Comments on: The Major Problems With Child Support http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sun, 08 Nov 2009 10:39:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: James DeLelys http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9323 James DeLelys Sat, 07 Mar 2009 03:27:21 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9323 Help fix it by Signing A Petition: <a href=http://www.petitionchildsupportreform.com rel="nofollow">Petition for Child Support Reform</a> Help fix it by Signing A Petition: Petition for Child Support Reform

]]> By: James DeLelys http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9344 James DeLelys Sat, 07 Mar 2009 03:27:21 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9344 Help fix it by Signing A Petition: <a href=http://www.petitionchildsupportreform.com rel="nofollow">Petition for Child Support Reform</a> Help fix it by Signing A Petition: Petition for Child Support Reform

]]> By: Steffie http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9320 Steffie Fri, 16 Jan 2009 08:57:07 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9320 Hello everyone,<br>This is my first time posting but I had to give my opinion on this subject. I'm a single mother and I receive child support. Child support was my last resort. I believe there are people abusing the child support system but a lot of people really do need it. I understand that you shouldn't have to go to court to get support but it is what it is. I understand that you may not want that absent parents money because of pride but forget that. If you don't want it, think about your child. Put that money in account, so that when your child may need something or when they go off to college or etc... they have a little bit of money. I hear plenty of women who claim they don't need his money but aren't afraid to ask other family members for help. I see it this way, both parents laid up and had this baby and if anybody is going to help me, its going to be that other parent. I grew up with my sons father and never expected him to act the way that he did. And its not true that if you file for child support first that, you'll receive a larger amount. My son is the youngest and I filed last and receive the most. Why? I made more money. Also, I had more expenses to pay. I work, attend the University full-time and I'm still a soccer mom. My sons father is still tripping claiming he doesn't have any money but yet he just had another baby.<br>There are some greedy mothers out there though. I had a friend who lived with her grandmother (she paid no rent), had food stamps, grandmother watched her children and received medical assistance from the state and was trying to take this man for all he had. He was in the military, and had gotten married and I'm sorry but thank goodness the judge saw right through her. He wasn't the best father but the amount she wanted was crazy due to the fact that she didn't even pay hardly anything for the child. I looked at her differently after that. My mother died when I was a teenager and I had no support. But I did it and I'm still doing it. I could receive more child support but I believe receiving something is better than nothing and that 's what I receive most of the time, nothing. LOL, I received $16 last month. Hello everyone,
This is my first time posting but I had to give my opinion on this subject. I'm a single mother and I receive child support. Child support was my last resort. I believe there are people abusing the child support system but a lot of people really do need it. I understand that you shouldn't have to go to court to get support but it is what it is. I understand that you may not want that absent parents money because of pride but forget that. If you don't want it, think about your child. Put that money in account, so that when your child may need something or when they go off to college or etc… they have a little bit of money. I hear plenty of women who claim they don't need his money but aren't afraid to ask other family members for help. I see it this way, both parents laid up and had this baby and if anybody is going to help me, its going to be that other parent. I grew up with my sons father and never expected him to act the way that he did. And its not true that if you file for child support first that, you'll receive a larger amount. My son is the youngest and I filed last and receive the most. Why? I made more money. Also, I had more expenses to pay. I work, attend the University full-time and I'm still a soccer mom. My sons father is still tripping claiming he doesn't have any money but yet he just had another baby.
There are some greedy mothers out there though. I had a friend who lived with her grandmother (she paid no rent), had food stamps, grandmother watched her children and received medical assistance from the state and was trying to take this man for all he had. He was in the military, and had gotten married and I'm sorry but thank goodness the judge saw right through her. He wasn't the best father but the amount she wanted was crazy due to the fact that she didn't even pay hardly anything for the child. I looked at her differently after that. My mother died when I was a teenager and I had no support. But I did it and I'm still doing it. I could receive more child support but I believe receiving something is better than nothing and that 's what I receive most of the time, nothing. LOL, I received $16 last month.

