![[BlogXilla] Dot Com](http://blogxilla.com/blog3/wp-content/themes/manxilla/images/logo.png){kind=logo}
20 Ways to Show Your Appreciation for your Man
Posted in Relationships on 19. Nov, 2008
I swear I have some of the best readers on the face of the planet. A reader by the name of Shonda dropped me an email with a response blog to my 20 Tips to Make Her Feel Like A Woman check it out you might learn something. Especially number 6, 5, and 13.
20) Cook dinner- have his favorite dish waiting when he comes home.
19) Give a great massage- start at the top of his back and work your way down.
18) Laugh at his dumb jokes- even when they suck
17) Wash his car- but make sure you ask first what type of products he uses on it (most men cherish their car like its an infant)
16) Watch porn with him… even if you don’t like it -there’s nothing like getting turned on at the same time as your man. Watch it with him and then maybe make your own (and don’t forget to erase it)
15) Ask him what he likes- ask him what he likes instead of making decisions for him.
14) Dress up- after being in a relationship after a while, women start to show who they really are, which may include granny panties and rollers in their hair. Every once in a while, throw a sexy outfit on and show your man what attracted him to you in the first place.
13) Put the game on… and leave- its sports season and there’s nothing your guy would like more than to watch his games in peace. Turn on the game and leave the house for a few hours (a good excuse to go shopping).
12) Give him a few 1s for the strip club- I know many women do not agree with this but send him to the strip club. Your man will be so surprised at how much you trust him around other females that he won’t have a need to seek love elsewhere.
11) Be his private dancer- if you don’t want to send him to see some t&a, then give him a private dance yourself. Let the inner freak in you come out and play.
10) Treat him- your man always buys you nice things and takes you out to dinner. For a change, buy him something nice or pay for dinner and a movie the next time you go out.
9) Compliment him- compliment him on his new suit or his new cologne or congratulate him on his job promotion. Compliments stroke his ego and makes him feel good about himself.
Stop nagging- cut back on the questions about where he’s goin, who’s he going with, etc.
7) F*ck him hard- take charge and show him why he’s lucky to have you.
6) Stop talking- self-explanitory.
5) Support him- always be his ride or die chick, and stick with him through good times and bad.
4)Tell him he’s the best sex you’ve ever had- even if it isn’t.
3) Let him be himself- love him for who he is and not what you can change him into.
2) Give great head- balls and all.
1) Swallow- he’ll think it’s christmas and want to give you something in return.
Yeah yeah.. Women do this ish.. and still get played.. lol..
What, no comments on this. Guys come on. 1, 2,6,7,8 like a mufukka,10 please,16 my favorite. I love watching porn with a woman. It's basically the only time I really enjoy it. I really only watch it for about 10 maybe 15 minutes. between watching somebody else bump it and running my hnds across the woman i'm with. Need I say more? And 20. They say the way to a mans heart is through his stomach and I have always been one to nbelieve that if my woman can't cook for me than she don't really give a shit about me. Don't get me wrong I can and do burn inthe kitchen, but when a woman cares enough about me to make sure that I am nourished it does something for me. Please don't let me be the only cat speaking up on this. The Sista's always repping on this site. What the deal is????
This is a good list!
Good list. # 16 I have NO problem with. My addiction to porn is kind of sad
This is a great list, however Miss Jenee has a point, what we as women have to do is RECOGNIZE the MEN who deserve the above treatment and do it for them.
The truth is with the exception of a few, Miserable For No Real Reason B*tches, most women are willing to do all of the above without hesitation, so men, if your woman doesn't fall into the MFNRRB category and she's not doing the above, it may be you…sorry but true…
On the other hand, women, if you're a MFNRRB, change your attitude.
For the rest of us we need to let go of what the last n*gga did and stop worrying about “playing ourselves” – just do it, without hesitation tho, doing it begrudgingly is worse than not doing it at all…he'd rather you not do it than do it and complain or throw it in his face or rolling your eyes and suckin your teeth during the commission of your “show of appreciation”
good list! don't have a problem with anything on there…..do and have done all of the above. and I have never had a man leave me
Miss Jenee & HeadMistress have a point….
We as men, will make a real woman perform 1-20 on this list like she is in a modeling competition and play her…hard
But sometimes, performing this list without ever needing a list in the first place, will catch a man like a fish
Then you gut him up and then you'll be featured on “Snapped”…..
#1 is very important….
If he is a good man, then by all means this list is all the things and a few more are very true …..
Now we need a list for “20 ways to show appreciation for your broke, jobless, homeless, car less, but sex is the bomb, man”….
So you'll appeal to all types of men…..
uh hell naw, that would be a fuck buddy
all i have to say is… are you single?
Great list!
perfect!
Wow!
Ay yo Zilla, post her email so I can propose to this young woman. This post almost brought tears to my eyes. LOL! Dang.
lol. women do this n still get played
If you got a good dude, all this shit comes natural. Most of us wouldn't even think twice about doing these things (or have to be told we should be doing it) when we have a good man. The reason we don't do it all the time is because a women is never really sure if she's got a good man. We be dating yall “representative” for months before the real you comes out. So why do all this shit just to find out months later that your man aint shit???
I'm only gonna do so much for a dude before I know what he's really about.
After, reading this list, I feel like I am different dude because somethings I just dont like for example;
don't watch porn with me..WDF thats oddd
don't wash my car, no offence, and it is not sexiest thing, but I don't think anybody could wash the car as good as the owner..
if she is wifey, I wouldnt like her to swallow, I donno…suck and spit it out..but thats just me
Interesting, Alex
your first two I can see, doesn't seem odd but why no swallowing for wifey? Not really odd, I guess, just unusual to hear a guy say that, just curious to the thought / reason behind it…
I co-sign Shonda. Excellent post. But do know there will still be those who just don't get it….
You are right about that. We as women can do a better job sometimes at taking care of our man. I think that a little more TLC here and there can never hurt the relationship.
I think that you're the kind of guy who might go back and cheat on his girl. Ok the first two things were kind of unnecessary but swallowing??? WTF Most men would love their wives or wifey to get a little freaky for them sometimes. Men do this all the time. They want their wives to be the innocent little homemaker and they still go out and bang the freak. That doesn't make any sense to me!