Comments on: A Heart In Prison: When To Use The L-Word http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sun, 22 Nov 2009 09:41:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: yes http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10599 yes Wed, 31 Dec 2008 11:11:32 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10599 lol i agree and hey that just may be the way to go lol i agree and hey that just may be the way to go

]]> By: napps126 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10618 napps126 Tue, 30 Dec 2008 23:53:00 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10618 I have the problem of girls telling me they love me before they give me a chance to love them.... I have the problem of girls telling me they love me before they give me a chance to love them….

]]> By: Qrazy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10614 Qrazy Tue, 30 Dec 2008 19:28:07 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10614 sadly that is the majority of the fellas out here. sadly that is the majority of the fellas out here.

]]> By: Lady Jei http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10613 Lady Jei Tue, 30 Dec 2008 18:41:03 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10613 IMO, that's not a man, that's a boy who can't handle a woman; but needs a girl. IMO, that's not a man, that's a boy who can't handle a woman; but needs a girl.

]]> By: Lady Jei http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10617 Lady Jei Tue, 30 Dec 2008 18:38:40 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10617 I have said it first, but I know he felt it first. I have no intentions of hiding how I feel. That's like holding in that fart on the train that keeps coming back. Then your walking around with your damn stomach hurting. Let it go. I'd rather be ashamed, than bust a vein, lol. <br>I am a grown ass woman and don't need to wait for him to say it first, especially when his actions have told me time and time again. The way I see it, he will get around to it eventually. <br><br>Besides the majority of the time when I say it, he is blowing my back out, LMAO!!!!! j/k. I have said it first, but I know he felt it first. I have no intentions of hiding how I feel. That's like holding in that fart on the train that keeps coming back. Then your walking around with your damn stomach hurting. Let it go. I'd rather be ashamed, than bust a vein, lol.
I am a grown ass woman and don't need to wait for him to say it first, especially when his actions have told me time and time again. The way I see it, he will get around to it eventually.

Besides the majority of the time when I say it, he is blowing my back out, LMAO!!!!! j/k.

]]> By: daisybunny http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10616 daisybunny Tue, 30 Dec 2008 14:22:59 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10616 i think it should simply come naturally. there's no matter who says it. as long as you truely love the person...obviously they truely must love you too. whoever says it has to mean it...man or woman. i think it should simply come naturally. there's no matter who says it. as long as you truely love the person…obviously they truely must love you too. whoever says it has to mean it…man or woman.

]]> By: nichellewalker http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10615 nichellewalker Tue, 30 Dec 2008 10:34:18 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10615 I say let him spill the beans first we woman talk to damn much anyways we sit around telling a man all our feelings and he gonna be just want you run your mouth off and tell him. Than he flowers and candy and here come I Love You after he knows he got you the real him comes out. Ladies sometimes it more wise to let the man take the lead. I say let him spill the beans first we woman talk to damn much anyways we sit around telling a man all our feelings and he gonna be just want you run your mouth off and tell him. Than he flowers and candy and here come I Love You after he knows he got you the real him comes out. Ladies sometimes it more wise to let the man take the lead.

]]> By: Qrazy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10612 Qrazy Tue, 30 Dec 2008 10:15:29 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10612 A woman should NEVER say "I love you first". Men run from any type of "permanent" situation when it comes down to relationships. If a woman says "I love you", the fellas think we want to get married tomorrow.... A woman should NEVER say “I love you first”. Men run from any type of “permanent” situation when it comes down to relationships. If a woman says “I love you”, the fellas think we want to get married tomorrow….

]]> By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10611 HeadMistress Tue, 30 Dec 2008 08:17:29 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10611 You know when someone loves you, if you have to question it well then that's your answer...<br><br>I don't agree with the "wait until he says it first thing" you also shouldn't get caught up on him saying it right after you do for the first time, feels forced<br><br>If you feel it say it, as with all things this requires being smart about it, be realistic and know what kind of relationship you're in, don't be stupid about it and blurt it out off of pure openess, if your relationship is REAL and STRONG then saying it without hearing it back right away won't crush you or make you regret saying it....it won't mark the beginning of the end of your relationship You know when someone loves you, if you have to question it well then that's your answer…

I don't agree with the “wait until he says it first thing” you also shouldn't get caught up on him saying it right after you do for the first time, feels forced

If you feel it say it, as with all things this requires being smart about it, be realistic and know what kind of relationship you're in, don't be stupid about it and blurt it out off of pure openess, if your relationship is REAL and STRONG then saying it without hearing it back right away won't crush you or make you regret saying it….it won't mark the beginning of the end of your relationship

]]> By: erica http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/comment-page-1/#comment-10598 erica Tue, 30 Dec 2008 05:37:14 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/29/a-heart-in-prison-when-to-use-the-l-word/#comment-10598 i hate playing these games when it comes to relationships. why cant men and women just be honest? i know that sounds extremely young and naive, but damn thats all i want. i told my current boyfriend i loved him first and ever since he's been a jackass. so im gonna take from this unhappy experience and become a cynical downright rude chick, for some reason men seem to like that. and please say its not boys that act that way. its MEN.<br> im just ranting now, but i plan on breaking up w/ my bf 1/1/2009 and saying the line "like barack obama said its time for a change." i just always wanted a reason to say that. :) i hate playing these games when it comes to relationships. why cant men and women just be honest? i know that sounds extremely young and naive, but damn thats all i want. i told my current boyfriend i loved him first and ever since he's been a jackass. so im gonna take from this unhappy experience and become a cynical downright rude chick, for some reason men seem to like that. and please say its not boys that act that way. its MEN.
im just ranting now, but i plan on breaking up w/ my bf 1/1/2009 and saying the line “like barack obama said its time for a change.” i just always wanted a reason to say that. :)

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