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The Ultimate Guide For Better Foreplay
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships on 31. Dec, 2008
When you mention foreplay to most people they tend to look at you like you have an extra nose growing out of your right eye lid. It’s not that they don’t know the meaning of it, it’s just that men don’t it, and women don’t receive foreplay. So I decided to come up with a few foreplay techniques to spark your lovers attention and really get the sex on and popping.
Naturally Alise said foreplay “is very important, without it is like corn flakes without the milk, still edible, but but not quite complete.” Eating bare corn flake is only good when you’re high or starving, but stripping down bare naked can do a lot to turn your lover on to a whole new level. I’m not only mentioning it for the ladies either. Men should strip for their woman as well. Women like to look at a man’s body, even if he’s not stacked like Lee Haney or Reggie Bush. They like to see the penis, touch the penis and examine the penis. Note for the guys out there don’t fold your clothes after you take them off or do a shimmie skittle shake like Diamond, The Stripper from your local strip club.
thank GAWD u ain' leave us wit wayne! woooooooooo!
so i'm not a big fan of the sloppy wet kissing, but a good kiss will incite a riot up in my drawz! that's soooooooo important! i agree with Nerd. 4play is like nonexistant. lol people are afraid to “go first” like we're in grammar school or something. “if i do u, u gotta promise to do me”[then they 1/2 ass go for it in an attempt to not be caught out there bogish] as sexual intellectuals “we should just go all out, don't be afraid of the sweat” oKAAAAY?!?! i only cum off of foreplay so this is MANDATORY for me. i had a whiteboy kiss the arch of my foot, and i kid u not a tear came to my eye! HAAAAAAAAAAA! for real…. its not always about suckin and licking being attentive is key….
ok, i think i had an orgasm just reading that..
*forwarding*
I strongly believe foreplay is the most imporatnt part of sex…that's a start, that's when you let your partner know “it's time, I am open”.
That's when you want your partner to know “I want some”…most ppl just wam bam-NO NO NO!!
In my book foreplay comes first..kissing, nibbled, caressing, fondled, biting, even verbally is such a turn-on!!
all that is very important to me…that's when I know it's time and my partner bettter know it's time….
Ppl who just go straight at it wiothoiut foreplay are wack and have no skills….just lames!!
GREAT POST!
Thanks P-Lo, I agree with you somewhat… sometimes it should be okay to get right into it… and foreplay should be more than just head. I feel victim to head and then sex before i mean it's cool but this way is so much better.
Really? Interesting…
hi5 p-lo! sometimes you just gotta BLAM! and bang one out, but i appreciate the whole “cue” thang…yea….
Great post Xilla!
Ladies, I don't know about ya'll, but if a man knows where and HOW to touch, lick, suck, fondle my body then it's 10x easier for me to climax! It's a lot of mental stimulation like Xilla says (men being vocal and making us feel like the sexiest bitch alive makes us forget about our insecurities and inhibitions). That gives us a chance to focus on just feeling good instead of “i hope he doesn't see that dimple”.
Also, all that teasing and waiting for penetration makes us more SENSITIVE! I know if the foreplay is on point than all u got to do is damn near BREATHE on my clit and i'm coming
You are SOOOO right about the teasing…the “Anticipation of Penetration” will give you the best O's of your life…
Foreplay is what happens when you wanna be with the person. You are enjoying their scent, the way they feel, they are appealing to your eyes, you want to extend the time that is shared. I know that foreplay exisits because I make time for it….and so does my partner.
Kissing is mandatory. If I desire you enough to climb all up in my sugar walls hell a kiss should come naturally. Sex for me is more than just an act and I think there are a lot of people who don't view it that way, maybe with that particular person, and they don't want to spend their time getting you aroused.
It's fun. I come from intercourse and foreplay so either way it's win win for me..
that chick looks scary in the pic
that chick looks scary in the pic
IT'S ABOUT TIME SOMEONE POSTED ABOUT THIS. IF U GETTING UR GROWN UP ON FOREPLAY IS SOOO IMPORTANT. U DONT DRIVE A CAR WITHOUT WARMING IT UP FIRST THE SAME THING GOES FOR THE PUSSY. WARM IT UP AND IT'LL DRIVE SO MUCH BETTER ;-D
IT'S ABOUT TIME SOMEONE POSTED ABOUT THIS. IF U GETTING UR GROWN UP ON FOREPLAY IS SOOO IMPORTANT. U DONT DRIVE A CAR WITHOUT WARMING IT UP FIRST THE SAME THING GOES FOR THE PUSSY. WARM IT UP AND IT'LL DRIVE SO MUCH BETTER ;-D
I think people lost the concept of foreplay when sex became more about that quickie.
Foreplay isn't (at least in my opinion) for the jumpoff. With the exception of giving and receiving oral, foreplay is often disgnated for relationships. In a relationship there is intimacy and foreplay allos both to express that.
I think people lost the concept of foreplay when sex became more about that quickie.
Foreplay isn't (at least in my opinion) for the jumpoff. With the exception of giving and receiving oral, foreplay is often disgnated for relationships. In a relationship there is intimacy and foreplay allos both to express that.
Foreplay is a necessity for me! And most guys just don't want to give it. I am jealous of any female who gets her “O” without foreplay. And I'm sick of this half-assed neck-kissing and booty-rubbing followed by an impatient and annoyed “Now can I get it?”
A note to all men: If you sound annoyed by the foreplay, it totally kills it for us. This is why so many attractive, sexy women become celibate. Cause it's not worth it! Xilla, continue to educate your peers. Damn, didn't mean to go into a rant on this topic. I guess I'm a little “frustrated”…
Foreplay is a necessity for me! And most guys just don't want to give it. I am jealous of any female who gets her “O” without foreplay. And I'm sick of this half-assed neck-kissing and booty-rubbing followed by an impatient and annoyed “Now can I get it?”
A note to all men: If you sound annoyed by the foreplay, it totally kills it for us. This is why so many attractive, sexy women become celibate. Cause it's not worth it! Xilla, continue to educate your peers. Damn, didn't mean to go into a rant on this topic. I guess I'm a little “frustrated”…
Damn fellas if you didn't get it before these comments are in all caps. The ladies dont want no half-ass lovin'. Foreplay is the key word.
Damn fellas if you didn't get it before these comments are in all caps. The ladies dont want no half-ass lovin'. Foreplay is the key word.
Thnx 4posting this one!
I dont know who got these silly ass men thinkin that foreplay is a waste of time but i dont get wet without it. i means whats sex without foreplay anyway??? thats like koolaid with no sugar
i really like when a guy tells me what he's going to do before he does it-if u wanna taste it…TELL ME!!! thats so exciting
Thnx 4posting this one!
I dont know who got these silly ass men thinkin that foreplay is a waste of time but i dont get wet without it. i means whats sex without foreplay anyway??? thats like koolaid with no sugar
i really like when a guy tells me what he's going to do before he does it-if u wanna taste it…TELL ME!!! thats so exciting
so i guess article makes me a sexual intellectual then…
so true…