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Do Wh*res Have More Fun?
Posted in Relationships on 23. Oct, 2008
The following was written by ‘That One’ for BlogXilla.com
I have always been a very low key type of female, had many friends who just freaked off with guys just because and I’ve always tried to remain non-judgmental but a part of me just saw them as just being whores. I’ve always kept a boyfriend and I’ve always stayed faithful. I take pride in being a “good girlfriend” so freaking off was never appealing to me. Now I find myself in a little bind. My boyfriend has been “away” (cough cough) for 1year and 9 months and I have been celibate up until recent…I was good until a urge to put the toys away and have a strong, hard, warm body on me and in came and when that urge came, it came hella STRONG, so it was hard to fight off. My hormones are in overload right now.
A few months ago I came across this guy and needless to say he was cool and yeah we f*ucked and it was hella good. He said he could tell that I haven’t been touch in a while just from the reaction my body gives him, when he touches me. Yo’ touched me, licked me, fucked me in all the right ways…(just thinking bout it gives me chills) the next day I felt like I had shed 10 lbs…weird I know but I felt lighter. I already had it in my mind that one time would be it and I’d be good at least for another 6 – 12 months, right? WRONG! Two months later I come across another guy who has been crushing on me for a year or two now but as I said I take pride in being a “good girlfriend.” Well we seen each other at a mutual’s friends party, linked up that night and yup… we f*cked and that was pretty awesome too.
Now I’m getting a little nervous because it seems the more I f*ck, the more I want too and I’m having way too much fun being a “lil whore”…is that wrong?
Hell no you are not wrong! I say get it out your system! You wont be the first. Sounds like you are a decent girl anyway!
Tootles,
Delita
Thanks alot Roxy aka Delita. I appreciate it
I don't think you are wrong. You are human – period. People have cravings, desires, needs and wants. Also, a woman's sexual peak and desire increases a little more each year for many years. If you were married – that would be different because you took Holy vows before God to be faithful. I'd like to see if you can let the other dudes go once the BF gets back “home”. LOL
nope and I guarentee you that your “good boyfriend” is not remaining celibate either…so definitely dont feel bad!
Girl you good, your human. It's not like you having any type of romantic relationship w/the other person. You love your man but he can't give you the sexual satisfaction that you need.
That I can't see that being a probelm (letting the dudes go when my Boo comes home) but I'm also afraid that I have picked up some bad habits (UGH)
No ma'am it's not wrong…….it's HUMAN. You are a woman with feelings and hormones and desires. There is nothing wrong with fullfilling your desires. And besides ole boy is “away” so why not? ENJOY YO'SEF!!!!!!!!! You're only gonna come around as “The One” once……….. make rational, sound, conscience decisions that YOU can live with and it's all G…..I say do you. Make him/them strap up and keep the party goin.
And just curious………how long will he be “away” cough cough…………lol
early 2010 (cough cough)
Just another NY chick doin slutty shit….Duke's been gettin his so who cares…right ?
Ugh – that's a long time hun. I agree that you aren't having any romantic relationships so what's the big deal. And don't consider them “bad habits” just “new (tricks) techniques” that you read about online that you'd like to “try”. Besides, he's gonna want you to turn his ass out anyway when he gets back home
Do you ma, just ALWAYS use condom and seperate protection on your own (spermicide, sponge, etc).
Thanks for the advice..its GREATLY appreciated and needed! seriously!
Girl get your fuck on and enjoy yourself. Just be careful and in control. Don't let Cats dog you.
Dang, Dugless, tell us how you really feel, why dont ya?!!
Why is it that everytime ladies, and I do mean ladies, satify their sexual desires ( or get them satisfied) Folks got something to say about being slutty or even whore-ish??
For the record @THAT ONE -YOU ARE NOT A WHORE. You seem selective in the men you get with and I pray you're being safe. I also take it that you're young. So have fun, use discretion and make good choices – you'll be fine.
Real fucking talk right there. I can't preach enough how important it is to use your OWN protection. Condoms break….. Then what?? Sheeeit – I use VCF (vaginal contraceptive film) every time as well as a condom. I ain't getting caught out there pregnant. Google it. You'll find it. Also, always be sober so you are in control. Booze/weed can make you say “fuck it” and make some dumb decisions.
