Cooties, Abortions + Dirty Diapers

Posted in Rated Grown Up on Nov 13, 2008

 

 

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Last night, during my hit podcast The Bleach Johnson Show which airs live every Wednesday night at 10 pm EST we discuss a very controversail topic of abortion. Overall it’s was a good show, despite our slow co-host Crazy being a bit stupid in the beginning it got real good.

With the recent discovery of a new form of gonorrhea, it amazes me that people still aren’t using condoms. Maybe it’s Magic, and his seemingly perfect health, or the fact that wearing a condom is like fcuking to burn calories. Not that it’s bad or nothing, using sex to burn calories but I digress.

 

 

Maybe they can use all this technology to make a prophylactic that actually feels like the real thing. Now if disease isn’t a good enough reason for you to wear a rubber or demand that one gets put on before entry, consider the other option. Having a baby by someone you truly don’t want to be tied to for the rest of your life. I had to go to court for child support on V-day and well I saw all types of disgruntle parents who otherwise wouldn’t be seen close to each other if it wasn’t for too many shots of patron. Well scratch that some of them look like they were tipsy off gallons of erk & jerk, or moonshine.

But some people have found a cure for this, and this group of people are not who you think they are. A new study shows ‘Half of the roughly 1.2 million U.S. women who have abortions each year are 25 or older. Only about 17 percent are teens. About 60 percent have given birth to least one child prior to getting an abortion.’
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These are grown women who couldn’t avoid the temptation of lust, and late night jumpoffedness to demand the guy pay 3 bucks for a pack of condoms and actually put one on. So they use abortion to solve a problem which could have been avoided in the first place. Now I don’t want to seem like I’m bashing them b/c I’m sure they had their reasons. I’m also sure that most of them have beat themselves up enough to demand no one else say another word about their actions. So if that is you I apologize. I understand things happen.

The thing is life happens, and sometimes being dealt a bad hand could actually work to your favor. I’m very pro-choice although I don’t think abortions should take place I fully support the choice a woman takes with her body. Needless to say the article is a very good read and all women should take the time to check it out. Here is an excerpt.

Black anti-abortion activists depict this phenomenon in dire terms — “genocide” and “holocaust,” for example. But often the women getting the abortions say they act in the interests of children they already have.
“It wasn’t a hard decision for me to make, because I knew where I wanted to go in my life — I’ve never regretted it,” said Kimberly Mathias, 28, an African-American single mother from Missouri.

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  • Wow! Well, I am 25 and have never been pregnant (birth control), so I have never had to make this difficult choice. Though i feel ready (on the maturity level) to have a child, I am not at a place in life where i feel comfortable having a child yet. Coming from a neighborhood where a statistician would have a field day on subjects such as std's, abortions, teen pregnancy, drug use, i vowed to do my best to not become one. I really want to be the cycle breaker in my generation. So i plan on staying on bc until i get married.
    I have personally spent 3 Saturday mornings at an abortion clinic with a former friend. Like someone above said… I can see the 1st, even the second time, but 3+??? That’s just you being irresponsible. SMH
    I am pro-choice, but I am not pro-ignorance. And that’s all I got to say about that.
  • I read the article and I would like to know what percentage of women under 25 are pregnant and choosing to move along with these unplanned pregnancies and how its affects them.

    I can't see how someone can try to dissuade a woman who has one or two children and is barely making ends meet from having an abortion. No the fetus did not ask to be conceived but think about the quality of life that child will have once it is born into an impoverished state.

    I don't think women ought to use abortion as a birthcontrol but I don't think anyone has the right to tell women they ought to just deal wth the consequences becuase this proves to be more dertrimental for the child once he/she is born.

    There needs to be comprehensive sex education and more outreach to at risk women.

