The Importance of Booty

Posted in Sexual Intellectuals on Nov 06, 2008

2973345163 d586c2ed00

Women often get to my site by searching the term how to get a bigger butt. I wonder about the importance of a big butt? Myself I’m not a big thick girl fan. I mean I like butt just as much as the rest of the men in the world, but a big booty never looks as good as it does in a pair of jeans. As soon as the pants come off, stretch marks and dimples are everywhere!

In my opinion females who do have a big butt tend to think its their best feature. I say that because if you take a look at 90% of the myspace pages of black women they will have at least one picture of their as* facing the camera, their hand on their hip and their face turned around towards the camera.

Why is a big butt so important to women?


Other Great Topics:

  • No Related Post

Did You Like This Post? Share It With Your Friends.


submit to reddit


Add to Google Reader or Homepage Add to My AOL





  • xtina
    having a big butt is a gift and a curse. A big butt requires a lot of maintenance. I would love to eat whatever i want when i want but if i do that, my ass will be out of this world. Thats not cute.
  • Ms. 310
    I think insecure women are the ones who desperatley want a bigger butt. And the ones who think their ass is their best feature are probably right LOL! I feel bad for girls like that because they must feel that they do not have anything else to offer. I had a friend in high school with a huge ass but her face was not so cute, if we were in the car and saw a cute guy she would always want to stop and get something out the trunk so they could see her ass because she knew that was the only way to get their attention. I say work with what you got and be sure to bring more to the table than a fat ass.
  • sexysoft
    Blogxilla you talk a lot of shit!!! In my experience a guy who is ALWAYS braggin bout their manhood usually dont have shit!!! You get sick of the hand on the stomach, yeah right you packin like that I doubt it you talk about it too much!!!!!
  • I never said i was packing like that! I just said i get tired of a hand on my stomach blocking my stride. This is a sexual site so if it comes across as bragging. My bad i just call em like i see it.
  • BigSexy
    Because men tell us it's important.
  • Sugar Tits
    Exactly!!!
  • HappyToBeNappy
    Let's be real. . chicks wouldn't like having a big butt if guys didn't like it. I love my big butt because it's mine. I have hips, thighs & ass. . .it's not going anywhere so I might as well love it. And not every chick with a big ass has stretch marks & dimples on it. But if she does, what's wrong with that??? What's the problem with a real women having a real women's body??
  • Nothing is wrong with scretch marks or dimples but wen they are air brushed off and posted on ymspace its a problem!! lol
  • HappyToBeNappy
    Okay. I feel you on the airbrush shit. If you proud of yo booty, be proud of it. . .flaws & all.
  • Sugar Tits
    I don't have a "donk" but it's grip-able........my name says it all.......and they are sweet!


    = P
  • Breezy
    LoL @ the myspace comment. So true..
    and yes..the only reason women care about having a big butt is the attention that they get because of it. a lot of these things these female do nowadays is for some attention anyway..(in my opinion)
  • I feel you i didn't know woem liked when men broke their neck to look back at the fatty that just walked by. lol
  • Redd'Velvet
    because its an asesst envied by most......men and women.
  • I do agree but i'm just wondering why.
  • Oooh not a big thick girl fan huh? I've been thick ALL my life and never had a complaint! People smile when they see me coming!
  • I love thick women but how most men drool over a thick girl i don't i'll take a slim women before a thick women it's just me! Thick girls can't take D like a slim woman can. I'm sick of the hand on my gutt
  • AWWWWW Hellllssss naw!! What thick women r u fuzucking?? Sit down lil Boy! Stop fooling w/da babies and get u a grown azz woman!! Wow...as I sit here w/my mouth agape!
  • That's what they all day but I everytime i have sex with a thick girl i get that hand on my stomach trying to block my stride and they keep inching back! I don't even be going hard and when i put it in deep they act a fool!
  • ChucksFavorite
    I've never had a big booty, but I've always wanted one. I 've just always felt like something was missing. My guy friends always told my that my shape would be the perfect 10 if just had the big booty to go with it. (got hips, thighs, breast, thighs, small waist and slat stomach). I've never had any problems with men finding me attractive because the men that i date like a thick woman. but, men do put a lot of emphasis on the butt, so i can defiately understand why some women want one.
  • I never really considered how men thought about it untul i got older but when i was younger all the black women on tv (the shows i watched anyway) had big booties. I just thought it was natural, kinda like a rite of passage. When i didn't get one I felt gyped.
  • VIChick
    Women want big booties because men seem to be drawn to it. I don't have a big booty. When I was younger a man would fall all over a big booty so I wanted one, and when I moved to the Souff it got worse. I was in the home of the big booty woman so I felt i didnt stand a chance. As I got older I realized that I am fine just the way I am and if a nucca dont want to talk to me cause my booty is small then he can go and kick rocks.
  • Reesethe
    You don't understand how many times I have seen men tripping over themselves just to break their necks to look at a chick with a wagon. A donk doesn't pay bills or get me to work on time. Black Island Barbie is right the only reason why women want a big butt is because men are drawn to it. I don't have a monster back there and I still get attention. Some women think its imporant but it's not.
  • truth
    a big but is like a big dick...the other sex likes it so u want it
  • Breezy
    @ Miss 310. I've seen some many chicks with big butts but they're not cute in the face but it doesn't stop dudes from trying to holla at them. It's like they dont care about looks anymore..it's all about ass
  • I'm a slim chick. I don't care to have a big video vixen booty b/c god gave me my proportions for a reason. But I'm not flat in the back either. I have two handfuls of booty and it suits me just fine ;)

