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How To Be Their Best Sex Partner Ever
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on 05. Jan, 2009
Which do you prefer, f*cking or making love, and when did you first want to?
If you could have what you want when you wanted it, would it be great? Well if you find out this piece of information you can go back in time and recreate the moment. Being someone’s best lover is both physical and mental. Creating or in this case recreating the first time the two of you met, and how you would have loved to eat her out from behind while on a bed of Hershey Kiss candies may just bring her to orgasm faster than a Twista rap.
Knowing what your lover wants, likes and deserves is a great bit of information to learn. Then all you have to do is be able to give it to them.
Ask a Female: Can you have multiple orgasms? You know I know how to dish them out because I read BlogXilla.com
Ask a Male: Have you ever made a female have an orgasm? Can you make me have one?
You can use these questions as a part of your foreplay, the key to being the best is to get inside their head. I mean think about it, everyone can make love to a person’s body, but to be able to make love to their mind, while making love to their body is an amazing feeling. Trust me I know.
Think about your best sex partner, what did they do to make it the best sex ever?
Great blog Xilla I'm going to try some of these next time my boo comes to visit
if you want to be the best sex partner you have to be adventurous. be chill and have fun. my fav partner is my best friend. it helps that we are so close outside the bedroom because when we're naked we have the most fun ever and neither one of us has to worry about what the other will think in the morning. i don't think everyone can pull off sleeping with their best friend on the regular and not have it jack up the friendship but if you can its amazing. great sex is comfortable and makes you happy as hell. self conscious sex sucks.
I've had the type of sex tht u don't want to wash off lol.
EEEWWWWWWWWWW
hahahahaha
Prolly the phone bone dude……….
Don't ewwww me lol…! hahahahaaha…
U knw wht it's like 2 have a man's scent on u…to still feel his 'size' inside of u….to smell the juices from his kisses around ur face…lol…
Washing it off just means I'm getting rid of him lol…
And no it wasn't the phone bone lol…..
Honestly, I don't a BEST I have a top 5 which for the sake of commenting I'll narrow down to 3.
>He treated me like a lady. He would send for me all over the the Western Hemisphere and when I would arrive he'd send a car for me, get me to the palace and make love to me. Ice, syrup, fruit, honey, handcuffs, he brought out freakyness in me.He's got looooooong money so the splurging wasn't a thang. He exposed me to a different lifestyle that he has worked hard for and he shared that with me. He was freaky too….wanted to have sex in the club, pool side, in the elevator at the hotels. I loved him for that. Never a dull moment…..a good 8.5 inches & fat
>This one is my partna, road dog, folk. We came up together. Used to get into trouble, smoke, drink, laugh and talk about anything. I had his back and he had mine. Sex was outstanding. He used to talk to me so nasty while he was all the way down to the nutts…….I loved that. He always treated me with respect and would be mindful of my requests. He taught me alot about making money, investing, and making my money work for me……..bout 8 inches & 2 in diameter… I miss you homeboy if you reading this!!!!
>This one right here though……..mmmmmmmmmmmm……………I get excited when I think of him. His eyes, the way the light hits them and they appear transparent. His walk……..wow…….like a Denzel stride in American Gangster. So confident and cool and comfortable in his own skin.He shared dreams and fears, successes and failures. Deep voice. Southern. Cooks. Cleans. Nice dresser. Smart as hell. Graduated cum laude. He got that Tenacious “D”…..hee hee…….always have an orgasm……ALWAYS….even when I'm givin him head I come too……….10.5 inches & fat
*sighs*
It's a beautiful thang……………………..
I know Nessa. And I do know what it's like…….you jus wanna lay there sticky………… hee hee…..you can do that when you're single. Married folk gotta wash it off with no soap………
Sometimes when I still feel his 'size' after he's gone, I'll masturbate to get one more off………..then I'm done son!!!!
lmao
And who won you and X's threesome date…………………..
I wanna see flicks…..
