Comments on: What Would You Do: The Lie Slip http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sun, 22 Nov 2009 09:41:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: MissBeeh http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10730 MissBeeh Fri, 19 Dec 2008 02:12:08 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10730 See... That's a tricky question. First, it depends on how close you are to the friend who is being cheated on. If y'all are close, then he/she knows that you would never lie to them. If not, they can believe that you're just jealous. Secondly, make damn sure that their boo is cheating. See… That's a tricky question. First, it depends on how close you are to the friend who is being cheated on. If y'all are close, then he/she knows that you would never lie to them. If not, they can believe that you're just jealous. Secondly, make damn sure that their boo is cheating.

]]> By: Sexy N Sassy http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10729 Sexy N Sassy Fri, 19 Dec 2008 01:16:28 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10729 Would you want her to tell you, your boo was cheating? What ever your answer is, is what you should do. Would you want her to tell you, your boo was cheating? What ever your answer is, is what you should do.

]]> By: p-lo http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10728 p-lo Thu, 18 Dec 2008 00:39:39 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10728 yes i would...cause it's not fair for anyone and especially my friend to get hurt by assholes lol yes i would…cause it's not fair for anyone and especially my friend to get hurt by assholes lol

]]> By: jmk http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10727 jmk Tue, 09 Dec 2008 15:20:46 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10727 If it is a good friend I am in favor of dropping hints that you know something they dont. Again usually the chick will get pissed off and think you are trying to smash (been there before), so I go with the hints. Hopefully they will find it out. But any dude trying to smash shouldn't take this approach because the chick usually gets more pissed at the messanger than the cheating man If it is a good friend I am in favor of dropping hints that you know something they dont. Again usually the chick will get pissed off and think you are trying to smash (been there before), so I go with the hints. Hopefully they will find it out. But any dude trying to smash shouldn't take this approach because the chick usually gets more pissed at the messanger than the cheating man

]]> By: yes http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10726 yes Tue, 09 Dec 2008 10:35:17 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10726 In general idk what I would do, but I want to be told. I aint no silly broad that's gon be like girl u lyin u just want my man. I would be more hurt when I found out later and my friend knew the whole damn time and let me waste my time wit ol boy lookin like a fool! In general idk what I would do, but I want to be told. I aint no silly broad that's gon be like girl u lyin u just want my man. I would be more hurt when I found out later and my friend knew the whole damn time and let me waste my time wit ol boy lookin like a fool!

]]> By: yes http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10725 yes Tue, 09 Dec 2008 10:33:20 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10725 Y would he say sum dumb ish like that in the first place around her friends? Maybe he wants to be told on. Maybe it really was nothing. He didn't come out and say he was with someone. If she brings up that night, I would just be like "girl he said he wasnt even at the game he told his homeboy to tell him what happened" like it was no big deal. Then she can come to her own conclusion. Y would he say sum dumb ish like that in the first place around her friends? Maybe he wants to be told on. Maybe it really was nothing. He didn't come out and say he was with someone. If she brings up that night, I would just be like “girl he said he wasnt even at the game he told his homeboy to tell him what happened” like it was no big deal. Then she can come to her own conclusion.

]]> By: HeadMistress http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10724 HeadMistress Tue, 09 Dec 2008 05:29:46 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10724 I have always been inclined to keep my mouth shut and mind my business but I've been in this situation at different times with different friends and have had three different extremes happen...the worst of which was not telling what I knew just to have my friend later find out that I knew (via the husband that cheated on her in the first place), she was extremely hurt that I didn't tell her and I ended up apologizing and trying to explain why I didn't say anything :-( <br><br>so now what I do is have boundary conversations with friends, "what if I saw your man cheating, would you want me to tell you?" whatever her answer is, that is what I do... I have always been inclined to keep my mouth shut and mind my business but I've been in this situation at different times with different friends and have had three different extremes happen…the worst of which was not telling what I knew just to have my friend later find out that I knew (via the husband that cheated on her in the first place), she was extremely hurt that I didn't tell her and I ended up apologizing and trying to explain why I didn't say anything :-(

so now what I do is have boundary conversations with friends, “what if I saw your man cheating, would you want me to tell you?” whatever her answer is, that is what I do…

]]> By: Lissa http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10707 Lissa Tue, 09 Dec 2008 03:57:03 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10707 She is :-)<br>@ ANuJS. . .I have a friend like that she will get highly pissed and seperate from you all over her no good nbf. . .Sometimes its not worht having someone to hold you She is :-)
@ ANuJS. . .I have a friend like that she will get highly pissed and seperate from you all over her no good nbf. . .Sometimes its not worht having someone to hold you

]]> By: VIChick http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10720 VIChick Tue, 09 Dec 2008 03:00:09 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10720 Yep women are good for that shit. Most of the time they think you want their man so your telling her so she can break up with him. She is a good friend. Yep women are good for that shit. Most of the time they think you want their man so your telling her so she can break up with him. She is a good friend.

]]> By: VIChick http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/comment-page-1/#comment-10723 VIChick Tue, 09 Dec 2008 02:58:25 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/12/08/what-would-you-do-the-lie-slip/#comment-10723 It does depends on the situation. If she was my bestfriend I would tell her. If she is an associate I would stay out of it. Like you said your not sure he is cheating, but by the statement he said it sure seems that way. If he was my bestfriends man I would more likely know his tendencies so if I drew my own conclusion chances are I would be right. It does depends on the situation. If she was my bestfriend I would tell her. If she is an associate I would stay out of it. Like you said your not sure he is cheating, but by the statement he said it sure seems that way. If he was my bestfriends man I would more likely know his tendencies so if I drew my own conclusion chances are I would be right.

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