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i wouldn't/couldn't take a female serious if we had sex on the first date. I dont care how great the chemistry is on the date, if i hit on the first date i could never consider being in a serious relationship with her. I wouldnt even have sex with a girl on the first date if i really liked her, it would spoil the way i view her.

This dude is pure comedy! Women, there is ALWAYS gonna be a double standard, so I co sign with Nikki- You should only be going this route IF you dont give a phuc about finding husband material-get yours. But KNOW that if you want him to at least 1/2 way respect u u cant play yourself by handing him the goodie jar on the first date.

I have had one...so I aint hating if you do, just stay protected-ALWAYS

Dude doesn't realize it works both ways. All of my no-strings sex has been with men who were not husband material for me. I could not have cared less what they thought of me on the whore-wife spectrum.

Plus I know someone who got it on the first date and has been married to the man for 10yrs now, so it's all relative.

It takes two....why is it always the WOMAN, who's fucking on the first date?? It's kinda hard to do on your own. Lesson to learn, wait until the 2nd date, I suppose & protect yourself.

The woman is the one taking the greater risk. She is the one left holding the baby from a one stand/ causal sex relations or a guy who used her for a sexual relief.

If she thought it was mutual(its takes 2 to fuk but only one gets fuked in the end)
It could never be mutual because only one is risking the greater risk of pregnancy, humiliation in carrying a baby by a guy who does not care to marry you, (probabably will never marry you)and you going to the hospital alone and a greater risk of them cutting on you and trying to name the baby, or embarrassment in julvenile court trying to test a guy who doesnot really want to be trapped into parenthood with you.

He just wanted sex and maybe you did to.

For the most part he may not even really like you. You may not even be his preference when it comes to women- cuz u don't no him!

Its not a young girls fault to come up like that the first time. Its the parents fault for not teaching morals and birth control. I am not to talking about children/teenagers -I'm talking grown folks.

Penis with vocal cords!!!!!!

LMAO

Shawty is a silly as hell.....

Xilla, My mom taught me that when I was 12yrs old. I believed her and have lived by it. Getting a husband a proposal has been very, very, very easy for me. I see why now, reading your blogs. I actually thought men had got off this old concept -even thou my pride would never allow me to. Cause I have learned how long and how far guy would go for a woman he wants?! I learned that sex is not mandatory when he really likes you.

It explains to me why so many single mothers out here having babies after babies single. I see why!!(your blog taught me)The guy is making a good case. Its a shame they think he is just full BS and want to see himself on a youtube.

Me a girlfriend who was taught good morals young -we grew up together. I was telling her about your blog on one nite stands and how many women confessed to this with their classy reasoning justifying its ok behind it.

I said to her men have high classifications when it comes down to the woman he chooses to spend his life with. She said she believes this is something innate(existing from birth)God placed in men. He is suppose to be the one to find/look/search/choose a wife. This must be something God gave him to go on as for as the selection process. Yours Truly

I start off with... i respect women, i may call you hoe or bitch. I remember being younger calling some girls or maybe even all girls hoes and bitches, but that was a young mind after i found out what world we live in and there is more of a world than outside 1st and 9th period lol. Over time i have matured and certainly knowledge'd myself on what a relationship consist of, and i still may not know all. What i'm trying to get at, it takes game to know game, as it also takes real to know real. Being that it is now 2009 with technology and way of thinking in this new day and age, i think it is very wrong for a man or just any man to consider a girl a hoe or a bitch for the simple fact that time has evolved.
Now on the note of sex on the first date, i don't think its wrong. Everybody is human, and i'm not taking that away from a woman who may think the guy is cute enough to get some, or attractive enough or he just has the way he looks and talks to you that you just want to turn him out. Cause at the end of the day if the girl says no then the girl says no. i'm not gonna force or even try to convince her, cause she made up her mind. She doesn't do the first date, she likes to take time, or your ass fucked up and you down the drain now buddy! lol now that coming from me won't really matter to the world, but me as a man i just want woman to know that their are real MEN out there and not boys who think in such immature manners.

Don't let a boy play a mans game, for every move counts. This is Art Madden Reporting live from BlogXILLA. Signing off
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she's a hoe. what you could you possibly like about a guy that you've only known for a few hours?
..i'm sorry i just can't

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great post thanks!

its not about what the other person thinks, who's calling whom a hoe, or any of that other ridiculous shit. sorry, but i don't live in imagination-land.

if i happen to feel like fucking, then i may at my discretion. nobody's opinion of me will ever have any bearing on whether or not i want to do something i feel like doing. if it happens the first month, first week, first night or first fifteen minutes--if that's how i feel, its going down. why? because i can!

male opinion will never control my sexual activities...female opinion either, for that matter!