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The Real Pajama Party
Posted in Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals on 13. Oct, 2008
A woman is the most beautiful creature ever placed on the earth, maybe this is why men expect women to look like a movie star 24 hours 7 days a week. Yet, after dating for a while something happens, she will put away the sexy night gown and she will put on her inside clothes. The wife beater, old shorts and a scarf. Some may think this Aunt Jemina look isn’t sexual appealing, but I say this is when she is at her best.
I remember the first time things got sexual with my last girlfriend, she was at my apartment and things got heated. We were sitting on my couch watching a movie, when we started kissing, I slipped her out of sexy evening dress, and gave her the best tongue spanking she ever received causing all of the seat cushion on the couch to end up on the floor. We didn’t have sex that night, but we both knew that was about to change.
After our next date, I undressed her and she was wearing this beautiful pink set of lingerie, that just did things to me. She spent the night looking like she was a model in a Victoria Secret’s catalog. Then one night about a month, I was staying over her house after she cooked dinner and she walked out of the bathroom wearing an oversized bleach stained T-shirt, granny panties and mix match socks.
I thought to myself “what happened to my sex VS model?” But, after that night I no longer cared. She was so comfortable with me that she did things to make me blush and wiggle like a worm.
Now I’m not saying that the old bed clothes a woman wears is the key to amazing sex, I’m just trying to say that bed clothes or clothes in general don’t change the woman. A woman possesses an inner beauty that has to be unlocked. Once you get to the inner beauty of a woman, it will out shine the outer beauty. We need to stop expecting our women to wake up looking how Halle when she woke up in Swordfish. Beauty is more than skin deep
What Do You Sleep In?
Depends…………
Normally I am in a gown, usually satin or some boy shorts and wife beater………unless………..
it's those “unattractive” days of the month and it's tshirt and shorts……..
Riddle me this Xilla………..What do YOU sleep in??????????
good morning, as Im still in mine.
It's all about comfort and temperature. Im a big fan of shorts and a tank, just the undies or nothing at all.
Im in a long distance relationship so that allows me to keep things fresh and new. I lose things in the with him anyway.
Although spending this summer with him we stayed at his parents house a few night which I didn't pack for…..
I woke up with nothing on and had to pull from his bag to exit the room for breakfast. fun times
i agree…all us ladies break out the expensive 'good' lingerie for our men for the first few weeks/months…then we usually take it down a few notches once we get comfortable with you…but riddle me this…
You wouldn't like to wake up early Saturday morning and walk in the kitchen to see me cooking you breakfast in a tank and some boyshorts? Tell me that ish aint HOT!
pajama pants and tank top or victoria secret babydolls or teddies(for my baby)
and for my red days…its t-shirts and boxers
Ok…number 1: i love this post! A “guy friend” and I were just talking about this exact thing last night. As for me, I'm the type of person thats “jazzy” any time I step out of my house, whether i'm going on a date or just to the grocery store. But when I'm inside……*whew* thats a whole different thing. There's no one to see me so i throw on whatever. I stay in grannies when I'm at home. lol. Unless I have company or I'm with a guy, there won't be any VS. I might do that the first few times and every now and then, but once I get comfortable….its a wrap. And I've never known a guy to complain about it…besides, those clothes are just gonna come off anyway. so does it really matter? lol
Depends… Some old shorts or if we having sex…. nothing after I nut i dont move unless we doing it again! which we probably would.
Yea I love boyshorts on women! I think that's so sexy! If i walked in on my lady cooking breakfast in some boy shorts I'm going to get an early meal right in the kitchen if youknow what i mean!! lol
I love it when my lady wears one of my shirts because she usually leaves her smell in them! I love it!
Nah It doesn't matter at all! Not to me at least I mean i love to look at the sexiness of panties and bra's but you're right its all coming off in the long run!
HAHAHA red days good one!
It depends on the season…
Summer time, as lil clothing as possible. Wife beater, boxer shorts or boyshorts…sumtimes just a t-shirt…
In the winter, usually sweats and a tshirt
I LOVE wearng my man's shirt or shorts when I can, it smells so good…
lol…yeah i get you. lol…sexual intellectual u are!
It all depends on my mood. . .if I wanna do something special for my man I will break out the lingerie. But he wins anyway cause I sleep nude, unless its that time.
Thanks I still want the VS model…
Amen.
Im wit you xilla, their natural beaut is what really counts. some brothers dont apprecoate it but thats when you know you really dig her. She could just be looking as regular as the day is long but thats your lady.
i love button ups.. yea im a weirdo.. but like i actually go and buy white men's button up shirts and sleep in them.. i dont normally wear underwear or anything to bed.. i heard it was bad for you :/ lol
but yea… theres my contribution
i usually just sleep in a t-shirt and my panties, sometimes a nightgown, occasionally just panties
Triple Amen!
I love how beauty is only skin deep but sometimes a fantasy is a fantasy.
Meaning please wake up like Halle Berry in “Swordfish” and not looking like a swordfish!
I love a old wifebeater and my great grandma's like the next guy but sometimes it is not “ladylike” to wear certain things…
AND it's a reason I subscribed to Victoria Secret catalog.
But “Native” is right. A lady is still YOUR lady in boy shorts or in a evening gown.
Khia said it best in “Be Your Lady”.
5 days out the week, I'm the bleached stain white tee, no panties, mitchmatched sock girl. And my husband still eats me up! Now I do the sexy VS model too, but sometimes, after working 8 hrs a day, 2 in traffic, 1 cooking, who wants to fall asleep with a thong up the azz??
Unfortunately I have the you get what you see mentality. I always wear the sexy undies anyway so when you undress me you'll like what you but When I'm sleeping over I will probably wear one of your shirts, If not I will bring a “frontin shirt” I say its a frontin shirt because we will do the deed and I'll be naked so there is no need for me to pack it “keep face” in front og other housemates I'll bring out the shirt when i'm around the house.
Nada.. nothing. Why wear clothes to bed? Shower, moisturize and get in bed. The only occasion I wear panties, is when aunt flo is in town.
pleasant post.
i used to wear sweats…but i got grilled by one suitor for making him all hot in his sleep (lmao) so i stopped that…now its usually undies and a tee….or a cami and some shorts…NO MORE SWEATS lol…
on one of those special nights i have some exclusive lingerie for my boy toy to peel off of me
Usually naked..When I 1st meet you, its boy shorts only or a thong..But most of the time its naked…