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Head Is A Must
Posted in Rated Grown Up, Sexual Intellectuals on 30. Oct, 2008
As I sit at my desk just thinking about life and trying to figure out my next move to get over the hump and become more successful as a writer. I can’t help but think of the way her lips felt on mine. What her tongue motion is like, how she moves her lips while going down and then it hits me. Oral sex is very important in a relationship, whether you swallow or not. Gone are the days of females who “don’t give it”, but we are in a new era of females. An era I like to call “The Pause Era”.
The pause is when both parties know that head is going to come, but she’ll lay there on her chest or abs and stares at it. I hate this, I don’t want to come out and say “Hey baby, suck my stick”, but I can’t help but get impatient, sometimes wanting to grab her head and push it on the manxilla. I sent out a tweet asking people how you ask for head. jlbean said
”neva ask for oral sex. If it’s not offered assume u ain’t getting it.
I’m sorry but that’s unacceptable to me. Head is a must, and to assume I’m not going to get it, is going to leave me with a spitless stick. I refuse to allow that to happen. We’re all adults and as smart as I am I don’t know what the wait is for, because when head is a possibility I try to always make sure I do a few things
Yet, despite these measures if you ask for it, or even motion towards it, the longer she’ll take. Teasing the Manxilla is not a good thing, but the irrational mind of the female somehow believes this is a great idea.
Ladies head is important and you shouldn’t make men wait for it, if you know you do it and you know you’re going to do it. I don’t want to have a debate about it, call me spoiled, but I want your mouth on my d*ck ASAP!
i have only been asked by one person and it annoyed the hell outta me! he sounded like a lil ass kid. he thought i was scared to do it. so i finally had to shut that ass up……..and from then on out, he never asked again
but i agree with most of u about not asking. and i never asked for it either until i got with my current bf…the difference with him is that he likes for me to tell him what i want, and i happily obliged to do so!
iight, Ms Head Banger LOL @ morning breath shouldn't be an issue if you brush at night before bed. i didn't say i wanted a kiss…so when she do it then it don't matter b/c after she's gonna catch those babies then im hoping in the shower anyways so there's no issue here.
as for returning the favor…i don't have a problem with compromising but i know few females that wake up dripping like us dudes wake up with a stiffy. if i don't get my morning head…then i'll have erruptions all day like on the train or something where im not supposed to.
I love to give head. I love when my man climb ontop of me and place it right in my mouth and fuck the shit out of my mouth with his stick and hands on my hair. It drives me crazy, I be spitting, lick and downing that bad boy….whewwwwww let me calm down I'm still at work.
I'm just being honest.
I am so late for this conversation, but you know I have to put in my 2 cents. First off, I love giving head but you can't just go giving it to every Tom,Dick, and Xilla. LOL. I think if you are in a relationship( real relationship, not those casual shit) head is implied. And it goes the other way around. If your my man I expect head without asking and you wont have to ask me. But I also feel head doesn't have to be given everytime sex is performed. Then it gets a bit routine. When you get the shit just enjoy it, and stop complaining.
you should come up with a look that she knows what you want once you stare at her. or say baby can I get some kisses. that works with me.
now that im not tweetin i can further explain. What i mean by that is you should never HAVE to ask. Chicks nowadays need to stop playin and only doing it cause he asks. No…the d*ck should be lovingly slurped on a regular basis. That should be law!
Damn Xilla… maybe you should post a blog about women claiming their head game is good. I know you did the pussy one, but I think I have met more girls (and see a lot in this thread), claiming their head game is good, the best etc. In all reality I have no found many girls with this special feaature and to be honest when I do… I make sure I keep them around. If your head game is that good ladies 1. Your guy is asking because he likes it that much, 2. If you don't suck it someone else will, 3. Do not put it off cause I can guarentee a good head game will keep your man around. 4. If you are good expect the guy to try that much more to please you, half-ass it and expect half-assed tongue/dick too.
I agree with Xilla though, I would take head over pussy most of the time, and if a girl is not doing it on the regular, expect me to stray.
