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The Art of Choking During Sex (Exotic Asphyxiation)
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Sexual Intellectuals on 26. Jan, 2009
Many people believe that a lower supply of oxygen to the brain is supposed to enhance your sexual sensations and make it easier to orgasm. Maybe that’s why females like being choked so much. Sad part is many people don’t understand the pleasure they can receive from being choked. So without coming off sounding like a sicko here are 6 essentials to the art of choking during sex.
The Pseudo Choke – One of my twitter friends says “OMG!! I wish a ninja would choke me out during sex… thats creepy!” I’ll admit that when my boy told me he choked his bust it baby I was a bit freaked out, but like the inquisitive man that I am, I decided to try it with my girlfriend at the time. So during sex, while digging the manxilla inside of her, I applied the pseudo choke, to which she replied why didn’t you choke me harder! I’ve been hooked choking women ever since.
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The pseudo choke is when a man places his hand around the woman’s neck without applying any pressure or very little pressure. This provides a psychological effect during sex, because more than likely it’s going to turn her on. Just make sure she’s comfortable with you, because if it’s a jump off who you don’t really know well enough to be sleeping with in the first place it could end the sex ASAP.
- Off Guard Aggressive Choke: I’m not going to pussy foot around and go in order of aggression. (pun intended) This is when right in the middle of regular aggressive, a hand is placed on her neck and she is choked very hard to the point where she can’t breathe at all. The key to this maneuver and staying off death row for murder, is to not do it for longer than 5 seconds.
- The Medium Choke: This is when you apply a little bit of pressure during your choke. Enough so they feel you and long enough for them to reach up and grab your hand to let you know. An added bonus is the kiss her while your hand is around her neck. Women love kisses and this just enhances the pleasure of it all.
- The Public Playful Choke: This is when you wrap your hand around her neck in public, for the whole world to see. If you lay the pipe right then she’ll know that when you two get alone it’s on and popping. It’s a more kinky way of saying “if it’s all right with you we f*cking.”
- The Multi Hand Choke: This method is used most by women when they’re on top. For some reason they think it’s okay to place their hands around a guys neck. Note to the guys, no matter how soft or hard you choke a woman, if she chokes you, she’s going to choke the ish out of you.
- The Choke With Assistance: Once you figured out you and your mate like exotic affixation then it might be possible to bring in some help. By help I mean a scarf or some other form a prop. Besides one of the best dates a couple can have is a trip into a sex shop. Tons of fun.
In all before you start choking, know your partner. It’s no guarantee she’s going to like it, and if she say she won’t like it, more than likely she’ll like it if it’s done right. I find the best method is to apply a little bit of pressure just so she knows you’re there, but not too much pressure where she can’t breathe. The last thing you want to do is get time for busting a nut. Choking can be a very sexy and intimate way to turn your lover on if it’s done right.
Here is what my twitter friends have to say about it
- yungmenace: Wow the funny part is my manager was telling me the other day about this chick that told him she loves being choked..lol..crazy!!
- kingsmomma: Hell No, You can pull the hair, spank me, even playfully slap me but if i wanted to be raped i’d jog in Central Park after Dark.
- melkyjns: slightly…not enough to pass out but definitely some pressure
- kdizzle45: A slight tightening around the neck aint never hurt nobody. lol
- Godiva06: why yes i do but not to the point i cant breathe or pass out just light pressure does the trick
- TheJadedNYer: What the…? Naw, man, I watch SVU, that choking mess never ends well. Last thing I need is Benson & Stabler going thru my stuff!
- myssmodelstar: yes !!! not to the point of turning blue though lol
- SneakerKing: This chick I use to mess with did, that shit is a little weird, but she wanted it along with ranchy name calling ..
Do You Like Being Choked? Have You Ever Choked anyone during sex?
I wish a dude would…he'd be kicked outta my bed PRONTO!!! I think it's just wierd but to each their own.
I remember the first time I requested for my S.O (sig/other) to do that, he looked at me like I was crazy…but it's definitely something you have to be careful with..and the rush & slight lightheadness you feel just makes climaxing that much better. But to each his own, it's not for everyone.
I love being choked, for some reason it turns me the f*ck on, if its done right of course. I find myseld having better O's when it's being done.
OMG I just got a good choke last night. I was up late reading your cinderella stories and I went to bed, rubbed up against my husband and got it popping and he was hittin it from the back and reach up and grabbed my neck and choked me. OMG OMG OMG!!
To all the ladies who say they don't like that shit i say try it. At least once.
Christ on the Cross! WHERE do you get these pictures from??? LOL
and I love kingsmomma's response… running in Central Park after dark indeed! HAHAHAHAHA!
you don't know what you're missing. I'm telling you if he just puts his hand around your neck and lay's the pipe good you're going to cum so hard!! at least i do!! lol
I can dig it… While I'm on top and he would wrap both hands around and squeeze… i would tell him that he couldn't hurt me, I was never at the point of passing out… But I had a huge orgasm!!
Even if he just placed his hands around your neck?
