Please Her With Your Fingers

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I’m sure many women probably don’t want this guy poking around in their lower lady parts, but with the right knowledge a man can bring a woman to orgasm with his fingers alone. A lady friend of mine once told me that she felt like I had gave her the real thing after I pleased her with my fingers. She was shocked with I proved to her that I can make her cum using my fingers alone and after yesterdays blog I figured why keep this knowledge to myself. Here are a few techniques that can help a man explore her lady parts the right way.

Before we start a man should do a few things

  1. Wash his hands
  2. Know what his woman likes
  3. position him self at the right angle for entry

Different women like different things, and this is a fact I can’t preach enough, so if you’re a sexual intellectual you can be in tune to what your woman likes in the bedroom and choose the correct finger style to please your lady.

The Usain Bolt Finger – Usain Bolt is the current fastest man in the world and to honor his victory I’ve named this first technique after him. This technique is for the lady who likes it rough and fast. Take your freshly clean fingers and gently place them in her mouth to get them moist. I don’t know about y’all but I love getting my fingers sucked, especially my eleventh finger. Take your other hand and spread her legs, then place your moist fingers on her cl*t and rub in a soft circular motion, applying pressure to her lady part, occasionally rubbing your middle finger across the length of her vagina, you’ll want to gradually advance the speed of your circles. I would advise switching up the direction of your motion and also taking your fingers in and out of her from time to time.

The Roof Finger – Kneel down in front of her open legs, and insert your middle finger inside of her with your palm facing upward then rub the roof of her vagina. Continue to move your finger in and out, while tapping on the roof of her vagina, every so often rotate your finger inside of her and please her at different depths of her insides.

Take Two – You have two hands for a reason, use them. If you’re doing a good job you’ll feel her getting wetter by the minute. While one hand is inside her, take the other hand and rub on her clitoris. While you’re down there you might as well take a few licks of her lady parts, using your hands to spread it out and taste the goodness of a woman.

The Squeeze – Another thing I like to do is squeeze her lips together making sure the clitoris is popping out of the lips and rubbing on it to stimulate and turn her on. You can kiss her while you do this.

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41 Responses to “Please Her With Your Fingers”

  1. ANuJS says:

    Oh wow! I for one am a fan of fingers. These techniques….wow!

  2. Black tai says:

    on instrutional pic to help a brudda out

  3. VIChick says:

    I am not a fan of the finger banging. It does not a dam thing for me. When I was in high school there was this fingerer that loved to do it but that shit never did anything. I guess no one has ever done it the way Xilla described. Hey Xilla you wanna try it on me? LOL

  4. BlogXilla says:

    LMAO!! Black Tai wants pictures… You wanna be my Christmas GIFT?

  5. BlogXilla says:

    I'll put out an ad on craigslist for a finger model.

  6. BlogXilla says:

    so you like huh? lol

  7. VIChick says:

    LOL, if you want me as your Christmas gift you gotta come get me. As a gift I want a computer, just saying. lol

  8. Ness says:

    A man who knows how to give a good finger job is the bomb!! But not all ppl have that skill! lol.

    But at the end of the day, I like D*CK!!!!!!!! :) Str8t penetration!!!! :) fingers are good for 4play, but I'm gonna need u to drop the draws lol and come in side ;)

    Oh the memories!! lol

  9. VIChick says:

    D*ck penetration is better than anything else. I get hooked on great charlie. Fingers are played out. LOL

  10. JG* says:

    Wwowowowowowow! How about that. Ummm.. yea*

    But I too am a fan of the 11th finger above all else.

    Amen.

  11. ANuJS says:

    Come on BIB. Fingers are the prequel. Or they can be the sequel! How can you not get turned on especially if the fingers are the right size (length and thickness just like Peter)They can hit all the right spots then he can pull them out and you can taste “you”. What's better than this? I'm kinda weird. Some days I really crave a good finger f*ck. I luv d*** 2, but I love a bit of variety!

  12. VIChick says:

    I just can't dig it. I guess it was never done right

  13. Giggles says:

    I like the variety of fingers, tongue, toys and the member itself. The only thing that is a requirement is that a man must have clean, lotioned hands. His fingernails must be trimmed with no jagged edges.

  14. IFavorMe says:

    Good finger…followed by good “D” does a body ummm, ummm….GOOD!

