You Decide: How To Handle An Uncircumsized Man

Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships, Xilla on on Dec 10, 2008

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Over the weekend I got an email from one of my regular readers and I decided to open this one up to the great readers of BlogXilla.com

As a sexual intellectual I seek your advice. My bf is a great lover he’s attentive, knows how to hit the right spots, and the length is just right, but there are a few flaws in our sex life.

  • 1.) He’s not circumcised. (Which poses a huge problem for me) When he enters me it hurts and second because I find it difficult to give him oral (and I really pride myself on my oral skills) Its just with him, the extra skin and all, it makes it difficult. (any ideas ??).
  • 2.) Second his oral skills are lacking (majorly). I try to tolerate it (since he’s trying and only because he knows I like a good tongue spanking) but he just doesn’t have it and no matter which way I move his head he just doesn’t get it.

We’ve been together for about six months now and I really like (maybe even love him. . lol) so HELP ME PLEASE

As far as his oral skills I can help you out with that I’ve written numerous blogs on how to eat her the right way. I would suggest guiding him and his lackluster tongue towards pleasing you by reading him the following blogs.

She Deserves A Tongue Spanking

  • I also like to push her cl*t in and out my mouth, hitting it with my tongue and lips. By that time my face is pretty wet so I wipe my face off, lick her off my fingers and insert one inside of her with the palm of my hand facing the bottom of her insides. I rub along the bottom wall, work it to the side wall and then up to the top wall.

Moral Oral

  • I had her legs Propped up in the air pushing them back and back licking the top of her pussy and going to the bottom of her pussy giving it a total tongue bath!!! but then it happens… While pushing her legs up I go too far down and her as* comes to far up and I plant one hell of a lick right smack on her…

I Eat P*ssy Till I Burp

  • Now the key to giving good head is to keep her guessing, slow licks, up and down licks, circle licks, s shaped licks as long as you keep your ears open you’ll know what she likes but here is the key don’t be afraid to leave the cl*t, this is not hide and seek and the cl*t is not home base this is eating pussy 101. Do her a favor swallow…

There are probably a ton of blogs on here about oral but those 3 should be enough to have him eating you more than a fat person at a buffet. Now as far as uncircumsized wieners I’m sorry, but I can’t help you there so this is where I need to open up the floor to the ladies of BlogXilla.com

Have any of you ever experienced a man who wasn’t snipped? How can she handle him?


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  • me no likey uncircumcised penis. And it is my experience that if dude doesn't absolutely love (or act like he loves) the cootchie, then you will be able to tell from his oral skills. You can't make him want it and love it. I have no advice.
  • Lissa
    Well my experiences have been different, some ppl just don't have it. It has nothing to do with the feel of your va jay jay
  • VIChick
    I had an ex that wasn't snipped and that shit bothered the hell out of me. I don't know what advice to give because I had to cut him loose. No pun intended. It just freaked me out too much. Unsanitary

    And I love to see a nice head!!
  • ANuJS
    I must agree. If I were back n the dating game this would be a question I'd ask @ go. This would be a getting to know you question. I'd dry up if this caught me by surprise in the heat of the moment. I too love to see and LICK a nice head.
  • DC_REALEST
    im curious to ask whether this is something that should be discussed prior to intercourse? if so, would you even consider the next date knowing that he is uncircumsized? i think its somewhere between asking their HIV status and how many kids they have.

    just sayin....
  • Bun_ebombshell
    LOL good answer!
  • I ask guys off the jump if they're circumcised. If they say No, then I'm happy :) if they say yes, then I'm happy too but in a different way.... lol.
  • DC_REALEST
    iight Ness, what different way?
  • Well i'm not AS happy if he is circumcised lmao!! lol.

    men who aren't snipped bring something different to the bedroom for some reason & I love it!! to the point tht if I ever have a son, I'm not circumcising him at all. He might not understand it at first, but he will one day loll
  • Lissa
    I have to agree they do bring something different to the bedroom. . Its hard to exactly describe what but they do.
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Damn, thank you Ness. I was beginning to think that there was a C O N spiracy going on. I for one am not circumcised and I must say that I am far from unsanitary and I have never had any woman complain upon seeing my uncircumcised dick. As long as you keep your personal hygiene up to par there should be no problem. I think circumcision is actually kinda nasty and pageanistic. If God didn't want my dick to have all that extra skin on it it wouldn't be there. I think that my dick is more sensitive because it isn't exposed all the time. The head is soft and nice and it gets to stay inside its own little cover when it's not being used. Don't front on uncircumcised "d" because it's good stuff.
  • Exactly! :) Parents teach their uncircumcised son's from early on how to care for their privates.