Girl, get yours!! Dudes definitely do it all the time. Why are women afraid to explore their options? If you're not putting your business all out there, there should not be a problem having some casual sex. You're not a whore, you in control of your own and you're getting yours 'by any mean necessary' lol. Enjoy.
p.s. im in a similiar type situation so Thanks for posting this at the right time.
I love this fuckin blog. It's some real talk on here. Ladies if your man is “away” for a while, holla at ya boy. I travel extensively and got mad frequent flyer miles. lmbao. On the real though. Don't ever let anybody else determine what is and isn't good for you. If a mufuka don't like what they see when they look at you tell them to look the other way. Keep it classy.
GOT-DAM!!!!! cough cough………………..lmao
i'm in a long-distance relationship and I too am finding it hard staying “faithful”. but i guess i'm gonna go with 'what he doesn't know won't hurt him'…
I was in a long relationship for 2 years and I stayed faithful. Even though I had those cravings I held my ground and stayed where I belonged. Long and short negro cheated on me and had a baby with someone else. If i knew then what I know now it would have been a whole different ball game. Get yours mama cause he is definatly getting his.
(Chocking) That is a ways away. ( frowning)
Great Ideas, too bad I have no one to take out!!!
Chiiiiiiiiiiile lemme tell ya…i played that good girlfriend role for about 3 and a half years, til that niggah left me…lol
He had been my one and only…I've been doin my thing ever since…lol
I't's overrated to me now…Hell AT LEAST u gettin piped right! If i could find 1 good pipe I'd be good..lmao
Do u still want to be with ol' boy?
damn mamaz..early 2010?!?????????? Oh my.
oh yea, and No, u are not a WHore!
Dont feel bad girl…you said it right when you said you were trying to be a good “Girlfriend” not “WIFE”. Trust me your so called boyfriend has not been celibate to 1yr and 9 months, probably not a month
yea dude she means hes locked up if i read it right…so if hes cheating it might not be his choice
WOW not one to judge but you asked the question so after reading these comments I feel I have to be the voice of REASON..
WHORE…no you didn't get $$
CHEATER..yes..
just break up with dude and have your fun but you are on the down n' dirty if you continue to creep..be free and have all the nookie (protect your body & heart of course) you can get mama
honestly i dont know the situation of why he went “away”, but i always told myself that if my dude went “away” i couldnt promise that i'd wait for him and i would hope he would not expect me to wait for him, especially if he put himself in that situation. if thats the case, it is cheating but do you. i dont think he should expect you to put your life on hold. of course if he wasnt totally in the wrong, then its prolly another story, and im not entirely sure what i would do.
I definietely resent that implication. Seems like you got played
She isn't freaking off. She was trying to do a bid with her man (that is a whole other story, I'm sorry. I'm sure you weren't thinking about me when you did whatever you did so i'd never do a bid with anyone). Each person she slept with was an acquaintance. She didn't love in the club, she wasn't in a bathroom.
Once you abstain and then jump right back, you will keep “falling off teh wagon” because you've unleashed the monster.
You're not a whore,slut, jumpoff, you're not anything but a human being with a sexuality.
Amen said teh single mother
damn sounds like me minus the got another girl pregnant part. mine actually “returned” my bra and i guess that was my old bra from jr high, i haven't had itty bitties in a minute.
i won't say all men do them but 99.9 % are.
Thanks.
Wussup Shayna – by “away” we are all certain that she means he's in prison until early 2010.
your a good girlfriend 'that one' just make sho its tight for homie when he come home.
if you went 1 & 9 months before cheating…hell yeah ur a good one. long as you ain't get preggos or no STD u str8.
FIrst of all, That One, the definition for whore is relative. What one person may deem as too many sexual partners may be a drop in the bucket for another. The most important thing is, are you being true to yourself about who you are and what you want to do? After you have answered that, then get your grown woman on. Whether that means sleeping with one to two persons or ten, no one defines you better than you…and I would like to think that you would not define yourself as a whore. RIght?
Hell Naw my Sista!!
the bottom line is this…u know who you are and your worth. And seeing that you've kept your good girl swag legitamitly for a long time whose to say you are not intitled to walk on the wild side. Protect yourself as Im sure you are and ride that D gurl!!!
i feel you i have always been that friend that goes home when everybody paired off at the club for the weekend freak sessions but sometimes you just HAVE to give in.. your not bad at all just Horny
verrry natural
I believe every woman goes through a phase in their life where they just want to be a little extra sexual.