Break Bread
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If you’re sleeping with someone the least you can do is spend money on the person. A smart person once said “The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less.” I can’t agree more, there is so many emotional battles involved with sex and love, that it really takes a toll on your body, mind, and heart. So why not get a little compensation out of the whole deal right?
A lot of women don’t believe in spending money on a man, some women will spend money, but won’t buy him sneakers. I guess they don’t want him to walk out of their life. Many men, are tighter than Kanye’s new pair of jeans when it comes to breaking bread with their lady. I believe it’s common courtesy to spend money on the person you’re sleeping with, and this goes for men and women.
Eventhough I believe this one thing that can never be done is throwing the things you’ve done in a person’s face. I dealt with a woman who spent a lot of money on me, mainly because i was down and out at the time. But since we broke up she continues to throw it in my face, sure she had more than me, but as a girlfriend it was something she should have done. Well at least that’s how I see things. When it comes to money and my lady I’m spending money, I’ll buy small gifts, spend money for a trips and events. While you don’t need money for a good time, it certainly helps. You can have a good time and open yourself up to new ad exciting things.
Some of my lady friends are shocked when I openly say if I’m f*cking them I have no problem spending money on them or giving them money. If you tell me you like a pair of shoes, I’ll ask how much are they, if I think something would look nice on you, please expect a text message asking what size you wear. Now don’t get me wrong I don’t do this with just any chick, because jump offs get nothing but hard D’ and bubble gum and maybe the occasional meal at their favorite restaurant.
What’s your stance on spending money on the person you’re sleeping with?