I'm glad to see other women like being choked! None of my girls like it. I love rough sex and choking ADD to the sensation.
i like light choking…i like it cuz that means in control n he's makin sure he's serving the d*ck up real proper. Its the excitement…plus if dude adds a deep kiss while his hand in around my throat then I'm in love…
damn…i was already horny as hell this morning n then i come on this site and make it worse. Damn u Xilla….
but did he do it? I'm finding from the comments and emails I get from women that men are very conservative? Is this common?
It's the air to the brain I believe. Do you request it though?
I love when my Bay place his big ole hands aroung my neck. Makes me cum quick quick especially if he calls me out my name. YUMMY
I figured that's why you were here!! You've been on Vacation!! lol
In the word of Michael Jackson You are not alone!! lol
yeah that's the key you can't be trying to kill them you gotta know when to apply the pressure and when to let go… you can't get caught up in the moment as a guy you know.
I concur all the ladies should try it at least once.
I feel you, I know the biggest turn on is finding out that my girl likes to be called outside of her name. That right there just turns me on to no end… rough sex in general im a big fan.
i DONT KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO IF A DUDE EVER CHOKED ME DURING SEX, AINT NO BODY EVER DO THAT, IF THEY DID IT BETTER FEEL GOOD CUZ IF IT DIDNT I'M STABBING THAT NUGGA QUICK!!
I must be choked, and while he's choking me I choke him back, and may even smack him so he doesn't bust! And name calling while choking is all part of the game.
Nope…makes me feel EXTREMELY uncomfortable, I don't like my neck touched at all.
yes, he did it..very carefully…and he enjoyed it b/c he saw that i was enjoying it.
oh absolutely not! I'm always down to try new things but this might just be a little too advanced for me…
I look forward to my first choking…should be an enjoyable experience. Vanilla sex is lame!
No no… I've actually tried to piss him off to get him to put more pressure on…. I've been sucessful a couple of times but for the most part, he's pretty soft… LoL…
In due time, I'm sure you'll find the right one to turn you out on all your sexual desires. lol
Wasn't that hilarious!! I wanted to include it into the blog like in the paragraph but i couldn't figure out how… Greatness right there.
Exactly, did somebody say Robert Chambers?! and don't be modest Jaded NYer that Benson and Stabler goin thru my stuff shyt was funny as hell!!!! LOL
Aww yeah…if we're getting it on and I'm feelin real kinky, a lil “You like that bitch?” will turn me on lol!
Already! That shit is hot…and don't let him choke you while giving it to you hard and kissing your ear saying some shit like “Damn you got some good ass p*ssy I been wanting to f@ck the sh!t outta you all day” (lol that was long)…man…it's pretty much a wrap for me at that point! LOL But yea, you gotta be comfortable with the person for it to turn you on.
“Damn you got some good ass p*ssy I been wanting to f@ck the sh!t outta you all day”
LOL! All dudes must use that line 'cause mine tells me the same thing. And by then I'm usually getting spanked and flipped all around the bedroom.
Another good one is if you're spooning and he's got you by the neck and pulling your hair. WHOO!
oh, i ain't gon' front i liked it!
I've been telling folks about that 4 years….it drives them (women) crazy. I told my homeboy to try it, but he got a little too rough and she beat the hell out of him.
OMG!!! There is nothing better than getting stroked out from behind with a hand around your neck. That ish is like rainbows and unicorns… Or missionary with a little choking combined with lots of deep kissing…whew…**sending SOS text to the Dealer**
I really cant do the choking thing…I'd get scared and tense up…just not comfortable with him having my life in his hands. om gonna pass
Yeah, I'm creeped out by being choked out. Somebody tried that on me once and never did it ever again. I was like oh hell no, not down, nope.
Da hell?????? Don't you mean EROTIC not EXOTIC, I'm just sayin……..
choking is fun.i like when my man does it but h gets carried away sometimes…..but i love it
I love being choked as hard as possible for a short period of time.
I really had no idea how much shawties enjoyed getting choked until today. I mean I know ive heard people talk about it n joke about tha shit, but i didn't know it was DAT real. I was talkin to a friend of mine who said she enjoyed bein choked n I looked tha shit up online. I came across this n saw how many other women enjoyed it. I bout 2 try it out lol, but not too aggressive cuz I agree with JadedNyer, Im not tryna see SVU comin 2 my crib…
I love it when my boyfriend holds me to him with his arm while taking my from behind. sooooo hot
See lol, I told my sister to let a dude choke her out and she didnt believe me. Funny blog
And…about the saftey word…How u suppose to say orangejuice if u can't breath? U gone look real stupid trying to get them words out. hahahaha.
MMM.. hell yes. I recently found out I LOVE it when my man wraps his hands around my neck during The Deed. I'm a huge fan of rough sex, and the added sensation is crazy good. Last night while I was on top he was pulling me down by the hip with one hand, and the other was on the front of my neck, pushing me up. Left a couple awkward to explain bruises, but DAMN was it good!
Most amazing feeling EVER. I get my guy to bite me on my neck too and when we aren't together I just put my hand up by the area that's tender and I practically have an orgasm right then and there.
The first time my boyfriend chocked me…we both had an incredible orgasm..and now everytime we have sex I want him to choke me because it sends him over the top and I love making him feel like that. We used a scarf once which applied more pressure but he always made sure I wasnt in danger of suffocating, but the scarf definitely left a mark so be cautious they can be hard to hide and explain. But again trust is key.