Comments on: 5 Reasons She’ll Let Your Man Smash

By: ChellBellz AKA Mimz

ChellBellz AKA Mimz — Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:57:58 +0000

I have never been a side chick. I have been a jump off with a single man, well a good friend so i guess that would make up friends with beni's. But I can't recall any reason why I would want to sleep with anybodies boyfriend on purpose. I think that could get ugly if the other woman found out…my mind wouldnt be at ease knowing i'm sleeping with somebodies man that they are potentially head over hills with.

By: DaRuler

DaRuler — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 04:29:17 +0000

for some reason i always look at the title of your topic meaning something else. like on this one. i thought it was from you and your homeboy situation and 5 reasons that your girl would let him hit, but that's just my outtake…

By: hazysin

hazysin — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 01:20:01 +0000

I'm 24 and i have been the other woman willingly several times. When i was younger i rationalized it as a way to eliminate emotional attachments or drama (im not in the business of wrecking homes). I actually maintained a relationship with a married man for 5 years, simply because when we met he had only been married 6 months. Throughout the tenure of our situation at times he became overbearing and had to be reminded that he had prior obligations(a wife and child). Due to his situation, our interaction were on my terms. When we took trips…it was according to my schedule and I went shopping it was with his credit card. Our children who are only 1 month apart actually still interact everyday although the relationship is dead….he actually thought i would want him when his wife left him, although i never gave any implications to that effect.

The biggest benefit in my opinion (based on personal experience) is the freedom. The freedom to decide when and if i wanted to deal with him. Plus the escape clause.

By: Omnipresence

Omnipresence — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 19:43:21 +0000

the main's a prude & the side piece is a cooold freak! Whew!

By: Buzzy

Buzzy — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 06:11:12 +0000

Oh, and what's up with the STD comment whenever someone says their seeing someone that's in a relationship…..that doesn't seem very logical….the other woman normally (well the smart one's) will make a man put on a condom because she knows the real him, but a wife very rarely makes a man put on a condom, so who is more at risk for a STD? Ecspecially if he's really out their.

By: Buzzy

Buzzy — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 06:01:16 +0000

Why is it when a woman decides to do it her way…the sheep dog come out, and try to bark her back into the heard with all the ….you ain't shit…you a bish…you are this and that….look I'm a human being living and navigating this world just like all you self righteous chicks, and whatever decision I make, I make for me, so for those that have an issue…I say stay focused on the road in front of you, and don't worry about the road that's in front of me….I'm good. If I only want to F*ck married men, for the rest of my life, than you know what…..it's my business. And I wouldn't call me old p*ssy, I like to call myself, A FRIEND! That sounds better….don't you think?

By: Xan

Xan — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 05:36:37 +0000

well, as you can see, most of us who've seen the light have positive responses…

so fuck your depressed opinions. hope your method works out for you!

(i'm 98.2% sure it won't, but good lucking handling all that!)

By: Xan

Xan — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 05:31:48 +0000

exactly. sure. lol.

men like the ones you date. thanks for sharing!

By: EbonyLolita

EbonyLolita — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 05:17:15 +0000

Oh gosh, all you chicks kill me. You are as important/special as the man that you're fuckin' makes you. Just b/c a dude tells u his house business that doesn't make you special, it means a nigga needs a therapist and it's cheaper to fuck u and talk about his problems. But all of you dumb bishes think your good pussy makes him do all that shyt. Most men I know and fucked will tell u the best pussy is the newest pussy. So, if you spend 1 yr or more fuckin' a dude as a side piece, you OLD SIDEPIECE PUSSI!!!

I was played for the side piece, unknown to me, and when I found out I high stepped it outta there. I will not ever make it easy for sum dumb/coward MoFo to hurt/lie to his woman/wife/whatevaucallit. I will not take scraps or bustdowns from anyfuckin' body. Now, there's a difference w. men who date multiple women, but have noone who can claim them. I have nuff respect for a man who is honest about dating multiple women and I can date multiple men. However, when you choose to settle down then you both know what you have to do. Commit.
If u a wife who stays w/ a cheater, then u get what you deserve. If u a side piece and u know and stay w/ dude. You get what u deserve too. Let's just hope and pray that u don't get a gift that keeps on givin' like HIV/AIDS.
*two fingas in da air, PEACE*

By: Thoney Gangstasweet

Thoney Gangstasweet — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 04:59:53 +0000

exactly Xilla! seriously! i don't mind listening getting my back broke, and like Buzzy said, the power! i mean niggas ACT like they don't care, but THEY DO! trust! lots o' handbags and fun come outta that there card. BELIVE IT!