    Xilla, i'm dissapointed with your spin on this article. I don't think women over 25 are just succumbing to lust and going to plan c. There are other factors at play here and it seems like you trivialized a very serious aspect of some women's lives.
  • Wow. First let me say that Im a single mother of three. Im VERY PRO-CHOICE and Im also and advocate for AIDS/HIV awareness (I volunteer with the group in St.Louis who participates in various health fairs around the city promoting HIV testing and Sexual Health). This issue is dear to me in so many ways. Being a mother, but being pro-choice already puts me in the oxymoron category. I love my children and wouldnt trade them for the world. But when I was 17, I got an abortion. And like the young lady said in the excerpt, I never regretted it. I had to do what needed to be done for me and my child at the time. But I do believe that women are starting to use this method as a means of birth control. And that's a problem especially when they should know better.
    Unplanned pregnancies aside, in this day and age, YOU MUST PROTECT YOURSELF. The things Ive seen and the research Ive studied, I often tell my friends, they're LUCKY if all they get up with is a baby. Yeah, condoms lessen the sensation of the act but dammit, I like living too much.
  • VIChick
    That was actually my point women using abortion as a form of contreceptives. They feel I can go and do whatever and if I get preggo I can just get rid of it and keep it moving. I know a chick that has had 4 just because she just didnt want any. I tell her monkey ass to strap the hell up, but people dont listen to me.
  • VIChick
    I was just thinking about this topic and how stupid Crazy is. That nasty sounding heffa needs to get off the show. She is clueless and a heartless woman. Everyone has the right to choose, and I respect that to the fullest. If a woman is raped then I can understand an abortion, but if you just had sex and didnt strap up or the condom broke and u got preggo then i think u have to deal with it. It is not the baby fault. Women use abortions as a form of contreceptives and they got no problem with that. Crazy doesn't seem to understand that everyone has their opinions, and that heffa needs to get off the show. She sounds like a big, hefty bitch that can't breath. I volunteer to be the new co-host, I cant stand that uneducated heffa.
  • Bleach Johnson Listener
    I agree that girl is stupid and gives women a bad name. she is so dumb and clueless i felt bad for her. XIlla why didn't you go at her more then you did? She's dumb where did you find her at? Her mother should have aborted her.
  • VIChick
    I cannot stand listening to her, she contributes nothing to the conversation and when she actually tries to say something it is some stupid ass remark. He should have lit her ass on fire.
  • ChucksFavorite
    I had one when I was 17. I wanted to keep it, but my mother would let me and made me get the abortion. I didn't get it then, but I realized once I got older just how different my would have been had i kept the baby. But I am defiantely Pro-choice. But, I DEFINATELY don't agree with women using them like morning after pills. Because, there may come a day when those women decide that they may want to have a baby, but can't becuase of the effects that having so many abortions has had on their bodies. and I say that because I have a friend from high school who aborted 5 pregnancies and she got with someone that she really cared about and got pregnant....a few times. She kept losing the babies and when she went to the doctor, they told her that all those abortions left her body unable to carry a baby. So, either keep ya legs closed, use a condom, or get ready to joing Club Mommy.
  • VIChick
    Exactly women dont think of the consequences later on. A friend of mine can't have kids now because of all the abortions she had when she was younger.
    "So, either keep ya legs closed, use a condom, or get ready to joing Club Mommy."
    Wonderful suggestion.
  • Bun_ebombshell
    When I was 19 and in college I always said that if I got pregnant I would run to the abortion clinic. I couldnt afford birth control at the time and even though I did use condoms, I knew that I could still become preggers. A year and couple long island iced teas later I became preggers by my longtime boyfriend. He knew my stance and was ready to go to the clinic but I couldnt bring myself to do it. I took my bff out to dinner to tell her the news and see what she thought of the situation. At dinner she was very very distant and almost sad. She confessed that today was her due date and if she wouldn't have gotten an abortion a few months back she'd be a mom and broke down regretting her decision. That's when I knew I had to keep my son. Now, two years later and not wanting to be put back in that situation I am on my birth control FAITHFULLY. I am Pro-Choice for other women, but personally I couldnt do it...
  • ChucksFavorite
    It's defiantely a hard thing to go through. i expereienced the same thing your friend did about feeling that regret. On what would have been my due date, I was in church with my mother and it just so happend that it was Mother's Day. My mom knew thati wanted to keep the baby and the emotional pain i went thru. and in the middle of church, i broke down and cried. I knew that day, that if I ever became pregnant again, I would keep the baby.
  • shayna
    for ME, getting an abortion was a traumatic experience, i forgive myself, but i will never forget; i cant I have VMMVII tatted on my inner wrist which is the month and year the baby would have been born had it been full term.

