I think here we have a case of the old, “Want to have your cake and eat it too.” I always say, well yea, who wants cake they cant eat? But in this case, not so. Why? Peoples lives and hearts are involved. To me, the situation was bad in the beginning, but it went from bad to WORSE when the child came into play. I dont really agree with people being selfish, but its almost okay to do it when you have just the adults involved, to bring children into it is just wrong.

So heres my advice, be the best father that you can be to that child. Forget about your current girlfriend and your childs mother. Put all feelings aside and give this INNOCENT child what he/she deserves. He/she didnt ask for this, so just step up, and do what a real man does and take care of your child.

Much success and blessings to you…Good Luck.