20 Tips To Make Her Feel Like A Woman

Posted in Relationships on Nov 10, 2008

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A Single Sister asked “Is Chivalry Really Dead?” She didn’t think so, and I don’t think it’s dead, I just think it’s on life support. One reason is because women are quick to throw the stalker term around, so men like myself try to walk a fine line between showing interest and not being labeled a stalker. However there are things men can do to make a woman, feel like a woman! Not just a piece of as*. Here are 20 tips for a man or to be offered to your man.

  • Cook For Her – Surfing the internet can provide you with some quick and easy recipes that any man can make for dinner. I might even give up a few of my recipes in the upcoming days.
  • Paint Her Nails – A nice evening painting her toe nails can really go a long way in the heart of a women.
  • Watch A Chick Flick – I have an appointment to watch “The Notebook”. I keep hearing it’s a great movie, but I have not watched it yet, hopefully that will change soon.
  • Run Her Bath – There is nothing like a hot bubble bath to turn a woman on, after a hard day at work. Especially when she doesn’t expect it.
  • Text Her – Kissie pictures, love notes under 140 characters, and just a quick quote can go a long way when it comes to making her feel special.
  • Shoes – Buy her some shoes, and say “I’m going to need you to wear those… and only those.”
  • Compliment Her – Pay attention don’t give her a random compliment and not mean it. If she get her hair done mention it, of you notice her lips are nice and shiny kiss her.
  • Open The Door – This is something I picked up in the south, and although most girls might not want you or even need you to do it, doing it gets you more cool points than not doing it.
  • Smell Good – Wearing some nice cologne and just smelling good for her. Priceless
  • Wash Your Balls – Nuff said.
  • Take Her Advice – Women like to feel included in his life, so ask for her advice. This will make her feel like her opinion is valued, which is very important in any healthy relationship.
  • Look Her In The Eye – Looking a female in the eyes tells her that you are equal and that you respect her. Just because her cleavage is there doesn’t mean you have to stare at it. Glancing it okay.
  • Link Up – Sending her links to different stuff, you think she might like is cool because it shows that you pay attention.
  • Rub Her Feet – Women wear nice shoes for us, so the least we can do is help her feel more comfortable.
  • Massage her back – Grab some scented oil or lotion and rub it deep into her back and help her loosen up. Every woman deserves a good back rub.
  • Read To Her – Not all women like to be read too, but you can read together. It’s a good way to build conversation between the two of you. So run out to borders and pick up a book, start with Seeking Salamanca Mitchell by Kenji Jasper its a great urban love story. After you’re done discuss the book.
  • Listen To Her – There is a key to listening, especially when it comes to a female. Females don’t want you to solve their issue, they are more than capable of doing for them self. Just listen, pay attention and listen.
  • Tell Her You Love Her – All women want to be love, so this one is a no brainer.
  • It’s On You – This one is on you, what can be done to make a woman feel like a woman.


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  • DC_REALEST
    LOL...iight, well said. LMAO at how "wash your balls" is dead in the middle of the list.

    nonetheless, women do need to be catered to. real talk.
  • Thanks for showing our blog love!!!! It's so nice to see this from a man's point of view.
  • Oh shit. I typed in my real full name. LMAO. That's what I get for multitasking at work.
  • don't worry about it I try to show love all the time.
  • Amilleon
    LMAO....2,3 & 4 Aren't Really Necessary for me...but to each it's own....the text thing is one of my fav. i mean a quick, i miss u or i luv u boo or something would make my f-ed up day at work (which he doesn't ask about) a little more tolorable....good list my dude
  • Thanks a lot Amil. The Text message game has to be up!! lol
  • Miss.Jenee
    You never cease to amaze me.. Im reblogging this on my facebook NOW!
  • Are we friends on Facebook?
  • Ess
    interesting... nice.
  • SMILE!
  • This is really sweet. Except I do not believe for a second that you actually want to see The Notebook. I don't even want to see The Notebook, and I totally have ovaries.
  • Honestly I do want to see it, for the simple fact that almost every women I talk to, says its one of their favorite movie. Now I haven't really had a reason to watch it. I mean it's not something i would really go see, but I'm down to watch almost anything if it involves me getting closer to a nice young lady.
  • LOL. Then I guess I must be the one who's not right!

