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Has The Pull Out Method Failed You?
Posted in Rated Grown Up on 26. Nov, 2008
How many times has the pull out method failed you? If you don’t know what the pull out method is it’s when a man and a woman have unprotected sex and the guy withdraws his “manxilla” right before he reaches the promise land. Many women believe that they can still get pregnant if they use this way instead of birth control pills, but if done correctly there is only a 4% change of pregnancy. I’m happy to announce that BlogXilla.com proudly supports the pull out method for the following reasons.
It Feels Good: With all the advances in technology and science they have still yet to make a condom that feels like the real thing. While you can’t run around using the pull out method with every man or women you come across, if done correctly with a trusted and experienced partner you can have the feeling with out the life changer that follows nine months later.
* It can be used to prevent pregnancy when no other method is available.
* There are no medical or hormonal side effects.
* No prescription is necessary.
* It is free.
It works according to planned parenthood, of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if they always do it correctly. Even when a guy is a little “nut” happy still only 27 women became knocked up.
I mean I know the pull out method has never failed me. I know the computer screen probably got a side eye from some of you, but let me explain. I can feel when I’m about to bust and I’ll admit I’ve intentionally let off a few drops to get that inside feeling not caring about whether it would produce a child or not. When I am with a woman whom I’m in a committed relationship with, but know I do not want to have a kid by her I pull out, or never get to experience unprotected sex with her.
Men know what we are doing at all times, sure we may play like it was a mistake or we couldn’t help it, but we do. I didn’t want to let myself believe I had control until I had children. I’ve been childless for 7 years now… There are no excuses for a mistake, I pull out effectively.
Has The Pull Out Method Failed You? If what happened?
It? Classy…
Xilla I knwo a lot of people have said that it was light hearted, etc. but on the real, black women in the South were suffering from HIV/AIDS out of anywhere in the country with embarassingly high numbers. We are dealing with something that is near almost epidemic proportions, nobody cares because these are black women. With that said, I think it's important to stress the importance of responsibility. There are one too many black parents who are not in the picture and just plain doing a shitty job. When some black folks talk about sex they're just ignorant with it, taking on the what care I attitude. That ish is failing us for real. When are we going to place value on the important things? If you're not only in a seriously committed relationship, but are sure that things are 100% in order and you know that you would have no problem marrying that person eventually, then I can dig. But just for a casual boyfriend or jumpoff, it's extremely irresponsible. Then these will be the same chicks talking shit about their baby daddies and how much they suck because he missed like 10 child support payments.
I know I'm late but WOW!!
So can I ask if you ever had kids or did u decide that you don't want kids at all?
LOL I haven't heard tht in a looonnnnngggg time. I guess b/c I don't use the pull out method.
Just like the b/c commercial “not me, not now”..lol.
nah…I'm sure u can sue someone b/c fat ppl sued McDonalds for making them fat lol.
Lets say ur on b/c pills and u used a condom, but the condom broke and the b/c pill failed & u got prego then it wasn't ur fault right? lol
LMAO it happens isn't that where the term Jump off comes from?
I never liked the whole “pull out method”….something about it seems shady lol.
So technically that method has never failed me…lol
I know sex w/o a condom feels super good..but I just can't wrap my head around it…lol. I don't want kids any time soon, and I don't have any. Nor do I want a man to fall in luv with miss kitty lol.
LOL never thought about that..
Never heard “jump off”…I heard the rushed “get off..get off” lol.
I guess once upon a time…I advocated it…for a second or two…but tht's was yrs ago…lol.
i heard pre-cum in some cases can b more potent than actual cum.So i dont believe that the “pull-Ou” method is effective.
by the way,
looove ya site.
o and there r only a few days[very few] out of the monh a female can get pregnant.so most cases may also b pure luck.::Shrug::
I went and got birth control because my ex insisted on the pull out method…..he was a pro at pulling out, but I wasn't trying to risk a pregnancy while in college. Strange thing is that when I told him he seemed offended…..I found it pretty selfish that he would put pleasure over common sense, especially since he said he didn't want to have children ever.
Additionally, after we broke up, I went and got tested for any STDs……..thank God those were clean.
Moral of my story: If you are going to do it raw, do it with someone you trust and be sensible about it.
The Pull out method hasn't failed me… there have been a few times where I got caught up in the moment but best believe he was pushed off and forced into a condom. And reading all the previous comments people have touched on some important points about STDs in the black community esp back home,in the Deep South, but at the same time people lets speak to our children about sex before they seek advice on the internet. Lets not shame children with religion for wanting to explore their bodies. I don't have any kid but I would rather teach them how to be safe then pass judgment on what they are ultimately going to do with or without my approval. I will get off my soapbox now.
You can ask me anything. No I don't have any kids. I decided at a very young age that I didn't want to have kids. I actually tried to get it done when I was like 21, but the doctor refused. He said ther4e was no way I knew what I wanted at that age. So I waited 10 years to see if he was right. He wasn't so I got it done. And I still don't want kids. I love them and all and I'm a great uncle and i'm everybodies godfather but none for me please. Sorry this got long winded.
I be pulling out but my girl (one of them) says she 2 weeks late :S
“leaving the monkey in the jungle”. I never heard that one before. lol
ok so i love ur site i don't know how i ended up here but you're too funny. i should hope you don't do this often boo and ur dingaling may fall off in 5,4,3,2,1…what about the AIDS?!?! lol there are worst things than a baby and ur pull out 4% method has a 100% hiv possibility rate….mmmmmm? i ain' hating i'm jus sayin'… ;P
OMG! i think i just shot coffee out my nose! wtfugg?!!? jump off! oh wow. this is all too much for me on today!?!?
I mean it all sounds good my man but I only suggest it if you and your partner have gotten tested together and both of you get clean results. Then at that point I am for good clean sex. But I say only use the pullout method if you ready and can afford the consequences. But I definitely know that good ol bare feeling me and my ex used to go all natural all the time and whew that shit felt so fuckin good. when i went back to using condoms it took me forever to blast off. so beware that bare back feeling can have you hooked. use with precautions it aint for amateurs
making snap judgements about someone you don't know….classy.
Wow…tht's amazing!! Where have u been all my life…lol (j/k).
I've always felt like I didn't want kids and that I'll be a great aunt and godmother but I just didn't want to have any myself. So I feel you!
Luckily the pull method hasn't failed me..yet! (knock on wood- no pun intended)
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THIS SITUATION REMINDS ME OF THAT EPISODE ON THE CHAPPELLE SHOW WITH THE PIXIES OF DIFFERENT RACES … AND ONE WOMAN SAID SOMETHING THAT MADE MORE SENSE THAN ALL OF THE AUDIENCE MEMBERS COMBINED …
” IT IS NOT HIS JOB TO EDUCATE YOU NOR IS IT HIS JOB TO SPARE OR CARE FOR YOUR FEELINGS ….. HE IS A COMEDIAN !!! LAUGHTER IS HIS OBJECTIVE”
(NOT IN THOSE EXACT WORDS BUT MORE SO THE SAME)
SHERA NEEDS TO KNO THAT …. OR BETTA YET SHE NEEDS SOME PULL OUT SEX LOL … PULL OUT SEX WILL KEEP HERE ASS FROM BEING HOSTILE !!!!
I have mastered the art of skeet shooting, but you can only do this with a chosen few. Because somtimes a newbie will say fuck it and say give it all to me. And that is the wrong time to make request to a train with no brakes. Either derail or full steam ahead…Aww skeet skeet skeet.