An Angel’s Bridge To Passion

Posted in Relationships on Nov 28, 2008

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It came to me like a dream, and suddenly everything very clear. J. Michael Straczynski once said “Touch passion when it comes your way…It’s rare enough as it is. Don’t walk away when it calls you by name.” Well that’s what I’m doing. Someone once asked me if I only had rough sex, stating that from my Cinderella stories it seems that I don’t make love or do anything romantic. Well, an angel showed me that there is a difference between Passion and romance.

This angel claimed that romance seemed forced and produced. Anyone can produce a romantic evening by strolling down to their local shopping center buying some candles, a gift, champagne, flowers and lets not forget the sappy card. Present them all over dinner with some soft music and viola a romantic evening.

Passion on the other hand is something that builds up, and evolves over time. Time the lost art of relationships, and I found myself cutting time out of my equation of love like my daughters cut out heart shapes in construction paper. This left me feeling empty inside until one day while in the shower I had an epiphany while taking a leak, that I should be more than just sex.

It was hard for me to walk away from all the sex I was getting, but I needed more. I mean sex is cool don’t get me wrong, but when true emotions are involved there is no feeling that can match the passion that flows through your body.

Normally here is where I would give you a few tips on how to be something… passionate in this case but like an angel told me, Passion cant be hidden, held back, and it can’t be “faked”. Passion is a force that you can only show and feel. Where as I can sit here and give you about a million tips on how to be romantic. If you want to be romantic buy a teddy bear.


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  • MsDubois
    I think I understand, although there's something about your description of passion that resonates with lust...however another good post.
  • Really? By stating that passion is something that builds up and evolve over time is similar to lust? I think I just again forgot to elaborate on my point, that I was getting a lot of lust filled relationships and not having anything passionate. I'll go back and edit this post to make my point my clear thanks for the heads up
  • Passion and lust are totally two different things. With passion, you out your heart into rather than it just being a physical thing(lust). Like you said, you needed more. Passion isn't rushed, you take your time with it
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Good post Xilla. Keep 'em cummin'.
  • HeadMistress
    passion and lust are definitely two different things, I didn't read lust into your description, anyone who"s ever felt that passion that you describe knows exactly what you're talking about.

    it is powerful, intoxicating, heartstopping even...a wonderfully although sometimes frightening feeling, and all to often rare...
  • VIChick
    I agree that passion is something that develops over time. Lust on the other hand is a thing that comes right at the moment. Passion is a very strong emotion, it puts you out of your right state of mind sometimes. I am not the type of chic that needs flowers and candles for a passionate night with my man. I think its passionate when we just lay in the bed and talk and play around with each other. Those are the moments that I cherish, because when its all said and done once he leaves that is the memories that will stay with me.
  • 404
    Nice.

    I say that passion just is. There is no bulid up. You either have it or you don't.
  • I totally agree. You can't fake passion, and that's with anything you do. Whether it is passion in love or passion in music or for writing, whatever it is, it's an extension of your soul or being, it can't be faked.
  • there is thin line of difference between romance and passion which is very well explain in the blog.Cheers
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