039;s up in my situration...i have enough buddies and friends, and sponsors that spend...there&#039;s no room for you in my crazy party of a life.&quot;  &quot;shawty u funny tho. i like yo smile and u thick as hell. u need to get off that!&quot;[at this point me and my unofficial escort have walked a whole city block and a half!] honey,&quot; u know what...i&#039;m laughing AT you and tired....can you ride me on yo back? if not i&#039;ma need u to leave me alone joe. i gotta gets back to the ghetto&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;random story from a random blogger. the end.... :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes! this guy recently ran that line on me. i was so buy playin mean i didn&#39;t see ur comment&#8230; honey,&#8221;i&#39;m sorry sweetheart i&#39;m dating someone, but i&#39;m really flattered fa real&#8230;.&#8221; &#8220;so yo guy don&#39;t let u have buddie? u don&#39;t need to be witta man that control u&#8230;&#8221; honey,&#8221; its not that, its that i don&#39;t believe in extrage penis&#39;s up in my situration&#8230;i have enough buddies and friends, and sponsors that spend&#8230;there&#39;s no room for you in my crazy party of a life.&#8221;  &#8220;shawty u funny tho. i like yo smile and u thick as hell. u need to get off that!&#8221;[at this point me and my unofficial escort have walked a whole city block and a half!] honey,&#8221; u know what&#8230;i&#39;m laughing AT you and tired&#8230;.can you ride me on yo back? if not i&#39;ma need u to leave me alone joe. i gotta gets back to the ghetto&#8221; </p>
<p>random story from a random blogger. the end&#8230;. <img src='http://blogxilla.com/blog3/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Thoney Gangstasweet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thoney Gangstasweet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 10:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yes! this guy recently ran that line on me. i was so buy playin mean i didn&#039;t see ur comment... honey,&quot;i&#039;m sorry sweetheart i&#039;m dating someone, but i&#039;m really flattered fa real....&quot; &quot;so yo guy don&#039;t let u have buddie? u don&#039;t need to be witta man that control u...&quot; honey,&quot; its not that, its that i don&#039;t believe in extrage penis&#039;s up in my situration...i have enough buddies and friends, and sponsors that spend...there&#039;s no room for you in my crazy party of a life.&quot;  &quot;shawty u funny tho. i like yo smile and u thick as hell. u need to get off that!&quot;[at this point me and my unofficial escort have walked a whole city block and a half!] honey,&quot; u know what...i&#039;m laughing AT you and tired....can you ride me on yo back? if not i&#039;ma need u to leave me alone joe. i gotta gets back to the ghetto&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;random story from a random blogger. the end.... :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yes! this guy recently ran that line on me. i was so buy playin mean i didn&#39;t see ur comment&#8230; honey,&#8221;i&#39;m sorry sweetheart i&#39;m dating someone, but i&#39;m really flattered fa real&#8230;.&#8221; &#8220;so yo guy don&#39;t let u have buddie? u don&#39;t need to be witta man that control u&#8230;&#8221; honey,&#8221; its not that, its that i don&#39;t believe in extrage penis&#39;s up in my situration&#8230;i have enough buddies and friends, and sponsors that spend&#8230;there&#39;s no room for you in my crazy party of a life.&#8221;  &#8220;shawty u funny tho. i like yo smile and u thick as hell. u need to get off that!&#8221;[at this point me and my unofficial escort have walked a whole city block and a half!] honey,&#8221; u know what&#8230;i&#39;m laughing AT you and tired&#8230;.can you ride me on yo back? if not i&#39;ma need u to leave me alone joe. i gotta gets back to the ghetto&#8221; </p>
<p>random story from a random blogger. the end&#8230;. <img src='http://blogxilla.com/blog3/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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