    I feel the same way tht u do Ant!! The uncircumcised penis is the way it should be, not snipping it! God gave u wht he gave u for a reason! Tht's why I embrace it.

    I have to agree w/ u b/c it is more sensitive and 'protected' and maybe tht's the way it should be i/o being exposed...lol.
    And us women who don't mind the uncircumcised men really feel the difference in softness ;) It's definitely something diff :)
  • HeadMistress
    @ Ness

    now take that extra sensitivity and put the "squeeze" on it......"who the f*ck is boss!!" LOL!!!
  • EXACTLY!!! lol....
    Wht's my name nucca!! lol
  • you can't do that in real life!
  • Yes I can!!!!
  • HeadMistress
    " Don't front on uncircumcised "d" because it's good stuff."

    It definitely is...there you go startin again ;-D
  • Mmm mmm good! lol
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    ant u know i'ma be an ass....u got nudered taking away ur God given right to have kids....if God didn't want u to have kids he would have made u sterile. i'm just sayin...[insert side-eye]
  • Ant_from_Chi
    I made a choice to not have kids and I didn't want that choice taken away from me so I took care of it myself. That's my God given right. Just like it's anyones right to have kids if they want. I just don't want. By the way. There are a couple of parties jumping off that you might want to check out this weekend. Hit me.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    the last time i hit u, u ain' reply! so i deleted that numba! nah seriously my bottlegged phone deleted my numbers...i'm soooooooo ready for an upgrade on my social scene etc...text me or email me at tstompkins@gmail.com i had gr8 time with the old folks! i cleaned up at the dating game the next day! HA!

    again, didn't u interfere with God's plan for man, by gettin snipped? similarly men that choose a more hygenic and pleasurable, appealing penis are interfering with God's plan for the d-i.....how are they different?
  • Bun_ebombshell
    WOW...

    Well I was in that situation before minus the bad oral (he had great oral skills) and the painful entry with the father of my child. It freaked me out when I first saw it I must admit. Aside from the look of it, it didn't feel any differently. Actually it's probably the best I've had. I did love him so I kinda got over how it looked.

    Now when it comes to you giving him head, if it grosses you out then you probably aren't doing your best work because you're thinking about how gross it is. DISCLAIMER: My next sentence is about to be extremely gross but I did it and it's my only advice.

    If your head game is proper then you probably know how to work your hands and mouth at the same time right? Well, what you have to do is slide it (yes, that skin) down and keep it out the way. Like, grab him in the middle and just pull it down and keep it there then just go to work. If you love him or think you do, it's a small price to pay especially if you like giving head. If you can't do that then hell I don't know what to say...
  • @ Bun,

    YES!!!!!!! tht's exactly wht u have to do regarding oral!!!!! :) U hardly notice it from thn on....lol.

    But it doesn't bother me.
  • Lissa
    See he likes the skin to stay where it is he doesnt want it pulled back. So what now ??????????????
  • Bun_ebombshell
    Well what the hell he want you to do with it?? He wants you to suck the skin?? How can he feel anything if the skin is covering the head?? That's a weird one right there.
  • Lissa
    Thats what i was wondering. Because I knew to pull the skin back but. . . . . .he likes it where it is and I cant do that.
  • Then work ur magic....the skin is going to move around naturally.

    I like the skin so I incorporate it the whole BJ :) U have to enjoy it and then working w/ the extra skin will come naturally.

    I only move it out the way when I want to play w/ the head using my tongue.
  • Lissa
    HOW DO YOU DO IT NESS !!!!!!!!!????
    How do you incoporate the skin (help me please!!!. . lol)
    I was tolerating it till it got all loose and that's when i couldn't deal
    I guess i will have to learn to tolerate it till it comes naturally
  • Well........ :)

    I take the d*ck in my hand & as I put my mouth on it, I use my hand & slide my mouth down as I slide my hand down.

    Being tht I like the skin, I usually bring it back up w/ my hand & use my tongue & swirl around the circumference of it but still moving my hand up and down and in a circular motion.

