Has The Pull Out Method Failed You?

Posted in Rated Grown Up on Nov 26, 2008

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How many times has the pull out method failed you? If you don’t know what the pull out method is it’s when a man and a woman have unprotected sex and the guy withdraws his “manxilla” right before he reaches the promise land. Many women believe that they can still get pregnant if they use this way instead of birth control pills, but if done correctly there is only a 4% change of pregnancy. I’m happy to announce that BlogXilla.com proudly supports the pull out method for the following reasons.

It Feels Good: With all the advances in technology and science they have still yet to make a condom that feels like the real thing. While you can’t run around using the pull out method with every man or women you come across, if done correctly with a trusted and experienced partner you can have the feeling with out the life changer that follows nine months later.

* It can be used to prevent pregnancy when no other method is available.
* There are no medical or hormonal side effects.
* No prescription is necessary.
* It is free.

It works according to planned parenthood, of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if they always do it correctly. Even when a guy is a little “nut” happy still only 27 women became knocked up.

I mean I know the pull out method has never failed me. I know the computer screen probably got a side eye from some of you, but let me explain. I can feel when I’m about to bust and I’ll admit I’ve intentionally let off a few drops to get that inside feeling not caring about whether it would produce a child or not. When I am with a woman whom I’m in a committed relationship with, but know I do not want to have a kid by her I pull out, or never get to experience unprotected sex with her.

Men know what we are doing at all times, sure we may play like it was a mistake or we couldn’t help it, but we do. I didn’t want to let myself believe I had control until I had children. I’ve been childless for 7 years now… There are no excuses for a mistake, I pull out effectively.

Has The Pull Out Method Failed You? If what happened?


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  • Princess0889
    I personally don't believe in this method it is "a bit" faulty. I know a few couples who use it all the time and it hurts me just watching my friends stress out about if she pregnant or not.
    Nowadays, to me, it seem the new form of commitment is to have unprotected sex with your partner which makes since but not the good kind.
  • HAHAHA I actually wrote about that a long time ago Its called Unprotected sex is the new marriage, But yeah If done right... its effective but it has to be done right. Thats the key
  • Princess0889
    "If done right"
    Well whatever that means if we are having unprotected sex then I we better be making plans for the "what if situation" because pulling out is not an option if I am at my peak.
  • see lol that's a self control issue though... lol which is hard I'll admit it.. it's super hard.
  • Princess0889
    As Lil Wayne said "safe sex is great sex"
  • You're telling me...
    But I think it is different with different girls...
    Even though I recommend you don't leave it up to this method with a jump off...but with a jump off you are alot more conscious and alot more worried about any mishaps...so pull out options rarely fails

    But with a certified wifey, you are more susceptible to leaving the monkey in the jungle, because the relationship is more sacred and the bond is stronger...

    so I think it is all relative..
  • Princess0889
    Why would you do a jump off raw? She does not have any value to you at all.
  • I think "Jump Off",,is a poor choice of words, I would say a goodfreind/fuckbuddy...

    I will admit that there have been times with a goodfriend/fuckbuddy..that
    in the heat of the moment, there was a lack of protection..
  • Princess0889
    Ok but why would you do that on purpose
  • Ant_from_Chi
    "leaving the monkey in the jungle". I never heard that one before. lol
  • sierra
    No the pullout method has never failed me but i never can do that because i feel like i get jipped. Thats right when a guy gets that good rhythm.
  • Lioness
    Haha, that's the truth. I also like the feeling of a guy cumming inside me, so just don't tempt me. First reaction is to hold on and not let him out, and then afterwards I'm looking for my doctor's # to get some Plan B called in. Not a good habit to get into.
  • it's not a good habit to get into
  • SheRa
    That's an incredibly irresponsible post Xilla real talk supporting unprotected sex...really... no mention of STD's? The pull out methond doesn't protect against that. Sperm exists in pre cum. Will you teach your kids about the pull out method encourage them to use it? Why not just make sure birth control is used?

