Comments on: Are You A Side Chick http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sun, 22 Nov 2009 09:41:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5533 HeadMistress Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:03:13 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5533 Definitely agree there...I can't imagine my life before BlogXilla...LOL...human behavior is soo intriguing, and a noninvasive peek into other peoples experiences and viewpoints can definitely be beneficial... Definitely agree there…I can't imagine my life before BlogXilla…LOL…human behavior is soo intriguing, and a noninvasive peek into other peoples experiences and viewpoints can definitely be beneficial…

]]> By: Buzzy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5529 Buzzy Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:34:51 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5529 wait did i say "just was"....I was just enjoying the convo...... wait did i say “just was”….I was just enjoying the convo……

]]> By: Buzzy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5524 Buzzy Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:33:43 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5524 Nope, just was enjoying the conversation. Sometimes these discussions can get really heated face to face, so when you can have a good, calm discussion with people that have a different belief, it can be fun, and rewarding. And I think you expressed your viewpoint well, I just wanted to throw mine in the discussion. <br>And yes miserable people are yuck....so we can agree on that for sure! :) Nope, just was enjoying the conversation. Sometimes these discussions can get really heated face to face, so when you can have a good, calm discussion with people that have a different belief, it can be fun, and rewarding. And I think you expressed your viewpoint well, I just wanted to throw mine in the discussion.
And yes miserable people are yuck….so we can agree on that for sure! :)

]]> By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5505 HeadMistress Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:30:42 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5505 Thanks...<br><br>What you have is rare, so cherish it and congrats on achieving it!!!<br><br>I think what you said here - "Hell, If I get that craving every once in awhile for some outside dick (or pussy for that matter) all I gotta do is tell my husband and we would make that happen quicker than rabbits buck!" - is very important, the fact that your marriage and your communication with your husband is such that you can both knowingly and willingly make happen what you need to make happen is a subject that most couples won't even broach...<br><br>An open relationship is not for everyone but if someone from the outside is invited in it should be at the comfort and knowledge of both partners in the marriage/relationship...there is no peace or love to be had in anyone's life/union when there are secrets and betrayals Thanks…

What you have is rare, so cherish it and congrats on achieving it!!!

I think what you said here – “Hell, If I get that craving every once in awhile for some outside dick (or pussy for that matter) all I gotta do is tell my husband and we would make that happen quicker than rabbits buck!” – is very important, the fact that your marriage and your communication with your husband is such that you can both knowingly and willingly make happen what you need to make happen is a subject that most couples won't even broach…

An open relationship is not for everyone but if someone from the outside is invited in it should be at the comfort and knowledge of both partners in the marriage/relationship…there is no peace or love to be had in anyone's life/union when there are secrets and betrayals

]]> By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5520 HeadMistress Sun, 15 Feb 2009 23:13:50 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5520 I'm not knocking your happiness nor does it rub me the wrong way, other people's happiness detracts nothing from me, in fact it makes life better, miserable people are the worst, more happiness is needed...<br><br>Everyone has a different belief system, I can respect that without agreeing, and I don't believe for one minute that you should care about my viewpoint, but YOU replied to MY initial comment... sooooo maybe the lady doth protest too much I'm not knocking your happiness nor does it rub me the wrong way, other people's happiness detracts nothing from me, in fact it makes life better, miserable people are the worst, more happiness is needed…

Everyone has a different belief system, I can respect that without agreeing, and I don't believe for one minute that you should care about my viewpoint, but YOU replied to MY initial comment… sooooo maybe the lady doth protest too much

]]> By: Buzzy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5515 Buzzy Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:41:30 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5515 Oh, I don't care if you disagree, I'm just stating my viewpoint....just a good old fashion discussion....different viewpoints, and different opinions.....nothing serious. You gave your opinion, i gave mine. And is being and saying you're happy some evil sceam to destroy the world, because saying you're happy seems to rub some folks the wrong way..... Oh, I don't care if you disagree, I'm just stating my viewpoint….just a good old fashion discussion….different viewpoints, and different opinions…..nothing serious. You gave your opinion, i gave mine. And is being and saying you're happy some evil sceam to destroy the world, because saying you're happy seems to rub some folks the wrong way…..

]]> By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5513 HeadMistress Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:20:53 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5513 The interpretation of FEAR...the feeling of someone trying to force you to conform...you got all that from the opinions of strangers???<br><br>If you truly believe you're decent, disagreeance from other's shouldn't matter...<br><br>So as long as YOU'RE sure about your choices, carry on and be happy, from all your posts it sounds like you believe that you are... The interpretation of FEAR…the feeling of someone trying to force you to conform…you got all that from the opinions of strangers???

If you truly believe you're decent, disagreeance from other's shouldn't matter…

So as long as YOU'RE sure about your choices, carry on and be happy, from all your posts it sounds like you believe that you are…

]]> By: Buzzy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5509 Buzzy Sun, 15 Feb 2009 21:55:11 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5509 Yes, but I don't and won't allow someone to force me to conform to what they believe is decent. I'm decent, but I view it differently. Yes, but I don't and won't allow someone to force me to conform to what they believe is decent. I'm decent, but I view it differently.

]]> By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5507 HeadMistress Sun, 15 Feb 2009 21:43:41 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5507 Everything I typed was about Common Decency. Everything I typed was about Common Decency.

]]> By: Buzzy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/13/are-you-a-side-chick/comment-page-1/#comment-5506 Buzzy Sun, 15 Feb 2009 21:12:04 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=4260#comment-5506 Everything you typed was about FEAR....and since i don't live my life based on FEAR....well......<br><br>I think Karma is one of those things that is dipped in fear. Fear of living, fear of being happy, of living the life that you want to live.....do I believe in right and wrong....I guess to an extent yes, force is wrong, violence is wrong, oppression is wrong, etc, but these are things that are wrong on a soulful level, they are things that are wrong because of how they feel to the soul.....but having sex with a consenting adult doesn't strike me as wrong.....I think the whole point of karma is to believe that god will punish you for not following some word or order.....I don't believe in THAT god....I believe in the one, that knows perfection doesn't exist. <br>For me this has nothing to do with a closed heart or karma, it's about me living the way I choose without fear, without taking away someone's free will, without oppression, without violence, all in peace and love......can you tell I grew up with open, hippie, granola eating, vegetarian, parents? Everything you typed was about FEAR….and since i don't live my life based on FEAR….well……

I think Karma is one of those things that is dipped in fear. Fear of living, fear of being happy, of living the life that you want to live…..do I believe in right and wrong….I guess to an extent yes, force is wrong, violence is wrong, oppression is wrong, etc, but these are things that are wrong on a soulful level, they are things that are wrong because of how they feel to the soul…..but having sex with a consenting adult doesn't strike me as wrong…..I think the whole point of karma is to believe that god will punish you for not following some word or order…..I don't believe in THAT god….I believe in the one, that knows perfection doesn't exist.
For me this has nothing to do with a closed heart or karma, it's about me living the way I choose without fear, without taking away someone's free will, without oppression, without violence, all in peace and love……can you tell I grew up with open, hippie, granola eating, vegetarian, parents?

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