    I get real creative w/ it. Being tht ur man likes for the skin to be involved, try bringing it up to the tip of his head and use ur tongue to play w/ the head & the skin simultaneously. And suck on it in a 'pop' way. Meaning after u go all the way down on his shaft & come back up to the head, tighten ur jaw/lips so tht when u pull is d*ck out ur mouth slightly while still having a firm grip on his d*ck w/ ur hand tht ur mouth makes the 'pop' sound similar to when u pull a bottle out of a baby's mouth

    Honestly, u have to love it! I just love the way it taste so it's hard to get me to stop giving oral when I'm into it.

    OR!!! Mayb u can use choc fudge to take away from the skin if tht's wht make u uncomfortable. Until ur comfortable doing it w/o props. think of it as tyring to get ur favorite dessert or topping off of his d*ck, even if it's on his foreskin.
  • Lissa
    LMFAO. . . Ness you are the greatest
    You don't know I'm sitting here taking notes. . . .I've literally saved all this to my email so that i can reread this later.
    But its not the giving oral part (I enjoy it) its the incoporating the skin, but Im going to try your ips. . Thanks
  • No problem girl...us females have to stick together! :) lol
  • HeadMistress
    Every dude is different but I've never had an issue with oral, once it's hard (at least in my case) there wasn't enough give in the skin for it to cover the head...

    I think I might have had a problem too if I could pull it up enough to put a twisty tie on it while erect...
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Have I told you that I love you today Ness?
  • Nah, u told me tht u "think" u love me lol.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    well i love u ness and i'ma make u my babymaaama, my babymaaaama![please listen to jackie o' new song, its utter hillarity!]i think ur tips were dead on...i still think snorts are weird but wiht ur hints i may learn to love 'em a lil mo'
  • I luv u to Thoney!! :)

    I hope my tips work out for her!! Sometimes I wish I could show by example (i.e. in person) lol...(j/k) lol
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    i wish u could too! lol gone run that accidentally leaked on purpose sext tape to 42#$5 Washington wesside o' da chi! OW OOOOOOOW!
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    u betta have great oral if ur workin with a snort! has anyone else noticed how uncut boys are like way bigger!? the 2 snorts i had wer 11 and 13 in! i mean i just wanted to twerk it a lil bit and it was THIR-teen inches.... i looked at it like what that fugg am i sposed ta do with that. it look like my aaaaaaaaaaarm! ;D

    please watch the utube xilla put up on how big is too big....
  • I saw tht video...lol...but she was kinda young so maybe size is different now than b4 lol.

    buy yeah, the unsnipped d*cks r usually a nice hefty size!!!! :) mayb b/c it didn't go thru shell shock while being cut on lol
  • Ant_from_Chi
    If his joint is hard, the skin should automatically go back. If not just push it back like BUN says and go to work. I don't know what to say about it being painful going in. That sentence was not gross at all either. It was very descriptive.
  • Lissa
    he doesn't like the skin pulled back
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Well fuck that Nigga then. He sounds complicated. Just kidding baby. Work it out. lol
  • lol roll it back like a slouch sock
  • LMAO!!!!!
  • DC_REALEST
    exactly...but can't that be painful when erect? thats what i thinking...
  • nah...u have to have an art to it....lol. only professionals like myself and BUN lol know lmao (j/k) but seriously lol.

    It doesn't hurt them if u know wht ur doing...... :)
    I can't explain it as well as I can do it lol. U have to use ur hands and ur mouth at the same time but allowing the head to be exposed while using ur tongue. ;)
  • Lissa
    ROTFLMFAO
  • Why does it hurt when he enters u. I don't think tht has anything to do w/ him being uncircumcised? I've dealt w/ a lot of uncircumcised men and it never hurt upon him entering b/c of the extra skin?

    As far as head, (I've given uncircumcised men) head b4 and it's not that far from giving a guy who is circumcised head. When they'r hard, the skin is easy to pull back and then u can go to work on the d*ck.

    I like to use the skin as much as possible b/c it's always been a turn on for them especially if you give a good hand job while using your mouth & tongue.