;oP
hahaah I'm not talkin about sex bed…lol. I'm talking about car luvin!…where all I cud do is use a tissue to clean up & then continue the rest of my day w/ his scent on me
…lol.
U knw…when ur on ur way from a bar & u can't wait..or ur on ur way to dinner & he pulls over…lol.
I'll do tht too….if his size is still felt afterwards….(wow..let me find out we're sexual intellectuals on the same level) lmao
DAMN girl!!!!
I thnk a few men could read tht & feel like they need to step their game WAY up lol.
We didn't do it yet lol….lol.
I'm sure Xilla will post about it when it happens.
Got damn! Bulk folk? Really? Lmao
U must have a denali or van.
Lil nasty!
Do yo thang. Imma send u some wit the iud!!
Hahaha
hee hee
OH OK Now I see…..well yeah……hell yeah……….. But you gotta get with the baby wipes folk, baby wipes…..
lmao
I believe we are on the same level………oh yea!!!
lol
Well sheeeiiittt that's them……….these are my top 3 and these are a few of the reasons why……..
and in 09 people do need to step it up and get back to the basics of being themselves and not what you think others feel you should be…….
uh-Huh
=o)
yeah I knw I need to get up on baby wipes but those things can become a little expensive even if u buy bulk like from Costo's lol….
but they do come in quite handy lol
exactly…!!!….lol..
ppl out here want bubbles blown w/ their milk…smch…
like dude, r u gonna cut the check that those broads get from blowing bubbles?…lol…u want a p*rn freak u need to pay a montly maintenance fee so a sister can keep the appearnce up lol
but all jokes aside, ppl do need to get back to the basics & not let these rappers, movies stars and p*rn stars rule their life…
LOVE THIS BLOG BUT I HAVE A QUESTION WHY IS IT WHENEVER I ASK A DUDE WHAT HE LIKES SEXUALLY THEY ALWAYS TELL ME THEY DONT KNOW. HOW DO U EXPECT ME TO PLEASE U IF U DON'T KNOW HOW U WANNA BE PLEASED. LEAVE UP TO ME I MIGHT DO SOMETHING TO TURN U OUT AND RUIN U FOR THE NEXT CHICK ;-D
lmao ness and suga y'all are nuckin futz! lol anywho i keeps this lil circular thingy of babywipes in my purse its like the size of a condom and about 1in high. i can fit it even in a clutch….u MUST keep them on deck not just for hobath reasons but because babywipe get out most tough stains…..i dehated on my moms white tank after cherry juice and bbq sauce jizzed on her…..
random i know. but what would i be if i weren't a random ass something!?!?! lol
amen! i'm over everybody stuntin for no reason. just get neked and do like they do on the discovery channel! uh huh! u and me baby ain' nothing but mamals..['member that song?] lol and i second the monthly maintenence fees! sheeeeeeeeit i don't have a perm and it takes mucho pesos to keep my doobie wrapped right after my adventures! oKAAAAAAAAAAY?!
Lol. U silly shawty.
Yea let them know & they are to contact Mirena & mirena contacts ur insurance company & they let them kno if its covered & at what percentage. Usually takes 3-5 business days. U can holla at me if u like cagedbeauty07@yahoo.com.
Limited space my ass….!what like a bathroom stall? Lmao jus sayin………. Hahahahaha
Oh Yeah! I've had it so good that I've had to “let it marinate” a few times… ahhhh
NIDC dude was really, really, really good but the ULTIMATE best I ever had was with a guy I've been friends with since I was little, being TRUE friends took it to a level I can't even describe – it made it so comfortable to be with him, we both truly had NO inhibitions, there was no holdin back from sayin what was on our minds for fear of “playin ourselves” or none of that silly shyt
Prior to that experience I had heard all the pros and cons of “f*ckin friends” but it truly shocked me how the friendship can take you such a long way…there is so much to be said for sexin someone that you know truly loves (non-romantic) you and has your best interests at heart…
LMAO…nope…no denali or mini van here….I like small vehicles lol. I work better w/ limited space…lol.
yeah girl about that IUD…I'ma call my dr's office tmrw & see wht's up w/ the insurance accepting it & if not I'ma need tht for 09'.
really, where did u buy this wonderful little thing from!! I need tht in my life like yesterday lol.
