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Don't bring it up. Stop asking for sex. Do you. For some reason in your relationship sex has become a power tool and baby you need to take that power back. Every man and woman is in charge of her own orgasm. So you need to take charge of yours and go out there and get one. If you are are riddled with guilt, casually mention to your husband that you have taken up a lover. Trust he will ask if you stop hounding him for sex. Woman up and understand that one consequence may be that you've lost your husband. Honestly though he sound like he ain't worth the lint in my pocket.

As for the pills, girl you know they ain't for you if you had to ask. You are fooling no one. You know your man is cheating and you need to check your situation and stop worrying about his. Either leave him or mind your own. I know it sounds harsh but you are in a jacked up situation and facing reality is the only thing that will make it better. Why lie to yourself when you share a bed with someone who already is? Don't do his dirt for him.

But airing your business out on myspace honey? No. Quit that. Start a blog because I'm sure there are plenty of desperate housewives out there in your same position.

AMEN!

The key phrase is his "SEXUAL SELFISHNESS".....

This can go so many diff ways. And it depends on wht SHE categorizes as being sexually selfish?

I have NO idea wht their relationship is like......
-he may not want to eat her out
-he may not want to toss her salad
-he may not want to do anal
-he may be a fast 'nutter'
-he may find her 'overweight'
-he might work hard tht he has no time to satisfy her the way she wants
-he may have been this way b4 they got married but she thought she could change him
-he might not be stimulated by her b/c she dresses frumpy
-he might be bi-sexual...
-he might want out of the marriage
-he might be sending her a message
-he might have been taking viagra 4 yrs but she never knew until now...
-he might be a true selfish sexual bastard (lol)

She can try her luck & TALK to him about it...but chances are he's not gonna be honest w/ her b/c if he was then he would've told her about the pills.

OR she can do some digging like:
-count the pills in the bottle AND keep count of them until he refills them
-get cool w/ the pharmasist tht filled the precription & see how long he's been taking them.
-or hide the pills & see wht he does when he can't find them?

sounds like he's using it for someone else. if he's STILL NOT SATISFYING HER but has viagra mmmmm that says a lot. i say ask him about in in a calm manner and if they can't resolve things like grownups, callin in a ding-a-ling dropoff. clearly he's tappin a trollop so its fair!

ok Ness...............why he gotta be a bastard??

lmao

Any word yet?

b/c he's selfish lol...and his daddy should've taught him better lol... LMAO

girl let me tell u!!! I called them up & the heffa didn't remember to put in my request to Mirena! So I have to call them tmrw to see if they got the paper work & wht not.

I told them tht if I don't get it then I'll bring my own (lmao)...lol..wht is the world coming to lol...lol

Well he must not be sleeping with her on the regular for her to say she has needs and is willing to go outside of her marriage to get satisfaction. I don't know much about viagra but I do know that if taken she should be more than satisfied. Then again she could be a nympho and her poor hubby is tapped out. I don't know hell how many pills were left in the bottle? When is the last time he gave her some? I need more details XIlla

If it appears he is using the product with me, then YIPPEE and keep count of the usage (LOL).
If it appears he is NOT using the product and the pills are disappearing, grab a rolling pin.

you took the words rught out of my mouth! LOL.. everything is dandy if its w/ me... if the pill count doesn't come out right...

I would talk to my man.
The last thing I would do is ask advice from someone else. :)

Hmmmmm..............*rubbing chin*

>If I discovered a man was taking a pill for erectile dysfunction to be intimate with me I wouldn't trip. I'd feel that he was taking the steps he needed to see about me. >HOWEVER, she clearly stated that her space is being filled by another due to the lack of activity between the two of them. I suggest that she ask him.


**The picture is saying soooooooo much to me right now**

hee hee

Confront him, point blank. First and foremost him being selfish, that issue definitely needs to be addressed if I am pondering stepping out on my husband. Then we can address the Viagra situation, cause obviously he is not using it on her. If he can go soft, what's to complain about (other than the obvious). I mean he all purpose woul dbe to please me right? And obviously that's not the purpose seeing she wants to sew her wild oats elsewhere.

We would need counseling and if he ain't with that then I would let him in on my little secret and we would go from there to the lawyer. I am not advocate of divorce but I'll be damned if I cheat on my husband - - so we need some alternatives, suggestions, advice what have you.

Something is all wrong with this story. On top of who discusses their sexual relationship about their husband with aman on MYSPACE. Is that what we have resorted to, I know you can find anything ont he internet but damn.

Side note, I probably would keep the pills until he started asking for them. And if he was a slick ass and got another bottle, I would take those too. probably feed them to him for breakfast in his coffee or some ish. I bet he would be mad at work all day like that banana, unless she (his peeling) is at work. Then I would sporadically give them to him.

I have no interest in getting divorced, so sweetie just talk to me PLEASE.

LMAO @ image...B-A-N-A-N-A-S

More info is needed...

The main questions being: was it a full bottle and when was the prescription filled? however without further "research" even if it's a new bottle there's no telling if it is a refill or not

If its a recently filled prescription and unused then there is a "chance" that they are for her satisfaction, that being a possibility I wouldn't say anything about it, I would wait it out a little and see what happens...him talking about having to go that route might be hard for him, even with his wife...we all know how men's egos are and I don't care how happy and confident they look in those damn commercials that's a hard pill for a man to swallow...no pun intended

If a significant amount of time has passed (she has to be the judge of what's significant) and he is not making any steps toward improving their love life then they may indeed be for someone else

Honestly, unless he was comfortable enough to discuss it with me I would rather not know that my man was taking viagra. I would appreciate the fact that he was taking steps to please me but for the sake of his ego remaining in tact I would rather not know especially if he was uncomfortable about discussing it openly with me.