See that is triffling ass shit. “if a girl is not doing it on a regular, expect me to stray”. And is this person who is suppose to supply u with head is ur woman? Now a days relationships are built on shit because of wack ass statements like that. What if she said mother fucker if you don't eat this pussy on a regular I will let your bestfriend continue the job. That shit wont be so cute then huh?
a dude that ask me to give him head will never get sucked off, not happenin.
&& then if you try to push my head down there, you get the “nigga please” look.
for me; im only willing to give head to dudes im in a relationship w. or someone i really really really like.
if its just some friend w. benefits type shit, then you should not expect me to go down.
thas just me.
I agree, just keep in mind any dude that has to ask for head- we probably aren't too concerned about him leaving, take that bitch assness to the next lady.
and I am one of those females…if you are next to me when I wake up you better expect to get it on…or else it's going to be a long day.
Hello Xilla,
I read your blogs alot but I've never commented (until now). Only reason I am commenting is because I find this topic quite interesting. I agree w/ most of everyone's answers – I feel like if your in a relationship there should be no boundaries & head should be a no-brainer (no pun intended) however if its strictly platonic, why bother w/ head? If your simply a “fuck” buddy, why ask for head ? If your not planning on pursuing this person as his or her's “boo-thang”, sex should be the only option right ?
P.S ; fellas, what is considered “good head” ?
never ask, bcs if I (or most females, according to the response thus-far) go the pity head route then your last words will inevitably be “Tha's it?” with a confused and disappointed look…
NEVER EVER EVER push my head down, because u'll NEVER EVER EVER get it / get it again
when I am INSPIRED to do it, I know what I'm doin so let me, AGAIN, do not push my head down, I don't need help…if you do it n e way u'll be askin “Tha's it?” with the same confused and disappointed look…
that's not to say “hands off” completely, you can play with or pull my hair and/or gently or even “slightly” firmly
guide me while I do my thing but if you grab it like a basketball in the last 3 seconds of double o/t of the NBA playoffs with “SUCK MY DICK, BITCH” force, then, well u know… “Tha's it?”….followed by that confused and disappointed look
absorb that and then we'll talk about INSPIRATION….
i'm always willing to give head.. but i don't know why i just find it sexy when a guy asks for it!! when he does, i just grin and go for it. so should a girl ask for it??
hey thanks a lot for the comment I hope to see your name in the comment section a little more. But I believe i have a blog on here about what is good head.
I have no problem with eating pussy… just like the lady should not have problem giving head. If you are in a real relationship you should be willing to satisfy your partner. If that is what satisfies them you should be willing to, just like the eating pussy part. I am not saying give head when I want, where I want… I am saying if head is Never or rarely involved in foreplay or just for fun ocassionally, thats the problem.
Tell me why if dude is your man you are not willing to satisfy him orally?
thats where the problem occurs with me, men think that women should automatically give head as if its a requirement, when their head is awful or they dont even do it..or its once in every blue moon he eats out. thats niggas problems and when niggas have dat type of attitude they really miss da fuck out….dudes get spoiled by hoes and tellin dem how they want the head and when.. but in reality when u wit ur woman u need to stfu …u wanna beg den get mad u get half assed head….for example..you knew u was the person to take out the trash and in ur mind u were eventually gonna do it but when u constantly get nagged, y ou end up takin da trash out wit tha most shitty attitude..same thing applies to females n head…dont ask and a bitch might jus do it wit a smile on her face…she'll do it when she's ready.
and also….ppl need stop assumin that ALL females give head. thats totally not true. but if u shut tha hell up, you might ca get it
maybe u should just start strokin it while she's lookin at it to give her a lil visual stimulation boost, then say “i'm ready when u are” so she feels like its her decision *shrugs*
maybe u should just start strokin it while she's lookin at it to give her a lil visual stimulation boost, then say “i'm ready when u are” so she feels like its her decision *shrugs*
I'm the kinda chick that needs to be told to give head. I never offer it & I never initiate it. But if it's somebody I'm really feeling, all he has to do is tell me to do it & I'm there. I love a guy who takes charge in the bedroom. . .tells me what to do & when to do it. I like him to be a little forceful, not violent or nothing like that. . .but just kinda ordering me around. It's funny though, cause outside the bedroom, I wish a N@@@ would try to tell me what to do. It aint going down like that.