    And if I want to 'enhance' it, I'll do some squats and lunges so it can sit up higher than normal. Either way, the key is to maintain your butt. Exercise is key to have a nice looking booty (if u ask me). It doesn't need to be BIG, just nice looking. Cause w/ time gravity will kick in and that booty that men go crzy over will look like tht chick in the utube vid that DarknLovely atttached (and tht's not a good look) lol.

    Everyone is saying girls want big butts b/c guys want it...but if guys wanted stupidity in a woman would we dumb down?! Hell to the naw!! lol.
  • Princess0889
    I defiantly agree with you. I am slim as well and I always what can she do in the bedroom with more booty than I can.
  • Jamie8706
    I would have to agree also I'm slim too
  • Jia
    I definitely don't think that my ass is my best feature. It's nice and round but I like my eyes a lot more.

    I think that most women post pics of their butts on Myspace (and otherwise) b/c men, for the most part, always compliment a butt.

    Check it, I can put up a pic of my booty with my face turned to the camera bearing a gorgeous smile...that pic will the most comments. I can take that same pic, crop it up and only show the smile, and it gets a lot of comments, but just not as many as the booty. Men (some) have a tendency to be obsessed with body...everything alludes to sex...and that's always a plus for men folk.
  • Dro
    If your butt is your best feature , you having problems LOL
    I don't like chicks with a biiig booty , I think men who likes big bootys is the same men who likes enormous titties too ... i prefer girls slim nice and in shape wit small perky breast :)
  • just_passin_by
    Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew! What in the hamburger hell was that Youtube video all about! Made me lose my lunch 'n shit.
    A bog booty is nice if it's maintained so it doesn't look like lumps of cottage cheese.
    I got a big butt myself and I can tell you right now that I have trouble finding a pair of pants or jeans that actually fits well ( I live in Europe where they only make pants for people with little to no ass). It's so damn frustrating! I'm happy with my applebottom, but when it's time to go shopping it makes me wish that it was a little less prominent.
  • just_passin_by
    A bog booty is nice if it's maintained so it doesn't look like lumps of cottage cheese.

    I meant a big booty
  • VIChick
    Ok this is off the subject, but ol girl in the picture her shoes are killing me. I hate all white shoes. My blood crawls anytime I see all white shoes. If those bitches aren't sneakers then the shit shouldnt be worn. Her shoes are really killing me.
  • I'm good with the okay butt my half and half genes blessed me with. Big butt just means a harder time trying to find jeans that fit yoy without having a crack attack
  • lalo
    The reason why a big butt is so important to women...and I'm speaking on behalf of black women is because we are sent subliminal, subtle and outright messages that this is the feature that makes us complete. That's the reason why we see so many females take those typical myspace pics. From movies, to music videos, to poems, to stories all describe the beautiful black body as incorporating a smooth round behind. It's come to the point where Black females with impressionable minds (i.e. young and old women with low self-esteems) feel that that is the only quality they have. It doesn't help when males ridicule them and eye that one feature, yet when a non-black female comes their way, they look at the whole package. I personally dealt with my years of wanting a bigger butt. I unfortunately was one of those girls who thought that would make me complete as a Black woman. Later on I realized, there's more to that in life and obviously, if a young man is solely approaching you for y our physical stats you may have to reconsider the potential relationship you'd want with him. Of course I've accepted that fact that the person I'm with may fantasize about being with another female with better physical stats and that's fine with me. I'm not the epitome of beauty the media and other outlets declare. I'm far from it and its perfectly fine. For me what's important is the respect I get from him and the communication dialogue is always burgeoning with new topics.
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    i have the perfect round lil cute sneaka booty. i've been told that i have a nice shape for clothes but on the l-o i look better naked. many have been surprised by my thickness and i've worked damn hard to get here.

    here in chicago they are obsessed with asses. a man will pass up a great woman like myself to spoil an ass. this goes across the board, from bankas to doboys these clowns are suckers for a booty. then when it gets old they go for another booty. its wild! i personally am obsessed and at one pt looked into implants since my uncles cousin is a plastic surgeon.....wild right?
  • star
    men love big butts its beauty it also makes a man get on hard faster!
  • DarknLovely1913
    This was on Crunk and Disorderly. All I gotta say is no.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jar4PKLROSA
  • VIChick
    OH HELL NAH. WTF is up with her bottom half. Yuck. That shit made me throw up a lil bit. dam that is horrible. Bitch dont even half an ass. All that shit is just globs of fat. Not at all cute. Dam my stomach is upset over that
  • DarknLovely1913
    I guess she excercises only her top half so all the fat accumulates in her bottom?
blog comments powered by Disqus

  • You Avatar


  • roc%20nationQuantcast


    BlogXilla on Facebook