    You've been childless for 7 years...have you been disease less too??

    Wow...I really thought you were smarter than this... guess not. smh
  • circa-81
    Nothing wrong with unprotected sex. It's just something wrong with catching something from having unprotected sex. ;-)
  • I didn't say STD per say but I did stress the fact that you should be in a committed relationship and I also state that i never experience unprotected sex with them.

    If you read the link in the planned parenthood which i reference you would see that these are facts from the site. Birth Control messes with a woman's mind and helps her choose men that are bad for her... that link is also in the set of links i referenced in the blog.

    Please don't bring my kids in on a discussion i feel like that is a low blow. Understand I am a regular person.

    as after as sperm exist in the pre cum - Even if a man pulls out in time, yes pregnancy can still happen. Some experts believe that pre-ejaculate, or pre-cum, can pick up enough sperm left in the urethra from a previous ejaculation to cause pregnancy. If a man urinates between ejaculations before having sex again, it will help clear the urethra of sperm and may increase the effectiveness of withdrawal

    I urge you to click the links i put in here and read up on the situation. Again I assumed it was clear and maybe I could have made things more clear I'm human and I wrote it part as a joke not that I need to defend anything i put on my site because I don't.

    Have I been STD free yes I have last time i went to the doc i was all good! I was blessed i will admit that.

    But if i left anything out i apologize i'm trying to post on here while dealing with a bunch of personal issues like a fire and other issues But thanks for reading.
  • SheRa
    Why even take a chance if you don't want a baby with a woman then protect yourself more than 4%.

    Oh and being in a "committed" relationship doesn't exlude you from getting diseases, ask the thousands of married women and men that have AIDS and got it from thier "committed" spouse. I wouldn't risk my life for some sex.
  • Ant_from_Chi
    She Ra what WILL you do for some sex. After your six month grace period that is?

    As for comments on the pullout method. I can dig the statistics, but if not having kids is the real plan, I wouldn't take the chance with this method. Like Sierra said, that's when the groove is getting good, and like Lioness said she just might hold on and not let go. And I might not mind. When I am in a committed relationship and am sure (or at least as sure as I can be) that we are only sexing each other than I prefer not to use condoms. Fortunately for me, because I decided that I ain't having no kids, I took care of the birth control situation from my end, if you know what I mean. Now, when I am fortunate enough to be in a LTR, we can do it au naturale and my lady doesn't have to worry about the effects of birth control, in all it's forms.
  • SheRa
    Why does my personal decisions on how I handle my sex life strike such a cord with you? Am I some rarity that puts more value on sex than busting a nut?? Does it bother you I choose to wait or something?? Would it be more acceptable to you if I stated I spread my legs for any dude that looked my way?
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Sweetie if you don't want people to comment on the things you have to say, maybe you shuld consider keeping them to yourself. This is a blog remember? And for what it's worth I don't care what you do with you sex. You just sound a bit uptight to me.
  • SheRa
    Please don't be condescending with the "sweetie" you were being facetious by even stating your comment of "what WILL you do for some sex" so obviously my comment about my personal choice to wait for a specific amount of time bothered you. And on top of that I believe on the previous post your whole point og questioning was you were wondering how I came up with that specific number which i believe I answered and that ended the line of questioning and we were cool. So for you to bring it up in this post which has nothing to do with the amount of time I wait to have sex that tells me you were being less than cordial and quite sarcatsitc with the comment. If you don't care what I do with sex, then don't worry about how uptight I sound or how uptight I am and don't ask.

    And for the record I don't mind people commenting on my comments but your sarcasm wasn't neccessary.

    Have a wonderful Thanksgiving Weekend!
  • what?
    Ummm could u chill the fuck out? If you found this post offensive then keep it pimpin...u don't HAVE to be here and you don't HAVE to agree with what is being said, although you are being disresptful on another persons blog, so kick rocks
  • Ant_from_Chi
    I'm just gone leave it alone and pray for you child. Happy Thanksgiving to you to.
  • SheRa
    Pray for me?? For what? I'm good.