    But I'm a different breed of female, I luv the way an uncircumcised d*ck taste & feel in my mouth ;)
  • Art2dope
    DING DING DING!!! found the shorty! lol
    I'm uncircimcised, never had a problem! it just depends on how both adults react and take control of the situation. I'm hispanic, actually dominican, and from like 4 to 5 years old they was already teaching me and telling me to learn how to take care of my penis, so if they nasty then THATS NASTY! lol

    Plus forget the skin, just let me take you down! GrrrRRRrrRR its not how the boat lucks but the motion of the ocean and how the sailor talks to you (The tounge game) i personally think i got it!
  • Hahahaahaha I knew there were some uncircumcised men in the comment section!!! lol

    Yeah, once young boys r taught to care of it properly, then it shouldn't be disgusting/nasty. It may look weird, but other than that it shouldn't be unkept lol.

    In all honesty it's the penis in it's NATURAL form & I luv it! lol Unchanged from birth ;)
  • Bun_ebombshell
    WOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!!! I didn't LOVE it but I did grow to accept it. It didn't take much work.
  • Yeah, once I got a taste of it...I was instantly intrigued by it. And I guess I began to attract uncircumcised men to the point where I didn't even notice b/c it was something tht was encouraged.

    I remember asking a couple of guys if they could, do they wish their parents didn't circumcise them? lol. It might have been a little harsh but I needed to know.
  • Belly
    lmao wow... what a question. i would say nope. I never knew there was females out there that liked uncircumsized over circumsized. But im glad my parents made the decision to cut me up.. a little less to worry about if you asked me
  • Yup....circumcised men are cool...but uncircumcised men seem better to me :)
  • Belly
    yeah so what EXACTLY do the non-snipped dudes bring to the table that snipped dudes dont?? i've read through the comments but not one female said what it is exactly?!?!?!?!
  • Bun_ebombshell
    IMO there is no difference in how it feels besides when giving oral
  • I can't really explain it, but it's something that's just different. Mayb it's the size, the way that it feels, the way tht the skin feels inside of me...it's a number of things.

    Not to say tht un snipped men are wack b/c ya'll are good too... :)

    They dynamics are different. It feels different.
  • ANuJS
    Entry w/pain also makes me curious. Why does this hurt?
  • tht's wht I'm curious about too... b/c it might just be her and not him.
    b/c if anything (if they're not using condoms)....when he enters her, the skin on his uncircumcised johnson will roll back on it's own....it shouldn't cause her any pain.

    if they are using condoms, then he'll pull the skin back on his johnson b4 putting the condom on so that's not even a factor regarding pain.
  • Ant_from_Chi
    I think I love you Ness. lol
  • awww...I think I love u too Ant!!! :)
  • Ant is the man!! No Brokeback aka Christopher St.
  • Bun_ebombshell
    This has to be just between these two cuz like I said I didnt have that problem
  • I didn't have a problem either :)
    She might need to talk to her GYN about this b/c it's not from his extra skin. Mayb it's from his size b/c u know uncircumcised men are usually holdin' ;)
  • Lissa
    Ok I don't know why it hurts but that is also something new. .never had that either. And he is well endowed but hes not the first man that Ive dated who is sooooooooo. . . .
  • So it might not have anything 2 do w/ ur man being uncircumcised...
  • Belly
    lmao @ how the picture and the subject are perfect..

    ...nothing else really to say. More power to the dudes who are'nt snipp-snipped cause according to the comments, it looks like yall have a fanclub.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    i've dealt with this before. if u get his d-i nice and wet[slimy even] you'll be able to give oral and have sex easier. the key is to try and keep the skin peeled back either thru u squeezing ur muscles or slipping ur hand down there....

    while he's a munchin whisper lil cues to him or gently guide his hand or head....being as coy and suggestive as possible helps...he'll think u're getting into it more than telling him aw hell nawl thas wrong lol getit? hopefully this helps girl!
  • Lissa
    he really is not a fan of oral with the skin pulled back. That's my problem (maybe I should have included that) And that makes it hard because you know the skin gets looser and etc sooooooooooooooo. . what the hell do I do ??

    It hurts like maybe the first five min after that things are good.

    I tried that but he always manages to go back his way once I think I have him on the right track.

    Thanks for the help Thoney
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    if it hurts when it first goes in try relaxing. i think the mental image is kinda messin with u a bit. i for one am not a fan of snorts when there's another option available, jave found that the extra skin can be stimulating when u get used to it....lubrication is KEY! if its wet and slimy enough it won't be a big difference.
    if he's being hardheaded go dominatrix on his ass. try being forceful and confident "i told u not to stop! do it THIS WAY" that will take u being comfortbake and confident, but bedroom games are fun!

