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I have had phenominal dick in my life and I still think that sex is overrated.sometimes I wish my ass had stayed a virgin.

I can't so sign that... I was feeling like sex might be overrated UNTIL the moment I had phenomenal dick!! I can't identify with ole girl. I believe you can't miss what you've never had, but if you've had good dick, you can't tell me you don't miss it if you're not getting it anymore.

true true.I think the reason behind my thinking is for one,I only get my "phenomenal" dick ever so often :/, and two,even if its off the charts good,i seem to never be really satisfied.

@ Chinky Girl I feel you on that

It maybe so worth it if you could find great dick the first time you have it, but even then if you get it the first time you wouldn't know what you were doing anyway.

What is the correlation between a man having good dick and have his ish together?

Xilla will you put it on me? Cuz I feel the same way she does

I see what she's saying. I don't think ALL sex is overrated. I've had some outrageously good sex in my day. BUT... i think sex with most men is overrated, cuz a lot of men are really reserved, or their stroke is just WACK. There are certain things a man needs to do to keep sex exciting for me. He's gotta eat pussy, he's gotta know how to dominate, and surprise me sometimes.

I feel what she's saying about toys in the bedroom. Most men freak out about it. I think they key is to pick a small, simple toy. Like a bullet (the kind that you twist to start. Not the kind with the wire and remote). Something small, simple, and cute.

Nothing with wires, straps, and for goodness sake... no VEINS! and anything bigger than his dick is automatically out of the question (So no Rabbit. That's a solo toy).

sex toys in bedroom is a must. most men are ok with it now.

For the ones talking about sex is overrated, you should definitely incorporate some adult toys into the mix to get you where you need to be.

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I do think alot of times we are "chasing the dragon" of good peen/vag. That one or those 2 mind blowing experience(s). I can only think of one person who was the truth (not that there was a plethora to choose from.) That's why I started an indefinite break from sex quite a while ago.

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Your still single Xilla, cause you need an "equal" in your life...such as myself! Too bad i'm in Pittsburgh! :)---

All of you are just talking about sex. Sex without Love can be ridiculous but it is unfulfilling. That is why you feel the way you feel. The sex is a physical act that we derive pleasure from. When Love is introduced on both sides it becomes emotional. You are then fulfilled because the possibilities of Love are endless. Therefore, he does what you want him to do to satisfy you and you will do what you need to do to fulfill him. Love is what makes sex fulfilling.

I'm gonna have to co-sign this one...not tryna be preachy but sex WITH love is the best. If that's not your situation right now, at least have a partner that you are comfortable with being able to share fantasies, try new things, and being uninhibited with your partner can also make a big difference.

If she'd throw Scooby out the bed, that might improve her sex life.

hmm. if all the guys she has had sex with are wack it MIGHT have something to do with her or maybe she just hasn't met the right guy.

sex is not overrated. many people just didn't have a chance to get the best of sex yet

No doubt. If it's overrated, then you are not doing it right. Try adding some adult toys to spice things up and to make sure you are expressing your needs.

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