    But honestly, I hear what you're saying, "if it involves getting closer". That's how I learned everything I know about sports! :)
  • lol yeah you know you don't really like sports most females have no clue whats going on... but chick flicks can teach you something at the end of the day and i'll more than likely cop a few feels! lol
  • You're so right. I thought I was really into it, but then I broke up with that guy and haven't really paid attention since. I can, however, still totally pretend I'm into sports, and quite convincingly. It comes in handy from time to time, at work as well as play.
  • tiki
    LMAO at cop a few feels. I swear that's why yall love to watch MOVIES.
  • Princess0889
    I am right there with you that movie has to be one of the sappiest movies ever.
  • I'd rather watch kung fu.
  • joke for you... what does bruce lee drink?
  • um.......... no idea, what?
  • Waaaaaaahhhhhhhh Taaaaaaaaaaaaa (water) LMAO!!!
  • I want to be offended but I can't. That's FUNNY.
  • Princess0889
    You are silly
  • Princess0889
    Well I do watch kung fu so I have nothing to say about that
  • I was totally serious. I'd rather watch kung fu. :)
  • tiki
    damn xilla i think you named everything i like to make me feel special. i guess texting would replace little love letters in this day and age.
  • yea it really does, and letters!! Who still writes letters? LOL unless a dude is in jail.
  • The read a book together thing is great. A guy who reads + smells nice = husband material.
  • Cinna Bunz
    Great list... I brought a book of Nikki Giovanni poetry to read with my man and it went over great...

    CB
  • That's wassup Reading is fun da mental!! lol
  • brokenhearted
    Nice list. And I think just paying attention will do the job, too. Knowing a persons likes & dislikes goes a long way with me.
  • HappyToBeNappy
    Great list. And FYI, The Notebook is not that great. I mean, it's a nice little love story, but it is so not as good as people made it out to be.
  • blogluva
    That was a good read Blogxilla can you make one for the fellas please.
  • KJ
    Aww this list is too cute. Any of these things are AWESOME and I would personally love it
  • Wht a list!! If I could get all of that I would be set!! I'd probably have 15 kids b/c I would want him to be so close tht he'll be inside of me all the time...lol.

    My friends would never see me & tht's not a good look lol.

    But good list! :)
  • Breezy
    Im digging the list..
    You should mention that dudes should do this on the regular. My ex used to do this then he started getting too comfy with me and all that ish suddenly stopped. But women should also return the favor and make a man feel like a man.
  • I love the list. You have some really good tactics.
  • starr
    i would NOT let a man paint my toes

    nail polish will be all underneath my toe and ish lol
  • Xilla..This is good....."Wash Your Balls" should be at the top of the list though for undisclosed reasons....

    NOW!....I'm need a list for the fellas AND...

    Keep "Washing Balls" on the list....It feels nice to cater and be catered........
  • Jac
    Yep. I agree with all of these and thanks for stopping by...look out for "Cater 2 U"
  • guerillamilk
    ladies make sure you deserve all this shit before you go emailing this to ya nigga...
  • my man rubs my feet all the time and i love it. we can be sitting on the couch, and i'll have my feet on his lap, and he will start to rub them for no reason. it makes me melt.

    and one time, he attempted a pedicure. it was the sweetest thing ever! the simple fact that he was willing to attempt for me did me in.

    and yesterday he asked me to read my favorite books to him. it was his way of saying he wanted to show more of an interest in things i like.

    just thinking of all the sweet things he does for me makes me wanna melt. i'm gonna go send him a sexy text....
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