    [member the cartoon with the underwater aliens with the floppy tube on their head. The Snorts? thas where i get that term from as uncut men look snorty]
  • Lissa
    LOL. . .I might just have to go dominatrix on him. . . . yeah I remember that toon. . LMFAO @ the reference
  • I'm sorry if I offend anyone in advanced but here I go...I think an uncircumcised penis is nasty and I would not even go through the hassel of allowing one to go in me then to nonetheless put a blanket penis in my mouth. First of all studies, have shown that the extra skin tends to collect a lot of linth and dirt something you can get sick off of i.e. throat infections. i just feel once a man is old enough to make his own decisions it would be best to get it circumcised..I hear the sex is better after its done.

    As for the oral sex issue, let him watch you masterbate so that he see's what you really like and how you like it done and have him reenact it with his tongue and if all fails take an oral sex class...I know they have a bunch of those out here in NYC.
  • ANuJS
    Dammit! I need to move to NYC. I could definitely teach an oral sex class. Or I could be the "dummy" for the learning how to eat class. Either way, I'm up for the challenge.
    j/k-kinda! *whispering* unless u have some info on the classes :)
  • Belly
    lmao@ blanket penis...
  • Lissa
    Well if a man is taught the right way to care for his uncircumcised penis then there is no problem with dirt and lint

    And no sex is not always better once the skin is gone actually this is the best sex I've ever had (besides a few flaws) it adds something to it. And a lot of men choose not to go through with because it hurts more when they're older.

    But thanks I will have to try that maybe then he'll get it. We might just have to fly to NYC for the weekend. . lol
  • I believe most men who aren't snipped know how to clean and take care of their johnsons (I would hope). Most men tht I've encountered have been very clean w/ theirs.

    So studies are just that "studies"
  • Lissa
    Exactly studies are always disputed
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Why would any grown man in his right mind go an dwillingly have the skin cut off his "d". One of my fiends did that when i was about 21 and he was in such pain for like 2 weeks that it was hard to be around him. Afterwards he said it didn't feel any different than before.

    Any dick is going to catch lint and dirt. That shouldn't even be an issue as long as proper personal hygiene is in effect. If not, more than likely dude has other problems that you should be able to see which you can focus on because they will probably be worse than the condition of his penis.

    This blog is funny and the comments are even funnier.
  • everyone has their preferences..i happen to not think that it is not for me nor do I desire it...i can't speak for all women..as for all penis' catching lint this is true but I hear that ones that are not snipped gets trapped.

    do what makes u happy thats the code I live by...
  • HeadMistress
    It's inhumane to do it at all, I hear in some cases they don't even numb the area when they do infants, but especially when you're well into "life" my UD said for whatever reason his parents decided to have his younger brother circumcised when he was like 12 y/o and while he was recouping he and the older brother would torture him by showin him pics of naked women so he would get hard...LOL, but thats so mean!
  • Bun_ebombshell
    Can you tell me what "linth" is according to the studies you have researched?? I know what LINT is but "linth" is new to me...
  • Lissa
    LMFAO
  • you know what I meant...but ha ha you made a funny **standing ovation**
  • HeadMistress
    Well my "Sistahs In Support Of Uncircumcised Dick have basically covered it all...

    My only thought is to take away from the silly hype about hygiene...if a dude is dirty his dick is gonna be dirty snipped or unsnipped....hygiene is not an issue if a man is taught to care for himself properly and parents who make the decision not to circumcise don't make it lightly, especially in our culture where circumcision is the norm, they are usually very focused and educated on making sure they know and can teach their son how to care for himself

    The only misconception I experienced with my first one (I had no preconceived notions or aversions to UD) was that he didn't seem to be fully erect but that was due to the "give" because of the extra skin that I wasn't used too...once he was "in" that misconception went bye-bye... :-D
  • yes
    I don't think being uncircumsized is whats causing her pain. Maybe he's just big. People get so used to things that once we are faced with something different we don't like it. Most of the time when an uncircumsized guy gets hard the skin goes back anyway. It's really not a big deal. I think they look better circumsized, but when it comes down to it, they all work the same way.
  • STONGURL
    Oh my goodness...never seen an uncircumsized d*ck...havent seen too many, Ive had very few partners, but anywho, I gagged when I first gave oral, so I kno if I was given some on a dude with all that extra skin..i might just vomit...but xilla should write a freakin book!!
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