    Deuces
  • Yes, yes, it would be more acceptable!! lol nah i'm joking!!! lol to each it's own but i do think ant had a valid question.
  • SheRa
    LOL!

    Why is it a valid question? He's not trying to or having sex with me, why would he care?
  • wow you got snipped? (pause)
  • Ant_from_Chi
    Sure did, when I was 30. One of the best decision I ever made.
  • I know I'm late but WOW!!
    So can I ask if you ever had kids or did u decide that you don't want kids at all?
  • Ant_from_Chi
    You can ask me anything. No I don't have any kids. I decided at a very young age that I didn't want to have kids. I actually tried to get it done when I was like 21, but the doctor refused. He said ther4e was no way I knew what I wanted at that age. So I waited 10 years to see if he was right. He wasn't so I got it done. And I still don't want kids. I love them and all and I'm a great uncle and i'm everybodies godfather but none for me please. Sorry this got long winded.
  • I feel you but it's a risk you take every time you have sex with or without a condom its a risk... so stop having sex. committed or not committed
  • The pull out method failed me when I was 16 im 23 with a 6 yr old

    the pull out method failed my current boyfriend and I as well I also have a 1 year old


    but I love em both..and wouldnt change a damn thing!
  • mslatinprincess
    I never believed in that method, i think its pure luck....i got pregnant after a while and he told me it was cause i had told him to come in me, which i dont remember...but he said he knows how to do it right...yeah right....lol...(due to healthproblmes, i dont have any kids)
  • prettygirl
    I agree - that's when it feels the best - but then reality kicks in and just that fast you know that it can produce a kid - your kid - let his a@@ go, push him up, do what you gotta do to help him with the pull put method.
    Men know exactly what they are doing, lol, thats funny and sad at the same time (*~*)
  • Belly
    at the same time, yall have to listen when we say GET OFF!! lol
  • LOL I haven't heard tht in a looonnnnngggg time. I guess b/c I don't use the pull out method.

    Just like the b/c commercial "not me, not now"..lol.
  • LMAO it happens isn't that where the term Jump off comes from?
  • Belly
    LOL never thought about that..
  • Never heard "jump off"...I heard the rushed "get off..get off" lol.

    I guess once upon a time...I advocated it...for a second or two...but tht's was yrs ago...lol.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    OMG! i think i just shot coffee out my nose! wtfugg?!!? jump off! oh wow. this is all too much for me on today!?!?
  • Black_Barbi510
    the pull out method failed me...I got pregnant 3 times as a teen doing that. So now I wouldnt dare do it.
  • Belly
    YES! it has definately failed me before.. i knew for sure i pulled out on time and didnt have nothing to worry about.. next thing you know 3 months later we found out we had one on the way!! but i dont regret it for the world though... i love my daughter to death!!
  • ChucksFavorite
    I wasn't ever really a fan of it until I got with my current bf....we've been together a year and a half now. it hasn't "falied" us yet but, we've had the conversations about the "what if situation" if and when it comes up. it did fail me once tho....when i was 17. didn't keep it tho.
  • LongIslandLolita
    It? Classy...
  • ChucksFavorite
    making snap judgements about someone you don't know....classy.
  • circa-81
    The pullout method is th SH!T but you should only use it with your girl. Because let's be real fella's. Say it together now......you too Xilla. ...."CONDOM'S SUCK DONKEY ASS." And I truly do hate using them, but you gotta do what gotta do when you gotta do somebody else.
  • VIChick
    I don't do the pull out method, well maybe when I was younger and I never had issues with it. But I thought about other things than pregnancy so I decided not to use that very wonderful feeling method. If the nucca dont have a condom then nothing will go down.
  • what?
    Thats how I had my daughter...BD stil won't admit it was him that did it...he's the one that wanted to stop using condoms, and before it happened he used to joke that I was 4 months pregnant...we used the same method
  • coming thru for the 1st time... i found you b/c i got a msg on twitter

    this post cracked me up!!! this is a subject that guys talk about all the time! so i understood where you were coming from.