]]> By: Steffie http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9343 Steffie Fri, 16 Jan 2009 08:57:07 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9343 Hello everyone,<br>This is my first time posting but I had to give my opinion on this subject. I'm a single mother and I receive child support. Child support was my last resort. I believe there are people abusing the child support system but a lot of people really do need it. I understand that you shouldn't have to go to court to get support but it is what it is. I understand that you may not want that absent parents money because of pride but forget that. If you don't want it, think about your child. Put that money in account, so that when your child may need something or when they go off to college or etc... they have a little bit of money. I hear plenty of women who claim they don't need his money but aren't afraid to ask other family members for help. I see it this way, both parents laid up and had this baby and if anybody is going to help me, its going to be that other parent. I grew up with my sons father and never expected him to act the way that he did. And its not true that if you file for child support first that, you'll receive a larger amount. My son is the youngest and I filed last and receive the most. Why? I made more money. Also, I had more expenses to pay. I work, attend the University full-time and I'm still a soccer mom. My sons father is still tripping claiming he doesn't have any money but yet he just had another baby.<br>There are some greedy mothers out there though. I had a friend who lived with her grandmother (she paid no rent), had food stamps, grandmother watched her children and received medical assistance from the state and was trying to take this man for all he had. He was in the military, and had gotten married and I'm sorry but thank goodness the judge saw right through her. He wasn't the best father but the amount she wanted was crazy due to the fact that she didn't even pay hardly anything for the child. I looked at her differently after that. My mother died when I was a teenager and I had no support. But I did it and I'm still doing it. I could receive more child support but I believe receiving something is better than nothing and that 's what I receive most of the time, nothing. LOL, I received $16 last month. Hello everyone,
This is my first time posting but I had to give my opinion on this subject. I'm a single mother and I receive child support. Child support was my last resort. I believe there are people abusing the child support system but a lot of people really do need it. I understand that you shouldn't have to go to court to get support but it is what it is. I understand that you may not want that absent parents money because of pride but forget that. If you don't want it, think about your child. Put that money in account, so that when your child may need something or when they go off to college or etc… they have a little bit of money. I hear plenty of women who claim they don't need his money but aren't afraid to ask other family members for help. I see it this way, both parents laid up and had this baby and if anybody is going to help me, its going to be that other parent. I grew up with my sons father and never expected him to act the way that he did. And its not true that if you file for child support first that, you'll receive a larger amount. My son is the youngest and I filed last and receive the most. Why? I made more money. Also, I had more expenses to pay. I work, attend the University full-time and I'm still a soccer mom. My sons father is still tripping claiming he doesn't have any money but yet he just had another baby.
There are some greedy mothers out there though. I had a friend who lived with her grandmother (she paid no rent), had food stamps, grandmother watched her children and received medical assistance from the state and was trying to take this man for all he had. He was in the military, and had gotten married and I'm sorry but thank goodness the judge saw right through her. He wasn't the best father but the amount she wanted was crazy due to the fact that she didn't even pay hardly anything for the child. I looked at her differently after that. My mother died when I was a teenager and I had no support. But I did it and I'm still doing it. I could receive more child support but I believe receiving something is better than nothing and that 's what I receive most of the time, nothing. LOL, I received $16 last month.

]]> By: good http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9318 good Thu, 15 Jan 2009 06:53:32 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9318 yes you r right the system is bad yes you r right the system is bad

]]> By: good http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9342 good Thu, 15 Jan 2009 06:53:32 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9342 yes you r right the system is bad yes you r right the system is bad

]]> By: Burn Boogie http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9315 Burn Boogie Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:35:50 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9315 I can feel the guy who jumped in front of the train cause I took care of mines and when my babymom got mad she took me to court adn i was soing way beyond what i was suppost to be doing. And now tht the court are involed i dont want nothing to to do with the whole sitution and it real hard to walk away form something i took so much for. So I hope they do sumthin like investgate the mother to see if she is doing what she sopose to be doing or check to see if the father is doing what he is suppose to be doin somebodt need to do sum checking behind one of the parents! I can feel the guy who jumped in front of the train cause I took care of mines and when my babymom got mad she took me to court adn i was soing way beyond what i was suppost to be doing. And now tht the court are involed i dont want nothing to to do with the whole sitution and it real hard to walk away form something i took so much for. So I hope they do sumthin like investgate the mother to see if she is doing what she sopose to be doing or check to see if the father is doing what he is suppose to be doin somebodt need to do sum checking behind one of the parents!

]]> By: Burn Boogie http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9341 Burn Boogie Thu, 15 Jan 2009 00:35:50 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9341 I can feel the guy who jumped in front of the train cause I took care of mines and when my babymom got mad she took me to court adn i was soing way beyond what i was suppost to be doing. And now tht the court are involed i dont want nothing to to do with the whole sitution and it real hard to walk away form something i took so much for. So I hope they do sumthin like investgate the mother to see if she is doing what she sopose to be doing or check to see if the father is doing what he is suppose to be doin somebodt need to do sum checking behind one of the parents! I can feel the guy who jumped in front of the train cause I took care of mines and when my babymom got mad she took me to court adn i was soing way beyond what i was suppost to be doing. And now tht the court are involed i dont want nothing to to do with the whole sitution and it real hard to walk away form something i took so much for. So I hope they do sumthin like investgate the mother to see if she is doing what she sopose to be doing or check to see if the father is doing what he is suppose to be doin somebodt need to do sum checking behind one of the parents!

]]> By: The Jaded NYer http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9308 The Jaded NYer Wed, 14 Jan 2009 22:29:38 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9308 explain lopsided- I'm curious as to what you mean... in NYS my and my ex's situation was based on both our incomes... they took into account what we both earned and his portion of the support was decided accordingly, given how many days out of the year he had custody of them. <br><br>If the custody changes or I begin to make more money than him, then his payments will change to reflect that.<br><br>I think that's pretty fair, no? explain lopsided- I'm curious as to what you mean… in NYS my and my ex's situation was based on both our incomes… they took into account what we both earned and his portion of the support was decided accordingly, given how many days out of the year he had custody of them.

If the custody changes or I begin to make more money than him, then his payments will change to reflect that.

I think that's pretty fair, no?

]]> By: The Jaded NYer http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/12/the-major-problems-with-child-support/comment-page-1/#comment-9335 The Jaded NYer Wed, 14 Jan 2009 22:29:38 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/?p=3805#comment-9335 explain lopsided- I'm curious as to what you mean... in NYS my and my ex's situation was based on both our incomes... they took into account what we both earned and his portion of the support was decided accordingly, given how many days out of the year he had custody of them. <br><br>If the custody changes or I begin to make more money than him, then his payments will change to reflect that.<br><br>I think that's pretty fair, no? explain lopsided- I'm curious as to what you mean… in NYS my and my ex's situation was based on both our incomes… they took into account what we both earned and his portion of the support was decided accordingly, given how many days out of the year he had custody of them.

If the custody changes or I begin to make more money than him, then his payments will change to reflect that.

I think that's pretty fair, no?

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