7 Reasons You Might Be The Other Dude (M3)

Posted in Relationships on Feb 13, 2009

Photo By Dallas Logan

Photo By Dallas Logan

Have you ever just kicked it w/o spending $$ on her?

Well if you havent then you are not the main dude. If everytime she sees you it is meeting you at a restaurant, club or some other place where you will be paying for everything, shes not that into you. Chances are, YOU MIGHT BE THE M3 (Meal, Money, & a Movie)

When you go out does she ALWAYS bring a friend?

    If she always has that one homegirl with her when you go out, Chances are, YOU MIGHT BE THE M3 (Meal, Money, & a Movie). She always brings the friend with her because #1 Ain’t no fun if the homie can’t have none and #2 If she sees her MAIN dude out, the friend knows to distract you and act like it’s you & her on the date!!!

Xilla Bonus: If She Only Hangs Out With You Once A Month for Sex:
Or only allows you to perform one sexual act on her, be it hitting it from the back, going down, or riding the ManXilla. You’re probably the side dude.

What are some other signs that he’s your side dude?

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  • KiitheFABone
    LMAO!!! Yessss iLove this list!! M3, hahahahahaha! U go girl! Xilla good lookin on that bonus!! Some men are so out of the loop...school em'!!!!
  • Xilla
    I know, if you're a side dude be a side dude. I think that the difference between men and women if a chick finds out she's just been the side chick she's out, but a dude.. just tell him you plan on keeping him around and he's going stay just like a damn dog. I know this because i've been there lol stay'd put like a damn german shepherd
  • KiitheFABone
    *dead* @ the german shepard!!! Whether ur a M3 or a Side Chick(been there)...it's all about playing your postion! ! I've had a M3 ...actually just let him go recently. He not only stayed put , but he performed tricks on command too! LMAO!
  • Xilla
    Sit UBU SIT good boy!! lol
  • Summer Warm
    roflmsao this post is he larry us! if she will never go out in public with you, ur a m3!! I love it i'm using that.
  • shelly
    this here is so true... ive had " the other dude" before...they may never get my real name.... i only text them at certain times of the day.. and coming to my crib is big no no!! fellas pay attention to this.. take notes!! xilla u think u ever been the other dude?
  • Xilla
    I know i've been the side dude. I'm not sure if i've unknownly been the side dude. I play that position very well!! lol Maybe that's why i can't get a girlfriend because i've done slept with so many other dudes chicks... That was in my past though.
  • DC_REALEST
    all this may be true....but if you layin dat PIPE right you str8.
  • cherishcarver08
    damn just letting all the secrets out. I have never had a M3 but I have been the distracting friend.lol
  • Xilla
    All the man secrets I let out, the least a female can do is let a few dudes know what the deal is!! lol
  • This list is soooo on point...lol

    another way to knw if you're a side dude is if she doesn't give you a professional AT ALL.... she's not gonna risk taking something back to the main dude....lol (tht's too hard to get out of)....

    Also ur the side dude if after sex, she' gets dressed fast...(shoes and all) or keeps half of her clothes on during sex...lol
  • Isis
    LOL. . . .I have done that (put my clothes on faster then the speed of light and be gone. . lol)

    I hope my side dude is not reading this I just might be caught. . .
  • Hhahahaha lol...I knw right...

    One time the guy went to clean himself up & he came back & I was completely dressed & in the process of putting my shoes on...lol

    He was like "u have someplace you need to be?" I was like nah...just putting my clothes on...lol

    And if ur M3 is reading this he'll still stay so no worries girl lol
  • Isis
    LOL. . .I got u beat. . . i made it to the car . . .and down the block (he had fell asleep) when I got the "where did u go" call. . .lol. . .My response was "Home of course, but dont worry u were great, later days". . .lol

    LOL. . .I know, I just hate when they get a little insight and feel they have it all figured out
  • Hahahaha I never made it that far lol....

    Wait I'm lying....one guy I made it super far lol....he fell asleep afterwards, I made it out the door, to the car over the bridge, home, in the shower, then I got the phone call...

    I put his ass to bed lol
  • Isis
    ROTFLMFAO. . . . .WOW
  • KiitheFABone
    LOL...Guilty as the day is long!!!
  • J. Lewis
    Man who can you trust nowadays? Everybody on some reindeer games! I play my position Chris Brown style...take u down *bop bop*
  • LMAO!!!! hahahaha thts funny

    U can't trust no one nowadays but urself & half the time u can't trust urself lmao!!!!
  • Isis
    Preach
  • MrWhisperz
    Should I be ashamed to admit I am a side dude? :(
  • Isis
    Of course not
  • Sugah Honey
    MY CURRENT M3 GOT THE BIGGEST DICK BUT HE'S DUMB AS A MUTHAFUCKER HE HAS NO CLUE HES MY SIDE NIGGA AND IF HIS DICK WASNT SO GOOD ID CUT HIS ASS FASTER THAN A LITTLE DICK NIGGA BUSTS A NUT. HE WANNA HANG TOMORO BOY BYE!
  • rodeosbest
    If she wraps the used condom in a piece of foil and inserts into a used soda can after you have sex... chances are you are a M3...
    LMBAO
  • I'm LOVIN' it!!!

    UH OH, Now it AAAAAALLLLLLLLL makes sense.
  • Nixx_01
    This list is telling too many secrets. Especially the bonus Xilla!
  • Noodle
    Boy stop.

    You just called yourself an m3, which means you are "the other man" to atleast one of those girls. And while your out having a good time with one of your sidechicks best believe your wifey is mailing some coworker complaining about how you treat her, and he is ready waiting for that weak moment of hers, when she wants to be comforted...lol.

    I had an m3 once, it was cool, until he started calling me crying even, why I don't come over. I had to call it off right then and there, told him, he was only the jump off, and I couldn't come over, because I was with my dude .Evil, but hey, stop bothering me, you're not that fine.
  • karizma
    and thas another thing , my wife is not treated bad at least not on the surface so she straight. all she ever wanted was a provider a few kids good job and nice house and cars, the rest of the stuff , she dont worry bout
  • Twz
    women think they do it better than men... problem is, when the truth comes out about what you do, men are fine. women will be get a bad rep, men will most likely attract more women.
  • karizma
    i must be a bad nigga cause im married and i got two side women that are faithful to me, but i must admit i am m3. in atl it is crazy what women will accept
  • karizma
    unfaithful women are so unnattractive, seriously. If a women hit me wit the " i got a man but" line, please get the hell outta my face and i dont care hw fine she is
  • Isis
    How are married with two side chicks but you find unfaithful women unattractive ???? (just curious)
  • yes
    right! wtf? u shouldnt be worried about them anyway, u already married
  • karizma
    i hoenstly dont think women want to be unfaithful and can very easily be faithful to the right man, so when i meet awomen that has a "man" attitude toward relationships and sex. its kind of a turn off to me. I may be wrong but thats how i feel.
  • yes
    so its okay for a man to cheat but not a woman....whatever!!
  • karizma
    im not sayin whether its right or wrong, im just sayin how i feel. And honestly i dont think women can handle knowin that they have had just one too many sex partners as opposed to men who cant have enuff.Lets be honest, most women willmarry a man who have had a slu of women" i think thats how you spell slu', but most if not all of the men i know will not think about wifing you if you got a rep, maybe have some fun wit ya, but thats IT.!!!YALL BETTER LISTEN TO ME OR LEARN HOW TO LIE OR ITS FOREVER" STARSHIPS"
  • Buzzy
    WOW!! When will men learn that women know how to play this game as well, if not better than most MEN! Funny Stuff!!!
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