8 Ways Your Relationship Can Die

Posted in Relationships on Feb 05, 2009

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We’ve all had to end a relationship before, either on good terms or bad, but have you ever stopped to think about what it is that killed your once blooming love? Some people place blame on others, never stopping to realize that there has been relationship killers around them the whole time.

Life – A person’s own life can be a major factor in ending a relationship. A lot of times we jump into a relationship when we are not mentally or emotionally ready to be involved with someone, because we found a chick with a fatty or a man with a nice body and good job. All the while our own money issues, and living conditions don’t permit us with the mind frame to provide the sort of attention your mate may need.


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  • OrangeStar616
    its neva a good idea to discuss ALL your personal biz with women friends esp as it pertains to your man, sexual and or otherwise, thats off limits .......my Granma hipped to that @ a young age LOL
  • Granny was a smart woman! lol
  • WetnWILD
    Damn Xilla i wasn't expecting that last picture DAMN!!
  • yeah tht was sexy as HELL!!!!!! :)
    Niiiicccccceeee!!!!
  • I had to give the ladies something...
  • Well....on behalf of all the PBFE's and the ladies who "live" on this site....I would like to say THANKYOU!!!

    It was a very nice gesture towards us and we appreciate your hard work & dedication to please all of the women :) !!!!!!

    BTW: Fellas...take notes!!! The summer is approaching and it wouldn't hurt to look like pic #4!!! :) lmao
  • Prom Queen
    YOUR ON POINT TODAY XILLA, I HAD A FRIEND I USED TO TELL HER EVERYTHING BETWEEN ME AND MY MAN. SHE WAS MY GIRL AND ONE NIGHT I FIND OUT THEY BEEN FUCVKING BEHIND MY BACK I WHOOPED HER ASS. TRIFLING! GOOD BLOG
  • thanks Prom Queen I'm glad you settled the score but is fighting ever worth it though?
  • Summer Warm
    i cant stand a man who got a ton of issues oh i loss my job, oh my car in the shop oh can i borrow afew dollars damn dude you got bad luck for real. look if you aint rite how you expect to get me rite?
  • Buzzy
    Well I think since most marriages and relationships fail after 1-7 years, I believe life would have to be my number one also.
    Life can just beat the HELL out of any relationship.
    I think you can just get sick of a person. And everytime they walk through the door, your like DAYUM!
  • Again I think people don't pick the right person. They like someone but they don't take the right steps to make it work.
  • Buzzy
    Yeah I agree, I knew my now ex for 9 months before I married him....what the heck. What did I really know about this person? I would say to anyone thinking of making a commitment to TAKE YOUR TIME....if it's real, time won't destroy it.
    And sometimes you have to know when to just let go, otherwise you end up living a miserable life.
  • outofyourmind
    I think I waited long enough with my man. I've know him since we were like 9 and we only started dating once I turned 21.

    But I do agree with you on taking your time to get to know a person. My sis started dating this guy and within like a month (hell even after 2 weeks) I overheard her telling this guy that she loved him. I was like WTF, you don't even know him. He's a f**king wack job if you ask me but that's a whole other story.
  • VIChick
    I just think that some people can rush into relationships a little too quickly. People dont take the time to get to know each other, try a friendship first. That is a sure way a relationship can die. Rushing
  • outofyourmind
    Wow, I have seen some of these things in my relationship but it hasn't neccesarily broken it. Great post!
  • Thanks a lot, I tried to hit up a lot of stuff that happens and people might not really think about.
  • AnitaFoxx
    I think everybody has experienced the cheating whether it be offensive or passive. That lifestyle along with serious baggage is one that can hurt you and allow you all to part as friends.

    If you can recognize problems early on - you can make an exit quicker and get on with your life. I see one problem most women do not use or practice effective birth control and they get a baby with guy they only knew 2-3mos(its really pitiful). Next thing you know she and him encounters one of the eight problems here. She is along raising the baby by herself.
  • ias
    i stumbled across your website a few days ago sitting in a boring lecture class & i happen to think its one of the most original blogs out there! i just spent a good minute browsing through it and you're hilarious lol and the topics oh man 'nuff said lol. this is my new go-to blog =]
  • xilla
    Thanks slot I try to be original since most black blogs are about music or celebs. Gotta do something to stand out and I know this stuff. Hope to have you join in ok the fun once in a while. Also tell a friend about the site.
  • ias
    yea the only other blogs i go to are perez hilton (yea what a contrast compared to this lol) and dlisted yea im definetely gonna comment if i can relate to the topic.
  • yes
    life and maybe hobbies got in the way....
  • Lady Jei
    Nice blog!!

    How about you take the first 30 days to evaluate the man/woman. Everything you laid out will come forth within the first month. Then you can determine whether or not you wil be able to deal with it.
    If they don't have a job, you will know; if their girls/boys are always around and are a pest, you will know. You would have visited his/her living quarters. You have been on enough dates to know if his eye wonders too much for you. All the signs of what your getting are there.

    A man/woman shows their true colors in about 30 days, and if you don't like what you are seeing, bounce. Avoid all the above.

    Stop making her your girl so damn fast. What's the rush. Sorry ladies men start relationships, lol. If you don't beleive me, think about it. You probably brought it up; but he had to be with it. Or he brought it up and you were (99% of the time) with it.

    So you can determine in a month if you need to invest any more time and avoid all the madness that comes along with having a relationship.
  • SugarTits
    Life!!
  • What about boredom? or would that fall under "Space"? I dont know. But a definite relationship-killer for me is boredom. You get with someone and for the wrong reasons like good looks or great sex and realize that you have NO other connection with them and end up getting bored with them after while.

    Or what about the narcissist? Initially, them discussing what great person they are, such as "im a good man/woman" has you intrigued, but you stumble upon the fact that all they are so self -absorbed, that could care less about how you feel. They've reeled you in, and now they expect you to worship the ground they walk on.

    So many problems, not enough time to solve them, Xilla. I agree with SugaTits; it's LIFE.

    *cant believe I just referenced a grown woman with the username SugaTits. IM TOO DONE TODAY* LOL!!
  • Great post, as always, Xilla.

    What about maturity? I mean, it was cute when a guy was acting all silly, but when it's time to be serious, and he is still acting childish?

    Oh yes, the last pic.....ooooh weeee!
  • VIChick
    Hot motherfuking shit. That last pic is crazy. Damn and now I'm wet. Shit
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