Just Steph Presents How To Take It Up The Butt

Posted in Rated Grown Up, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals on Oct 14, 2008

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The following blog was written by Just Steph for BlogXilla.com

You must be willing to try anything at least once, for your man. By anything, I mean ANYTHING. This includes anal sex (or entering through the “back” door). When first approached by this idea by my “exclusive” guy, I was interested. It seemed so exciting, different…and needed to be tried. I’ll be the first to admit that the idea of pain did not sit well with me. But didn’t losing my virginity hurt? Sure! Was it worth it? Absolutely! Pleasure to me is deeply entangled in pain. Perhaps it’s just me, but pain is hot.

My first try included a ramming motion, Anal Ease, and no pleasure at all. However, I was determined and went back to the drawing board. We switched up the technique and the lube (WET- swear by it). Since my initiation, I am totally in love with anal sex even without the lube. I get honest pleasure and can reach a climax. The feel of a big stiff hard d*** digging deep into my naughty tight place excites me tremendously. IMHO, my man needs to be turned out.

This means pussy whipped, deep throated, and allowed to plunge DEEP into my a*s. There are two important words to anal: LUBE and RELAX. Make sure that you and your partner are squeaky clean-you’ll be more comfortable. Set the mood by doing whatever it takes to relax. Then get turned on! Really, really turned on. Get so horny you’re crawling out of your skin. Then lube up and slowly…slowly push it in.Slow and steady is the key! When his head pops into this tight place it is an amazing sensation. For all you ladies who are afraid, relax and go with the flow…you’ll thank me (and so will your man). Wait until you can go with no lube at all. Mind blowing!


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  • Hey Just Step, good post girl!!

    I was one of the girls who was scared to try it, but like u said. Loosing ur virginity isn't a walk in the park lol. So I gave it a try and was surprised that once I was relaxed, it felt amazing.
    Relaxing is key :) And the position has to be right. Some ppl can't take it on all 4's the first times. There's different positions that will help him ease it in and help you to relax more ;)

    PBFE :)
  • ANuJS
    I think that spooning is the best. Missionary can be okay. For you to do doggy you have to be a trooper. Thats deep penetration. (I miss my PBFEs)
  • My 1st time was on all 4's (lol). But like u said, he went slow and I was very relaxed so it was no prob...once he was in, it was on a poppin' lol.

    I miss PBFE 2
  • VIChick
    Hey PBFE's what's going on with us. We haven't had a meeting in days.
  • Yeah I know...we gotta get it together lol
  • valerie
    cant do it. im so scared of this its not even funny.
    i tried once and litterally was crying, i wanted to sock my man in his face.
    i wish i could tho! maybe one day!
  • you were too scared to relax.
  • ANuJS
    Relaxation is the absolute key. Tense booties are a no no!
  • lilmissunshine
    hell yea!!! m sorry...but i had some one try to be funny and hit me with the anal dougie--he DEF felt my MF'in wrath.
    Surprise anal is a No-MF'in no!
  • Killa
    I think I just threw up in my mouth.


