3 Sex Habits You Need To Break Today

Posted in Rated Grown Up on Dec 11, 2008

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Has your sex life become boring and predictable, and on every Friday night at 10pm you assume the position to have sex with your boo? Well probably not because you read this site, but if it is than this blog is for you. The next time you expose your private parts to the fresh air I want you to try something different, and break a few boring sex habits we’ve all fell victim to at one time or another.

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The Same First Move: It’s sort of like when you hear the lyrics “It’s not unusual to be loved by anyone” you know someone around you is going to start doing the Carlton Dance, sex habits are the same thing. It’s cool at first, but no one wants to be with the person that’s actually doing that dance at every party. Do This: The opposite of whatever it is that you normally do, or just try this. Blindfold your lover, and let them explore your body, guide their head anywhere you want it, or just have fun watching them trying to undress you without looking.

Turn Off the Lights and Do It: I know when I was living with my girl, it seemed like every night we turned out the light, cut off the television and had sex. Well not every night, but on the nights that we would, it was very routine. I would have loved to do something different like reading a very passionate book to her, while she laid on my chest. Which sucks because this idea popped in my head right before I typed the previous sentence and now it would be an act of passion that’s sort of planned. lol It’s still sure to gain some serious cool points if you do this. I wonder how many females can read and get head at the same time?

Same Bat Channel and The Same Bat Time: Another giant mistake we make is to keep doing it in the same place every single time we make love. It could be something as easy as having sex in a different room that can turn your lover on tremendously. I haven’t had sex in the shower in a real long time, and although none of my shower sessions ever happen like it does in the movies one day it can. Put on a show, in the steamiest room in your home. Lather your body, get your hair wet and do the damn thing. If you don’t want to get all wet, you can always have a quickie.


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  • Roxychic
    my partner [at the time] always asked what I wanted him to do [after a while], and that was cool but sometimes I wanted him to be creative on his OWN and show me something new that I could learn [from him]. but I guess there's nothing wrong with an attentive lover. the book idea sounds splendid but I don't know many guys [to my knowledge] that would anything to do with a book during sex. unless its the kama sutra. lol
  • VIChick
    I am guilty of doing most of those things. When you get into a routine it is hard to get out of it. The passionate book idea sounds amazing. Like i always say if you can make love to my mind I am all yours.
  • Mind sex can take place in numerous ways, either reading or just a staring match. There are a lot of ways to get mind fcked
  • VIChick
    Anything a man can do to stimulate my mind turns me on. My boo got me because of that very reason.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    i agree. being the control freak that i am i have a hard time just humpin and gettin anything from it. when a man touches me mentally things are muuuuch more intense! i and the queen of intense stares or reading with my partner.....good times man good times...
  • OneWaYWeeZy
    I think its necessary to switch it up sometimes, especially if you in an exclusive relationship. I dont know about ya'll but I'd get bored doing the same thing every time. But I think there are alot different things that can be explored, its all about ones ambition in the bedroom.
  • true indeed thats' my point switch it up but it's easy to get caught up in repetitive sex when you're in an exclusive relationship is it not?
  • OneWaYWeeZy
    very true.....like i said you need to be an ambitious individual in the bedroom. being adventurous would help too.....
  • LOL
  • Squishy
    I had sex with my man in the back of my car in a semi-public place and I couldn't believe how hot it was. The thought of gettin caught made it even better. Plus the cramped space meant we were completely pressed up against each other. It was hot and steamy and all u could hear was skin slappin and heavy breathin. I LOVED it. It was nice to take things outa the bedroom for a change.....
  • It almost always is... I got stories for days lol
  • Squishy
    you should share them........ i could always use new ideas. lol
  • black_barbi510
    I need some new ideas too. I get so bored. me and my boo used to do it everywhere, but now I'm noticing he's real comfortable and the bed is just fine for him. I need more than that.
  • Go for a ride, and give him some brain. or just take him in the middle of some place where you can pull it off. If you're down i doubt he's going to object. If he does then go to the bathroom and come back and put your panties in his pocket. Let him know as soon as you get through the door it's on and popping.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    i've done both of these and believe u me it was so worth it! i love trying crazy things in restaurants. i have long legs and am a fan of the toe job [extend ur legs under the table and play with his manxilla, maintain a str8 face]. if ur man has a thing for feet this will surely turn him on! we were discussing stocks and politics and he jizzed in his pants! HA! lovely!

    practice giving great head,. recently a throwback d-i reminded me of when i gave him head the entire ride home from a raheem devaughn[download breathe, perfect humpin song] concert to the burbs[bout an hour]. it wasn't so intense that he came,just enough to make him extremely hot. we barely speak outside of the bedroom and the memories live on. when u do something SOOOO DIFFERENT or extreme it inevitably makes ur boo or humpmate love ya that much more.....
  • black_barbi510
    thanks xilla...thats whats up. I'm doing one of those tonight.
  • great let me know all the details... you got my email right?
  • black_barbi510
    yeah i got it...
  • Squishy
    I was with a guy that didn't like to be confined to the bedroom either. We did it in nearly everyroom in his house while never missing a beat. He carried me around the house and stopping to bang me against random things in the house. The table, refrigerator, walls, the front door, we stopped once and he ate the "kitty" on the stairs and picked me right back up and continued our journey. He has some strong arms and a lot of stamina. lol
  • kiki
    guilty guilty guilty of all 3 been with my man almost 15yrs and for the last 5 u put the nail in the coffin imma follow up on all 3
  • Well sometimes it's not all about the way you're having sex or the place but it's about the other things you do. Like teasing your man. One day I was riding down the freeway with my ex. I had my seat back a bit, right leg on the dash, and left hand down my jeans. He got so turned on just watching me and sucking my fingers, not to mention just knowing that his good & saintly woman was also turning on the dude in the truck next to us. When we got out of the car it was on! LOL. That was years ago. Now I have a surprise for my current boyfriend's birthday which is this Saturday. If he trusts me then I'll blow his mind. It's not what ya'll think. No strap ons or anything like that. Just some good ol' fun. So this Gemini is going to wow her Sagitarius man and give him some like he's never had before, but it's cool cause I'm in love. No inhibitions right? ;)
  • msstarr
    cant live a boring sex life...wit my man it used to be tha same ol missionary first, doggy second, etc...he finally realized I was bored wit it and switched it up..

    ..and lol @ tha carlton reference...memories
  • ashley
    so off topic: your my internet boyfriend. You're the only man blog I read . lol its just a web thing... :) i had 2 let u know keep it up
  • why thank you very much ashley
  • when i was with my ex...dispite our long distance relationship...we started out right, we used to do the phone thing (emails and iming each other sexual scenario)..i would be in class and my ex and i would have this sexual scenario..it was very excited at first and althought my ex stopped doing it and I would write and texted sexual things to my ex's phone but my ex didn't get the point..or didn't want to try to get the hint..and we would see each other like once every three months,..i live in NY and my ex lives in TX..so the last time I seen my ex was when we was in ATL together in aug. , I wanted to try something new since we don't see each other like that (in the shower) and guess what? my ex was like "i don't feel comfortable, it's not that"..ughhh!!..so we had to go on to our usual same 'ol routine...
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