Comments on: Joe Budden’s Myspace Etiquette For Couples

By: klysha

klysha — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 20:25:03 +0000

Okay Joe Budden is lame for feeling like he needs his girls myspace password. Can you say insecure!! If you know you've got your girl you shouldn't care about any random negroes on Myspace. Reading messages that were not intended for you can only lead to future misconceptions and problems. Nothing worse than being in a relationship and having to have fights over nothing because you're with some insecure clown. Joe obviously has no respect for his girls privacy. Which in my book makes him LAME!!!!!

By: Paul

Paul — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 17:45:58 +0000

Even if I was stranded on a deserted island for 5 years, I would NEVER let my girl check my MySpace. Letting my girl check my Space is like letter her see whose numbers I have in my phone.

By: S.W

S.W — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 09:57:41 +0000

When i had one i didnt have a problem with him checking my myspace page, even though i didnt mind he never asked, but he would have found numerous messages “yo ma you mad pretty” that were read but never replied to, and the rest would have been friends spilling their secrets in messages because they didnt want them put on a comment board, party invitations, and me and other homegirls trying to figure out what we were doing and where we were going for the weekend or an afternoon lunch.
Truth be told myspace can break up alot of relationships and spoil MANY friendships. I've had people ask “why am i not on your top” or “Why am i so low on your top friends” Boyfriends jealous of best friends because i always put my best friend first and best friends jealous of boyfriends because he talked me into changing it. Myspace is full of drama thats why i keep my Myspacing to a BARE MINIMUM now-a-days, because i cant deal with the drama.

By: Angel_1

Angel_1 — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 09:28:56 +0000

"I don't have to make this shit up"

Joe Budden makes some good points..

Why you trying to holla at somebody's girl when you have never done 'WordPress"?!?

That's corny.

AND a true etiquette has NOTHING to hide.

That's also very corny.

No problem because Myspace is more of a promotion thing then trying to "holla"

Super corny.

And as much as I love computer slang, sometimes we take it TOO far. "When" should only be spelled "When" ALWAYS! ( ween?!?)

Mad corny.

By: yes

yes — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 08:47:13 +0000

im not giving my password to him and dont want his either, for what? unless im gonna fix his page for him

theres nothing to see...sometimes i get messages from dudes that like me, but if he's my man then he already knows what it is so it shouldnt even concern him

& it doesnt matter what u have on your profile if u are cute some random dude will try to holla, you dont have to be seeking attention or trying to do dirt

if he's upset about that then he has insecurity issues

By: Nixx_01

Nixx_01 — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 04:52:11 +0000

I commend you for being open and honest with your wife about what you are doing. I agree it does make life easier when there are no secrets to hide.

By: MizzJuicY

MizzJuicY — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 04:33:56 +0000

That is soo true.

By: Shayna

Shayna — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 04:03:48 +0000

i would have no problem with giving him my password if he gave me his as well, otherwise he can go kick rocks =]
but nah if a im in a committed relationship with dude, he should trust me enough to know that im not doing anything shady behind his back, and me the same. i mean theres definately going to be people out there trying to eff ish up but as long as neither one of us acts on it all is good.
the main point is that EVERYTHING written online, whether its an email or message 9x out of 10 they are going to sound suggestive and not as innocent as they might actually be.

By: VIChick

VIChick — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 04:00:15 +0000

I agree Valerie, even though you may not be doing anything, what if you get a message from a friend. Even if the message is innocent he is gonna look at it like why you talking to him. And that causes nothing but problems.

By: C.A.S.H.

C.A.S.H. — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 03:39:03 +0000

well me personally, and my relationship, yes. I personally don't have anything to hide, and the fact that nothing is a secret or hidden from my wife makes my life much easier.