    To each thier own, it's your ass your bed do what you do... I just associate anal sex with homosexuality, so in my mind if a dude wants to fuck me in my ass I automatically question his sexuality, If the pussy isn't good enough for you...I don't know what to tell you homie.
  • ANuJS
    Well why give a man a blow job? It something different...
  • Nixx_01
    Anal sex is not about sexuality... do you associate giving or getting head with homosexuality? Anal is just another way to sexually explore your physical relationship with your partner. Its a little more risque then the other options but that is what makes it exciting. I haven't tried anal yet but I will be sure to pick up some Wet for my toy box just in case the mood strikes. ;) Good blog JustSteph.
  • ANuJS
    I swear by WET. It is the best. I used to only buy it at the adult stores but now all stores sell it.
  • Nixx_01
    Killa, Im not saying anyone has to try anything they aren't comfortable with. It is completely that persons choice. I was just pointing out that the reasoning was limiting. I'm not going to tell my partner don't give me head because Lindsay Lohan and Samantha engage in that sexual activity that way that is their business. I will be damned if I let another person's sexual orientation limit me in my bedroom experience. I decide for myself what will or will not go down in my bed. Like you said though to each their own.
  • ANuJS
    Exactly, then eating pussy is only for lesbians if that's how we're thinking.
  • Killa
    Once again...like I said...IN MY OPINION...I'm not bashing anyone for trying it and I hear what you're saying...but in my mind THAT particular sexual act makes my mind go to homosexuality, I didn't say EVERYONE"s mind does that I didn't say everyone should think that, it's just what I think and you don't have to agree with me. You like it in the ass kudos to you...I choose not to.
  • no thanks!! Tried it, didn't like it.
  • Stephanie
    I don't know about all that...I too associate that act with homosexuality. And i hate hearing the" Be down for whatever your man wants b/c what you won't do another girl will." Thats B.S. b/c whats to say he won't go her regardless if i do it or not. Some things i am just not down for. Can't say i will never try it but 1 thing i know for sure i ain't neva gonna try is a 3some. That would just lead to many types of problems and do i wana look back one day and say to myself, "Damn i brought that upon myself" when my man is all caught with the other girl. Xilla u shoud really have a post on that cuz these brothers are really feeling this 3some bullshit.
  • VIChick
    Like everyone keeps saying to each is own. Never had anal and never been in a 3some. But it all goes down to what you are comfortable with. I know a 3some isn't a good option for me because I am stingy and don't like to share ESPECIALLY MY MAN. i Don't think I can watch my man fucking someone else. So 3some action probably won't happen because that would be an uncomfortable feeling for me. Of course men would ask if u are willing to do it, because THEIR MEN. They into all kinds of shit. They try to see how far they can go.
  • lilmissunshine
    i would totally have a 3some....but im still in college and that wont look too good on my part...ppl r still way to immature for that phase. but i will in the future

    i wont have one with my man, tho. If i were invited into another woman's relationship i would go for it...cuz i wont have to worry about that whole "catchin her and my man" issue
  • @ Stephanie,

    If a man is wanting a FFM 3some and ur not down then ask him if he can give u a MMF 3some and see how he reacts to it. And make sure u get graphic with the details (i.e. him watching u give another man pleasure by sucking his d*ck, or taking back shots from another man while u moan louder than u ever moaned with him). All of this is just to prove they can't handle it so why ask u as his woman to deal with it.
    Men can dish it out, but can't take their own sh*t sometimes. A lot of things isn't for everyone, and everyone has their limits on what they will do sexually.
  • nope sorry cant do it. i'll pass.
  • VIChick
    I've never had anal sex, and I think it should be a preference for the woman if she is into it or want to try it. If your man is trying to get your not in that mind frame to do it and ur not certain that you want to do it, then don't dam do it. I think its an aquired choice. Would I ever do it? The only way I think I can do it is if I am married and the normal way just got boring and we need to spice up our relationship. I aint doing that shit w/no regular Joe.
  • ANuJS
    I can definitely say that this is not something you try with each and every guy you meet in the club. It is just something different. I tell you once you try it, you will want to have it again. You need a patient partner. PBFE out!
  • Killa
    DO YOU MAMA!
  • I feel ALL of you ladies on this: TO EACH ITS OWN. YOUR decision ladies, YOURS ONLY. Be pressured by no one. Personally, I ve had anal on several occasions and it does feel good once you get use to it (JustSteph prefers WET but Im a regular ole' Baby Oil fan ALLDAY). And her advice is absolutely on point; slow strokes, lube and relaxation are essential, especially for beginners. Once you get it going, it starts to open up and moisten just like your Lucy.
  • ANuJS
    I like you Nik....do you twitter?
  • Oh of course Girl! thatchicknik - hit me up!
  • 404
    JusSteph............................is this what you gone be doin with "our" man when he gets out?????????????
  • ANuJS
    If he wants to right after I eat all of my omelet! LMAO!!!!!!
  • VIChick
    How many people are sharing this one man? LOL PBFE out
  • ANuJS
    Well, according to my mental calculations....I'd say 3. Me, u, and Tiddy. No more! 3 women is enuf for any man. PBFE out!
  • VIChick
    Ok well no more like i said before I am a stingy bitch and dont like sharing, but because of who he is I know I would have to share. Especially when he gets out. LOL

    PBFE Out!!
  • kyas_mami
    *Covers Eyes*
    me no likey...
    Uh-uH...no sireee...
    this would require EXTREME inibriation on my part....even then i dont think this will happen...
  • ok not only did i read a disturbing story about this from some tuckermax dude, i also sat at a table with a friend who let out the smelliest fart only it wasn't a fart. She shat her pants b/c she couldn't control her sphincter muscles.
    I say to each their own.
  • lol now tht's some crazy sh*t (literally) lmao.... maybe she was doing it several times a day every day! lol
  • Kee
    Nice write up JustSteph!