    to answer the question...it never failed for me. my wife and i have 3 kids and we got pregnant when we DIDN'T do it. lol!!! but we were trying to have kids so it didn't matter.

    good post!
  • sexyma078
    Xilla even with the links this is an irresponsible post.....you have a young audience and every one is not as sexually experienced as you to know when they are reaching they are reaching the point of climax....even thought u provided links you still should have made mention of STDs babies leave at 18 AIDS goes with you to the grave
  • circa-81
    The post is about pulling your d*ck out to prevent nutting inside of a chick. It's not about STD's I think Xilla wanted to post something that we would enjoy not dread.
  • SweetT
    EXACTLY!!! Circa u hit the nail on the head. I swear some of these people act like sex doesn't happen.
  • Check your email
  • Never!
    Condoms have!

    *can I sue for a condom failing on me?
  • circa-81
    Doubt it? If that was the case them m-f#cka's would be outta business.
  • nah...I'm sure u can sue someone b/c fat ppl sued McDonalds for making them fat lol.

    Lets say ur on b/c pills and u used a condom, but the condom broke and the b/c pill failed & u got prego then it wasn't ur fault right? lol
  • VIChick
    I honestly think that since this is Xilla's opinion then leave it be his opinion. If you don't agree fine, this is why we have a forum but it makes no sense to argue with someone if they disagree or their opinions are different than yours.
  • HeadMistress
    I swear this is the best laugh I had all week!!!

    **no-stalker but Ant I really effin love you ;) you always keep it classy!

    @ what? I am UTTROFLMBAOOL @ "Ummm could u chill the fuck out?"

    on a serious note while there is something to be said for being responsible with the information we put out there we also have to realize that anyone who would read this blog and decide based on its content that they're gonna start f*ckin randomly and no longer use condoms opting for the pull out method instead has way more problems than this blog or Xilla's words could ever begin to address

    its simply impossible to cover all bases of "responsibility" when talking about sex
  • HeadMistress
    OMFG!!! I just clicked on the "women believe" link and read the myths...

    When I was sixteen, my then BF didn't "pull out" in time and told me if I douched with coke that I wouldn't get pregnant ??????????

    I was like What,Where,When,Why,How &Who The F*ck told you that dumb ish!!!

    I have never ever ever heard that myth again since then, til now...

    all this time I thought he made that ish up himself...WOW
  • LongIslandLolita
    This is the most ignorant thing I've read ever. No offense. It's not an attack on you, but the notion or the idea, which a lot of men have, is wrong. I've gotten pregnant most likely twice this way and while I was married, it was still a huge WTF just happened moment. The only way for the "pull out" method to work, and that's really not the name is based on factors like time of month, ovulation cycle, body temperature and a host of other issues. Basically just use a damned condom.
  • Planned Parenthood site said it would work! lol But nah i feel you it's an option whne nothing else is available it's not intended to take the place of condoms.
  • LongIslandLolita
    Xilla I knwo a lot of people have said that it was light hearted, etc. but on the real, black women in the South were suffering from HIV/AIDS out of anywhere in the country with embarassingly high numbers. We are dealing with something that is near almost epidemic proportions, nobody cares because these are black women. With that said, I think it's important to stress the importance of responsibility. There are one too many black parents who are not in the picture and just plain doing a shitty job. When some black folks talk about sex they're just ignorant with it, taking on the what care I attitude. That ish is failing us for real. When are we going to place value on the important things? If you're not only in a seriously committed relationship, but are sure that things are 100% in order and you know that you would have no problem marrying that person eventually, then I can dig. But just for a casual boyfriend or jumpoff, it's extremely irresponsible. Then these will be the same chicks talking shit about their baby daddies and how much they suck because he missed like 10 child support payments.
  • I never liked the whole "pull out method"....something about it seems shady lol.
    So technically that method has never failed me...lol