  15. Ess says:

    Fingers are very important. Which is why when I meet a man 1 of the first things I look at is his hands. But um yea.. I'm big on four play so its necessary. Very necessary.

  16. ANuJS says:

    There are definitely sexy hands that make you imagine them doing nasty dirty things. Foreplay is IMPORTANT to me. Getting me turned on is a huge part!

  17. HappyToBeNappy says:

    This needs to passed around to every man out there. You do not just jabb a finger in there and expect magic to happen. . .no way, no how. This is how it should be done.

  18. M.Y. says:

    “lady parts” you made me giggle xilla :-)

  19. i am...formerly known as ha ha says:

    i for one am always down for a good finger f**king session

  20. HeadMistress says:

    Oh, yeah… fingers are definitely a good thing, especially when you're in a place where you can't or aren't daring enough to get to that eleventh finger, it's naughty and sexy and gets you going to a point where you can't wait to get home, or to the car, or in the elevator or where ever you can get a quickie in…

    Fingers during oral is a must, clitoral stimulation is great and all that but penetration means so much more to me and until I meet the sexy uncircumcised contortionist of my dreams who can eat and fuck me at the same time fingers are it!

  21. nynikki says:

    Thank u for #1. wash your hands! And it won't hurt to run a nail brush across those fingertips. I've stopped more than one fingering for fear of where his hands had been. It's the little things. ;-)

  22. nynikki says:

    Thank u for #1. wash your hands! And it won't hurt to run a nail brush across those fingertips. I've stopped more than one fingering for fear of where his hands had been. It's the little things. ;-)

  23. ALMiss says:

    I'm also a fan of fingers…at times! I've had the Roof Finger done before and it was great cuz dude knew just what he was doing!! But fellas please please please, do your lady a favor and clip your nails before you plan on fingering her. Cutting us up will leave us in AL0T of pain to where we want you nowhere near the vajayjay!

  24. ALMiss says:

    I'm also a fan of fingers…at times! I've had the Roof Finger done before and it was great cuz dude knew just what he was doing!! But fellas please please please, do your lady a favor and clip your nails before you plan on fingering her. Cutting us up will leave us in AL0T of pain to where we want you nowhere near the vajayjay!

  25. OneWaYWeeZy says:

    its good pre-gaming…..

  26. OneWaYWeeZy says:

    its good pre-gaming…..

  27. Squishy says:

    I enjoy the fingering, but I have this “problem” where I get too wet. I saw on a different post that guys don't like it if it's too wet. I can't help it, but I think that exta lube helps cause I've been having sex very regularly for 3 years and evertime I do it, it's tight like I'm a virgin.

  28. Squishy says:

    I enjoy the fingering, but I have this “problem” where I get too wet. I saw on a different post that guys don't like it if it's too wet. I can't help it, but I think that exta lube helps cause I've been having sex very regularly for 3 years and evertime I do it, it's tight like I'm a virgin.

  29. MzVirgo says:

    You should also add that a man needs to clip his fingernails or hangnails. I had an incident where a guy inserted his finger and it hurt so bad that he needed to be BANNED from fingering me. I thought he scraped some tissue off in there! Sheesh….

  30. MzVirgo says:

    You should also add that a man needs to clip his fingernails or hangnails. I had an incident where a guy inserted his finger and it hurt so bad that he needed to be BANNED from fingering me. I thought he scraped some tissue off in there! Sheesh….

  31. yes says:

    I once knew a guy with magic fingers…

  32. yes says:

    I once knew a guy with magic fingers…

  33. BlogXilla says:

    really what happened to him,

  34. BlogXilla says:

    really what happened to him,

  35. yes says:

    He's somewhere around town, that was my college days

  36. yes says:

    He's somewhere around town, that was my college days

  37. ezze29 says:

    I really like the Take 2, but I must say..those dudes with the long rough nails, really freak me out. Fellas please make sure under your nails are clean, no sticky sticky, if there is dirty, dirty lol

  38. Callmemissjoy says:

    I'ma have to agree wit ESS. But I have gotten to the point where i can't go with out a good “fingering” it's really become the ONLY way i can ..you know “get there” ofcourse we all love the “eleventh finger” most of ALL but let's be honest.. women need direct clitoral stimula inorder to reach a climax and more often than not the ten fingers can provide that.

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