    im choice, a woman should the right to do decide whatever it is she wants to do with her body. I always told myself that if i was to get pregnant, i could never get an abortion. Then when I was 18 i got pregnant, and was in denial for 2 months until i finally got a pregnancy test. 2nd year in college, strict parents, my mother had me when she was 17, i didnt want to repeat the cycle especially because of the fact that my mother is still struggling to this day. I ended up getting an abortion my 9th wk. dude said "he wasnt ready to be a father".
    its sad that abortions are becoming a form of birth control. ive been celibate ever since and its been 2 years, & i refuse to have sex with another dude unless he's someone i love & can honestly trust will be there for me.
  • Knabs
    God is bigger then all of us. He sees EVERYTHING WE DO. Including aborting LIFE. Do what ever you want, and make whatever excuses that allow you to sleep but God saw us, at the very moment of being conceived. Ps. 139:13-16. Controled actions doesnt lead to desperate decisions.
  • yes
    As far as teenagers go, I believe it all starts with the parents and them communicating with their children and having respect for each other. A lot of kids these days do whatever they want because they don't respect anyone much less themselves. They don't have repercussions for their actions. When I was in school there were bad kids who acted out, but there may have been one teacher whom they respected and they wouldn't act a fool in their class.

    Alveda King sounded real stupid in that article talkin about free sex ed., condoms and birth control is like giving permission to have sex. There's only so much control you have over other people's decisions, but the least that you can do is inform them of their options and teach them how to be safe. I'm no expert, but I would think if someone has been educated then they would be more likely to practice safe sex, therefore not ending up pregnant.
  • yes
    I'm pro-choice, but I think something needs to be done about ppl abusing it. It's not safe for them. I can understand if you get raped or giving birth may kill you, but it isn't birth control. I also think parents need to be notified about their daughters having this procedure done as well. That is a major problem to me that they can allow these abortions to be swept under the rug. I'm not a parent, but I would hope that my daughter would be able to talk to me about something like that.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    an ex knocked me up on purpose and i went to the chop shop. so what?!? i was on the patch and it didn't work. he poked a whole in the condom and there you have it. i wrastled for hours with the notion of should i keep it and become an nflers babymama or should i give up and jut suck it out like that nut before this mess happened. i don't regret my decision at all. he's a whore and has two kids coming. my baby would habeen the general of the bastard army. i know that my child deserves more than that. more than a mamma and a pops in two different states fighting over bs. i'm evil so i wold have most likely just not answered the phone and pretended like the stork dropped shorty off. .... the babymama game/role is not one that i'm willing to play. i'm too fly fa dat. WORDUP!
  • nunya
    I think abortions are great I had 14 abortions and I don't even care. I like it when dudes nut inside of me and hey if they willing to pay for it why not get something special for myself with the left over cash?

    No for real, I had a few but it was nothing to me it had to get done and I wasn't about to ruin my life and have a baby.
  • VIChick
    wow, that is all I can say right now.
  • LOL@black island and BJ listener: Hey, those are the ones we gotta reach out and give a big ole country hug to.
  • VIChick
    Nik that was just painful to read, but that was her choice.
  • Killa
    I can understand one, but if you knew a baby wasn't what you wanted why didn't you use protection to avoid getting pregnant, I don't understand.

    I am pro choice, so I'm not judging, but I strongly believe abortions are not birth control, contraceptives are.
  • nunya
    well that's on you, and of course I didn't have 14 but it was more than 4 it happens hey I can't help it you can't always get a condom sometimes and it happens.
  • Killa
    Yes you can always get a condom, and yes it "happens" the first time, but not the second, third, fourth, or fifth, that's called being irresponsible. And I don't believe ALL of those abortions had no effect on you emotionally, I don't believe that at all whether you want to admit it or not.

    What about STD's? AIDS??

    Do you believe abortion is to be used as birth control like the pill??
  • Wht about using birth control pills, patches, caps, IUD, sponge, spermacide...etc.

    There's options....sh*t, u even have the morning after pill....
  • Bleach Johnson Listener
    wow I'm speechless
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