    I know sex w/o a condom feels super good..but I just can't wrap my head around it...lol. I don't want kids any time soon, and I don't have any. Nor do I want a man to fall in luv with miss kitty lol.
  • cookie
    i heard pre-cum in some cases can b more potent than actual cum.So i dont believe that the "pull-Ou" method is effective.


    by the way,
    looove ya site.
  • cookie
    o and there r only a few days[very few] out of the monh a female can get pregnant.so most cases may also b pure luck.::Shrug::
  • DomiX
    I went and got birth control because my ex insisted on the pull out method.....he was a pro at pulling out, but I wasn't trying to risk a pregnancy while in college. Strange thing is that when I told him he seemed offended.....I found it pretty selfish that he would put pleasure over common sense, especially since he said he didn't want to have children ever.

    Additionally, after we broke up, I went and got tested for any STDs........thank God those were clean.

    Moral of my story: If you are going to do it raw, do it with someone you trust and be sensible about it.
  • Nixx_01
    The Pull out method hasn't failed me... there have been a few times where I got caught up in the moment but best believe he was pushed off and forced into a condom. And reading all the previous comments people have touched on some important points about STDs in the black community esp back home,in the Deep South, but at the same time people lets speak to our children about sex before they seek advice on the internet. Lets not shame children with religion for wanting to explore their bodies. I don't have any kid but I would rather teach them how to be safe then pass judgment on what they are ultimately going to do with or without my approval. I will get off my soapbox now.
  • Toronto Dude
    I be pulling out but my girl (one of them) says she 2 weeks late :S
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    ok so i love ur site i don't know how i ended up here but you're too funny. i should hope you don't do this often boo and ur dingaling may fall off in 5,4,3,2,1...what about the AIDS?!?! lol there are worst things than a baby and ur pull out 4% method has a 100% hiv possibility rate....mmmmmm? i ain' hating i'm jus sayin'... ;P
  • I mean it all sounds good my man but I only suggest it if you and your partner have gotten tested together and both of you get clean results. Then at that point I am for good clean sex. But I say only use the pullout method if you ready and can afford the consequences. But I definitely know that good ol bare feeling me and my ex used to go all natural all the time and whew that shit felt so fuckin good. when i went back to using condoms it took me forever to blast off. so beware that bare back feeling can have you hooked. use with precautions it aint for amateurs
  • Wow...tht's amazing!! Where have u been all my life...lol (j/k).
    I've always felt like I didn't want kids and that I'll be a great aunt and godmother but I just didn't want to have any myself. So I feel you!
  • Luckily the pull method hasn't failed me..yet! (knock on wood- no pun intended)
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  • thomas_crown
    THIS SITUATION REMINDS ME OF THAT EPISODE ON THE CHAPPELLE SHOW WITH THE PIXIES OF DIFFERENT RACES ... AND ONE WOMAN SAID SOMETHING THAT MADE MORE SENSE THAN ALL OF THE AUDIENCE MEMBERS COMBINED ...

    " IT IS NOT HIS JOB TO EDUCATE YOU NOR IS IT HIS JOB TO SPARE OR CARE FOR YOUR FEELINGS ..... HE IS A COMEDIAN !!! LAUGHTER IS HIS OBJECTIVE"

    (NOT IN THOSE EXACT WORDS BUT MORE SO THE SAME)
    SHERA NEEDS TO KNO THAT .... OR BETTA YET SHE NEEDS SOME PULL OUT SEX LOL ... PULL OUT SEX WILL KEEP HERE ASS FROM BEING HOSTILE !!!!
  • mrmannn
    I have mastered the art of skeet shooting, but you can only do this with a chosen few. Because somtimes a newbie will say fuck it and say give it all to me. And that is the wrong time to make request to a train with no brakes. Either derail or full steam ahead...Aww skeet skeet skeet.
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