So guys, if you come across a girl like me, please tell her what you want. . .and you shall receive!!!
I'm the kinda chick that needs to be told to give head. I never offer it & I never initiate it. But if it's somebody I'm really feeling, all he has to do is tell me to do it & I'm there. I love a guy who takes charge in the bedroom. . .tells me what to do & when to do it. I like him to be a little forceful, not violent or nothing like that. . .but just kinda ordering me around. It's funny though, cause outside the bedroom, I wish a N@@@ would try to tell me what to do. It aint going down like that.
So guys, if you come across a girl like me, please tell her what you want. . .and you shall receive!!!
Ummm…NO!
Firt things first, do these rules apply to men giving had as well??
So I'm just sposed to open my mouth an wait for you to stick that shit in my mouf…
NO SIR!!
Shit, head is an extra curicular activity…
I mean don't get me wrong I LOVE giving head, but dot have no stank ass attitude about it like I should feel privileged to wrap my lips around yur shit…
BOY BYE!!!
If you gonna have that kinda attitude then you better be on your way down south too!
Ummm…NO!
Firt things first, do these rules apply to men giving had as well??
So I'm just sposed to open my mouth an wait for you to stick that shit in my mouf…
NO SIR!!
Shit, head is an extra curicular activity…
I mean don't get me wrong I LOVE giving head, but dot have no stank ass attitude about it like I should feel privileged to wrap my lips around yur shit…
BOY BYE!!!
If you gonna have that kinda attitude then you better be on your way down south too!
Lol… I can't stop laughing at your post here. Yes, its true no one likes to be teased but that goes both ways. Women expect the kitty to be paid attention to too. Me personally I absolutely love giving head not just b/c it pleases my babe but heck if I'm that much into it I can please myself (since we're talking grown up). I don't want to sound too vulgar so I'll leave it at that. No I don't like to play games b/c I don't want him playing games with Tiger when she needs some special attn.
Lol… I can't stop laughing at your post here. Yes, its true no one likes to be teased but that goes both ways. Women expect the kitty to be paid attention to too. Me personally I absolutely love giving head not just b/c it pleases my babe but heck if I'm that much into it I can please myself (since we're talking grown up). I don't want to sound too vulgar so I'll leave it at that. No I don't like to play games b/c I don't want him playing games with Tiger when she needs some special attn.
A woman shouldn't have to ask for it. It should already be in the plans. That type of your laying in the bed & he just comes & devours the goodies.
A woman shouldn't have to ask for it. It should already be in the plans. That type of your laying in the bed & he just comes & devours the goodies.
why is nobody stating the obvious? head is a PRIVILIGE not a RIGHT. i mean, so is gettin ass in general, but still. this goes for both men AND women. and i will tell you this much, if my dude has been acting a fool all day, been unhelpful or just a jackass in general, the chances of him gettin head are ZERO. now, if he's been a good boy, offering to do something around the house or with/for the kids, showin me respect and affection, i will jam that thang down my throat and choke on it like a whore. so men, treat women how they wanna be treated and you will ALSO get treated!
why is nobody stating the obvious? head is a PRIVILIGE not a RIGHT. i mean, so is gettin ass in general, but still. this goes for both men AND women. and i will tell you this much, if my dude has been acting a fool all day, been unhelpful or just a jackass in general, the chances of him gettin head are ZERO. now, if he's been a good boy, offering to do something around the house or with/for the kids, showin me respect and affection, i will jam that thang down my throat and choke on it like a whore. so men, treat women how they wanna be treated and you will ALSO get treated!
if were all adults, then shouldnt niggaz be eatin pussy too?
if were all adults, then shouldnt niggaz be eatin pussy too?
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