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3 Nice Ways To Say “The Head Sucks”
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 11. Feb, 2009
Not to long ago I got some of the best head ever from a Brooklyn girl. The head was so good that the next time I got head that it didn’t even feel half as good and I found myself wondering how do I tell her that she’s not getting the job done orally.
If you ever been in the recipient of bad head then you know the feeling of wanting it to stop but not wanting to offend the person with your privates in their mouth. So allow me to suggest a few tip to stopping the horror of bad head.
- Treat them like a dog - I don’t mean yank their neck when they start to go the wrong way but reward them when they do something right. It’s called positive reinforcement.
- Positive reinforcement is the presentation of something pleasant or rewarding immediately following a behavior. It makes that behavior more likely to occur in the future, and is one of the most powerful tools for shaping or changing your lover’s behavior.
- Let out a loud moan, tell them to keep going and to continue to do it just like that. If they stray from the technique then yank their neck. I kid I kid.
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LOL. good tips. I usually opt for the last one. If they ask why i told them to stop, I just tell them I want them inside of me. That usually does the trick.
But at some point you have to address the issue, because a relationship cannot succeed without good head. So, #1 is a MUST!
Now I'm off to read your other head-related articles!
I guess Im just mean.lol. Whenever someone aint getting the job done I tell them straight up they don't know what the hell they are doing
yeah Chinky you are pretty mean!! lol I aint mad at you though. I had someone take their teeth and grate them against me…. i cussed her asss out
you're so right, OK Head can be made into good head if the person is willling to do a few things… Honestly though I don't see how women can make head up… just open wide…
I needed this the otha nite, this dude was licking my tight all fast like you like that “girl dont cha” His mouth was dry ass hell. It was sad to because he had some really nice lips but he couldnt move his tongue to save his life. That shit felt like he was rubbing a old brillo pad against my cat. I curse his ass out that night.
You know, Xilla, some guys actually LIKE a bit of teeth. Believe it or not, I actually had more than one guy ask me to use my teeth. One actually asked for me to nibble on his head! LMAO! I was so scared to do it too. I was just thinking “This must be a setup!”
under no circumstances is a female allowed to Bite me!! I hate being bit.. it's not a good feeeling. I have heard some dudes like it but nah I'll pass on that.
QUESTION: I am pretty good head doctor, but I want to be great, so my boo always asks me to spit on his dick, which is cool. but how can i do that and not spit out like a loogie or something?!? I mean does he want me to hock it back and spit or just dribble spit from my mouth? I know its a dumb question, but i want it to be sexy /nasty not trifling… but he keep asking and I never feel right doing it lol
I think the first key to giving good head is to actually ENJOY giving it…..I love making a man feel good, so I listen to the sounds he's making, and file that away in my mental filing cabinet, and with each encounter I've become the best. I think we hurry through it instead of taking our time.
Put a piece of candy in your mouth. You can choose not to tell him at first. That will automatically secret more saliva. He will love that slurping sound too.
After a while, when you good enough to leave the candy alone; just hold your mouth closed for about 30 seconds with swallowing, the saliva will begin to build up. And you can do this (while giving him head), by jerking him off while the saliva builds.
Men like it wet, hott, and tight. Just like a vagina.
Hope that helps.
Aww shyt, ok…never had a problem/complaint personally but good to know…Thanx Lady J
But seriously that “spittin” shyt is concerning to me
Purposely spitting…like some real “patooey” shyt – UGH…there is no way in hell, I'm sorry, some may think it's no different than letting it build up in your mouth but nah, uh uhh there's a difference to me, not doin it
And OMG if a n*gga ever spit on Ms Kitty, he's gettin punched in the top of his f*ckin head!!!!!
Guys definitely underestimate verbal feedback. I was with a guy for years and in the beginning he never requested head – I was young and really didn't know what the hell I was doing, lol. Well, he finally fessed up and practice made perfect because afterwards he'd request it all the time until it was just part of the package.
If my man's off base, I give him gentle instruction until he gets it or I give up and tell him to stop. But by then I'm pissed 'cuz dick alone will not do it for me.
I've never came off head SO i don't care for it
Xilla, this blog started off from a male's point of view expressing his desired affection. My question is what is going on? Every blog concerning head -all the pretty affectionate women jump on expressing their expertise shamelessly which is cool.
Every blog the women dominate this subject. The guys don't seem to interested. I get the impression they really just not into delivering same. Its sounds like the odds of women trying to express affection in this way are really not receiving the same. Sounds like they being cheated out of something. Now tell me what's the deal with this?
honesty is the best policy….or my personal favorite “don't worry about it…you don't have to do it any more.”
Practice makes perfect is what I have to say!
let him go deep. the further back in your mouth/throat he goes, the more moisture your mouth will produce.