I'm random w/ mine too so it's nothing!! keep on keepin on lol
exactly!!!
they get mad when u try to wrap the hair up….but then wanna mess it up when it's down..lol. Like dude, I JUST got this sh*t done 6hrs ago!!!! I'm gonna need u to brake me off w/ sum chump change to do my hair..cuz as soon as I walk into the salon 2days after getting it done, my beautician is gonna knw whts up lol…
Maintenance fee guys!!!…lol…
Wowsers!! Lmao ur an effin pro!!! I'm jelly…….jus joshin.
But check it. Staff does make a difference but best believe she knows she hired. Hood rats. On the really real. If u like I can do that 4 u through my office. Email me if they aren't movin fast enough 4 u.
Atl off n dis bitch! I'm drunk…. =oP
Thnx 4 saying it b/c I thght I was the only one who wont wash it off immediately….
besides…only rape victims do tht shit! lol…..not someone who just been made luv to, got their back blown out, their pu$$y ate, and salad tossed, and came so many times tht u could barely get up b/c ur dehydrated lol…..
yeah it's been 5days, they're bsn'..the doctor is cool, but she hired a couple of hot ghetto messes to do sh*t like tht..smch
Ive done small bathrooms, but it's nothing better than not using the back seat & making the best of the front seats!
the steering wheel adds to your ranges & depth lol 
it's great leverage…lol so is the head rest lol
UMDROFLMAOOL …OMG, you are too funny for that one…
After a man brings your body to an uncontrollable ejaculation. And you
have absolutely NO control over that shit!!! The look on his face is
like when Tyrese did the 'beat it up right dance' in 'Baby Boy'.
Lmao!!!!! You have to marry a man like that!
Not even half of men are THAT in tune to a woman's body. Lol!!!
Gotta put a ring on that!! LMAO!!!!
no doubt girl!!! I need tht in my life like NOW lol…
Or your legs just will NOT cooperate. No matter how many times you roll trying to get off the bed, LMAO!!!
How many men can make a woman squirt?
When he did, I bought the ring. Its waiting for him to propose first. LOL!!
R u serious!!! U bought the ring???? For real?!?!!?!? LOL…
I hear tht hot ish!..lol
lmao!!! exactly!!! u try to get up and can barely see wht's in front of u lol…u just black out lol…while he sitting there laughing lol…
Wow!!!
so did ya'll get married
No, lol. I'm waiting on him to ask first. But when he does, I'm ready, lol!
Ok I have to say HELL YES to this! lol The best sex I EVER HAD 9and can still have if I wanted too lol) was with one of my closest males friends. We've been super tight since high school. We were platonic for at least 4 years b4 we even had our first kiss/dry hump, but when we finally did the do—-LAWD HAVEMERCY! Sex is sooo fun with him. SEX SHOULD BE FUN! No inhibitions, we get as nasty as we wanna be, even laugh during the do. I think it does have a lot to do w/ the comfort level and genuine love we have for eachother. Even though we stop having eps when we're involved with someone, its kinda an unwritten rule that when we need some healing and we're single we can get it poppin.
So what do we learn from this? That GREAT MIND-BLOWING SEX can be achieved when ur with someone u genuinely love/care for, can be best friends with, lots of attraction (eachother's types), makes u laugh, and is fun to be around! that's what we all should strive for when picking a Mr. or MRS….u can't loose with that!
i bought it at walgreen's here in chicago. costco has the same lil container also. i should like take a pic and then email it lol. but yea, its perfect for all kindsa cleanups ;P nah mean!??!
i bought it at walgreen's here in chicago. costco has the same lil container also. i should like take a pic and then email it lol. but yea, its perfect for all kindsa cleanups ;P nah mean!??!
Yeah….do tht so I knw lol
Yeah….do tht so I knw lol