Adding Flavor To Vanilla Sex
Written by Miss Sex E.D.
You know how it is when you first meet somebody. You both start out as a fresh couple doing all those wild and crazy things like recreating on of Xilla’s Cinderella stories on the side of the freeway and just going buckwild at the drop of a hat. But as time progresses, things start to slow down because you have either done everything or one of you has become all too serious. Or even worse you got somebody who is not willing to do anything outside the box.
We all know the longer you are with your partner the closer you two become attached to each other. Does that mean you should stop the party? No! I believe the longer things go the more you should dive in that hole of freak nasty things that will make the normal person’s stomach just turn over. But hey, think about it, you two are in it for the long haul so why not make it interesting.
If you are unhappy, I think you should just drop the bomb on your partner and let them know, “Hey, I like this perverted stuff damnit and you need to make it happen because I am into you and do not want to have to look elsewhere for it.” Remember your mate is suppose to be your personal slut! I have three ideas to keep things spicy and of course interesting.
Make A Flick- Believe it or not, there are a lot of people out there that are afraid to make their film debut with their partner. Scared it may get out there after a nasty break up. I’m here to tell you, don’t be afraid! You just put your all into it, so that if it does leak out, at least you’ll look like you know what you’re doing. Men, don’t be scared to let her put the camera all in your face while you’re orally pleasing her. Just be bold and give the camera a sexy smile.
Role Play- Go out separately with your own friends, casually bump into one another, act like you’ve never seen each other before, exchange greetings and head off somewhere. Leave with the same friends you came with…maybe even crash at their place. I know this might sound cliché, but getting laid in club or bar bathroom is the ish! It can make your man feel like he just hit the jackpot with some horny slut, but really it is just his girl being a whore for him.
BDSM- Why don’t you really get her to shut the hell up by introducing gags, bondage tape, whips and hot wax into the bedroom? The idea of domination and submission can be really hot and take your relationship to a whole new level of sexuality and trust. You can also let loose and admit to all those fetishes you have bottled up. The main thing is to make sure you do this correctly by having safe words and understanding how to use everything correctly.