    I've tried it a few times..I kinda remember maybe one time actually "maybe" enjoying it and I was drunk which is why I'm not too sure..but that shit HURTS and don't get it twisted I like pain too but that kind of pain I can not do...and besides all of that I'm kind of freaked out by a dude who puts so much emphasis on wanting to do it to me in the ass..seriously it freaks me out.....makes me think things.

    Just my take on getting it in the ass...it ain't for all and it sure as hell ain't for me. :-)
  • VIChick
    I had a friend is college who started having anal sex, which I didnt understand how she did it. She did it with multiple people. After one of her sessions in the school parking lot she came back into class and sat for a while. Then she went to the bathroom, then she came back after 5 min and went to the bathroom again. I asked why are you leaving every 5 min. She said since she started having anal sex her ass was so loose that she couldn't hold in her bowel movements. I was like dam...that shit made me even more frightened to do it.
  • ANuJS
    Check ur twitter!
  • VIChick
    That does mak sense Steph.
  • TM
    Okay, right. Hell no....
  • PageKeys
    My first sexual experience was anal sex and I always try to incorporate that into my sex life.
  • ANuJS
    Damn! Ur 1st experience was anal? Are you kidding me? You are the shit....4 real. I give u props even I wasnt that bold!
  • PageKeys
    my whole thinking was that I still wanted to be considered a virgin.

    o those silly thoughts.
  • ANuJS
    What was wrong w/oral? U skipped right to anal? I guess you did "technically" keep your virginity. I understand those crazy thoughts tho.
  • PageKeys
    he didn't ask
  • VIChick
    Dam girl I give you the trophy for the BOLD ASS BITCH i HAVE EVER READ AWARD. Straight to anal dam you aight no joke. LOL

    PBFE out!!
  • PageKeys
    i will wear that as a badge of honor
    lmao
  • Just Steph i love to read your comments and I nominate you to be a regular guest blogger on the site...
  • BayBunny
    Anal...huum it depends on the size of the mans penis. Relax, lube it up and enjoy! I honestly perfer a finger or two in my ass while in gettin banged out!
  • SheLurks
    I've tried anal sex before and I definitely like it! I always knew I wanted to try it and when my friend (with benefits lol) brought it up one night i said "what the hell" and we headed to the store that night, got the lube, and tried it. the first time HURT! i didn't let the pain make me want to do away with it altogether though. a couple of weeks after that i brought it to his attention and of course he was down to try it again. it was GREAT! ever since then we randomly switch it up, more so me saying "i want you in the booty tonight" :-D

    and i agree with JustSteph "... the feel of a big stiff hard d*** ..." & for him it's the excitement of being somewhere he has no business being lol
  • hottnikz
    Just Steph, I enjoyed it your thoughts on anal sex. I've heard some women get a pleasure from anal sex, I'm just not one of them. Me and pain don't get along,lol. Ain't that much anal lube or relaxing in the world for me, not which a nine incher up the chute. If anything it had me running away, not wanting to take a return trip. To each his own, if you like it for you, then I love it for you girl.
  • yes
    I tried it, it was aight

    I had some dranks so I guess that took care of the relaxation part lol
    Once you lube up it goes in pretty easily
  • Reshanda Simons
    Shams read this.....gives some pointers
  • Thoney Gangstasweet
    call me crazy but i think that if my man asks me to scoot up the dookyshoot, i'm running. that's madd homo to me and i'm no stranger to acrobatics in the bedroom. that's just too much for me. ioseriously! WAY too much! i tried it once and the pain was so intense i had to crawl in a hole andie, then be reborn again before i could proceed. and he wasn't that big. freakass whiteboy! EW! the memory makes me wanna light a blunt and read the Bible! OW OW OOOOOO! is all i can say..
  • j
    No Dookie chute! If a nigga fuck ho's in da ass, he's in da closet
  • Killa
    THANK YOU J!!! I agree!!
  • Killa
    Like I said To each thier own...IMO I associate anal sex with homosexuality IMO, So I choose NOT to fuck in the ass like you choose TO try it.
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