Communication Is Key

Posted in Relationships on Jan 06, 2009

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The following was written by Ness for Pink Cuff Lynx

When being involved whether it’s a relationship or casual sex, it’s important to communicate. But you have to understand tht there’s different levels of communication. You have verbal communication, sexual communication and an unspoken communication which I like to categorize as touching.

I don’t know how many of you realize it but touching someone holds so much meaning. You can actually get to know someone by touching them! No words need to be exchanged…just touch them and see how they react. Granted, each person is different but the sense of touch is the same across the board. The energy that your body gives off will be transferred to the next person. We have the ability to touch someone & take away all their negative energy with a simple touch.

I knw everyone is busy, but we have to make the time to use the most underused sense that was given to us. Here are some ways to go about it.

  • 1. Warm It Up: Make sure the area in which you plan to have an intimate touching session is warm & comfortable. You can light incense, oils or candles.
  • 2. Silence is Golden: Unplug the phones or put them on silent. Turn off the tv and turn on some mellow music.
  • 3. No Happy Ending: This is NOT a massage, so touching the genitals is OFF LIMITS. (lol)

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  • SugarTits
    What's wrong with a happy ending?

    lmao
  • yes
    I2I...
  • Ant_from_Chi
    It's funny you touched onthis because I was having a conversation with the woman I have been dating for the last month. We were talking about one night last week when I invited her back to my place after hanging out that night and she thought I was trying to hit it, but all I really wanted to do was be close to her in a quiet place so that I could see what she "felt" like. I needed to touch her and see how she responded to my touch. I needed to smell her and allow her to smell me. I like to do this thing with a woman where we put our noses very close together and breath in the breath that the other exhales. I get a very keen sense of a person doing this. At any rate, she came over and we non verbally and non sexually communicated and it was dope. I am really digging this chick.

    Anyway Sexy Ness, good post and happy New Year.
  • SugarTits
    Is it okay if you smell cali kush and Tangueray?

    =0P
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Yeah it's o.k. but you know it's more to it than that.
  • SugarTits
    Of course I know that Ant_from_Chi........

    I think it's cool that you and your lady friend were able to do share in that way. Lemme tell you folk, it's hard out here. I hafta tell 'em, it takes someone GROWN to sleep with you and not have sex. And when you do inhale the essence of another or look into their soul through their eyes you can feel their vibrations and energy. Maybe your nu nu could be the one..................
  • Ant_from_Chi
    I know you know. And I hear you about how hard it is out here. Hell i'm out here too. I am a firm believer in how things feel to me and being able to spend time with someone before I sleep with them and get to know how they feel to me in different ways is important to me. You're right. New boo could be somebody special. She sure feels that way. I'm open to it though so it's cool.
  • SugarTits
    Thats alright. And you are the last of a dying breed. Many a man don't wanna hear that in this day and time. They think because of a couple of conversations and meals it's all G. Not always the case. I can honestly appreciate a man that doesn't jump off in every woman that he deals with. There has got to be a reason to have sex with someone other than to satisfy your carnal desires.

    That's the old skool Chi-Town in ya. You know what it is.
  • HeadMistress
    Damn Ant - we've missed you!

    Now that you're back and "taken" :-( we're gonna need you to report to the Cloning Center...forthwith!!! LOL

    Sugar is right - a dying breed indeed, but you give us hope
  • Ant_from_Chi
    I ain't been nowhere. I just haven't posted anything. I been doing a lot of running around and just been reading the blogs.

    I still have hope for relationships because I for one think we need to be in and have relationships and focus on making them as healthy as we can. I ain't even close to perfect, but I hae an idea of who i am and i try to represent that. I've been spending a lot of time with this new lady lately and things have been real nice.

    And I am old skool Chi-Town. lol
  • HeadMistress
    Yeah, my faith in the possibility of healthy relationships is being restored, slowly but surely, and by complete strangers no less :-)

    None of us are (perfect) but its refreshing to read the thoughts of men who aren't afraid to express themselves...Xilla's situation really made me rethink my whole way of dealing with men/relationships...

    The power of positive attitude/thought and having an open mind/heart is amazing, things are changing already

    Glad to hear things are goin' well with you and your new friend!
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