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Women Vs Bitches
Posted in Life, Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals on 10. Oct, 2008
Please keep in mind that I use the word b*tch in the form of: Being a random b*tch from the block or a female who a man does not care about other than having sex.
Chivalry is dead and women killed it. With all due respect some of you females are b*tches. They floss around town acting as if their sh*t don’t stink, when the size of their turds are as big as Iron Mike Tyson’s neck in his prime. If this was House Party you are the person who broke the toilet. They problem stems from men who will sleep with anything with a whole between their legs, causing chicken heads to get big headed like babies with down syndrome. They trick off on women to get them to do things they would have done for a number 2 from McDonald’s.
In turn good men get abused, and taken advantage of because this she got spoiled by men who tricked on her to get some booty. Never thinking that the Louie bag on her arm is faker than her hair color and in some cases the hair on her head itself. It corrupts the beautiful soul of not only her true self, but real women everywhere. I’ve come to realize that women don’t want a good man. They don’t want a man whose is going to treat her like a queen, but would rather have a man who will make her chase him. Give her ideas that he’s cheating on her and she can’t get enough of him.
Real women are having a very difficult time finding a good man who wants more than just to have sex with them and get head in the strangest places. The key fundamental in being a sexual intellectual is to be able to try new things with the person you’re involved with and not random people. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have a 3 some if that’s what you and your partner wants to do. There is nothing wrong with wanting to swallow if your lover enjoys the act. The problem stems from b*tches doing these things to every man they meet for a designer bag, VIP access or a full tank of gas… Sometimes less.
It’s guilt by association, when you have women who want to do things, but are scared to be labeled or categorized as one of them b*thces. When did being a stuck up b*tch become acceptable?
I agree! Some of my high school friends started having sex wayy too early! For most of them 7th or 8th grade, and although they were my age, I'm thinking “WHAT?? We're really only kids!! Are you serious??” And today, it's only getting worse….
I agree! Some of my high school friends started having sex wayy too early! For most of them 7th or 8th grade, and although they were my age, I'm thinking “WHAT?? We're really only kids!! Are you serious??” And today, it's only getting worse….
As a single woman handling my own business, I get upset at a lot of my female counterparts that feel it is acceptable to give head and fugg for a hair do, light bill or whatever the object may be. I had my time as a child and I acted as a child, but as a grown azz woman I had to put those behaviors away and be responsible for my actions. Not that this is the answer, but I keep myself to myself until I find someone who is seemingly worthy of me. U don't fugg cause you took me out to eat , I can do that for myself. I have a homegirl right now that is 28 and will suck and fu*k for a meal at applebee's. Women need to realize that we teach men how to treat us and as Xilla said, when a person shows you who you are believe them. It's Itches that mess it up for us real women, but us real women need to be able to recognize when a real azz nugga come into our lives and give him the respect he deserves for being such.
As a single woman handling my own business, I get upset at a lot of my female counterparts that feel it is acceptable to give head and fugg for a hair do, light bill or whatever the object may be. I had my time as a child and I acted as a child, but as a grown azz woman I had to put those behaviors away and be responsible for my actions. Not that this is the answer, but I keep myself to myself until I find someone who is seemingly worthy of me. U don't fugg cause you took me out to eat , I can do that for myself. I have a homegirl right now that is 28 and will suck and fu*k for a meal at applebee's. Women need to realize that we teach men how to treat us and as Xilla said, when a person shows you who you are believe them. It's Itches that mess it up for us real women, but us real women need to be able to recognize when a real azz nugga come into our lives and give him the respect he deserves for being such.
i dont think Chivalry is dead – look at me
i dont think Chivalry is dead – look at me
Xilla, this is a great post.
It's hard for a regular square like me (yes I said square) who works hard and has no kids to find a good man because men rather deal with b-tches. At some point, I have been called “stuck up” and “high maintenance” and it was all because of how I carried myself. I don't own LV or Prada or Gucci, but because I carry myself with class, that automatically means stuck up? I don't ask for a man to get my hair or nails done, or for him to pay bills.
As far as wanting to try freaky things with your man and worried about being labeled, I think we need to be comfortable with our sexuality and stop dealing with “boys”. Because “boys” will label you and worry about where you learned that freaky move from.
Xilla, this is a great post.
It's hard for a regular square like me (yes I said square) who works hard and has no kids to find a good man because men rather deal with b-tches. At some point, I have been called “stuck up” and “high maintenance” and it was all because of how I carried myself. I don't own LV or Prada or Gucci, but because I carry myself with class, that automatically means stuck up? I don't ask for a man to get my hair or nails done, or for him to pay bills.
As far as wanting to try freaky things with your man and worried about being labeled, I think we need to be comfortable with our sexuality and stop dealing with “boys”. Because “boys” will label you and worry about where you learned that freaky move from.
Mornin!
I feel that it is not only the bitches who make it hard for women but it is also the men who PREFER the bitches. Here in Atlanta everybody knows the ratio is 17:1 women to men, and within the 17 I would guess 85% are bitches. Leaving the remaining 15% to battle with these clowns for some respect. Grant it, it is a recession and it is slim pickins I get it, but GOTDAMN, it's hard out here. Like Xilla stated in a recent post “the price of pussy has plummeted” lmao and it has. I can tell by the way men approach women now. There is no introduction just, “gimmie yo number” or “here go my number”. Nigga naw, I don't even have a jus to make a rational decision as to whether or not I wanna speak with you again……….EVER!!!
The bitches think they stars, wanna get next to stars, and fuck stars……………A woman knows that she doesn't need any additional “accessory” to shine.
Mornin!
I feel that it is not only the bitches who make it hard for women but it is also the men who PREFER the bitches. Here in Atlanta everybody knows the ratio is 17:1 women to men, and within the 17 I would guess 85% are bitches. Leaving the remaining 15% to battle with these clowns for some respect. Grant it, it is a recession and it is slim pickins I get it, but GOTDAMN, it's hard out here. Like Xilla stated in a recent post “the price of pussy has plummeted” lmao and it has. I can tell by the way men approach women now. There is no introduction just, “gimmie yo number” or “here go my number”. Nigga naw, I don't even have a jus to make a rational decision as to whether or not I wanna speak with you again……….EVER!!!
The bitches think they stars, wanna get next to stars, and fuck stars……………A woman knows that she doesn't need any additional “accessory” to shine.
On Point
On Point
as many women have stated on here, its hard out here for real women. i was dating a guy off and on for five years. he was a hustla. i left him because i was tired off the door being kicked in, gun shots all time of night and different itches talking to him. He had the audacity to call me a triflin hoe. I dont think i was wrong for leaving him. Everytime he get on, some scallywag come along and gets his attention and he dont want to be with me. he often blames it on me being in college. then when he aint on he wanna be all in my face. its not the fact that he got money that i am with him, i was with him when he didnt have a pot to piss in. but im a hoe because i am tired of putting up with the itches sucking and f*cking for a ride. Real women have it hard out especially the ones handling it on their own.
as many women have stated on here, its hard out here for real women. i was dating a guy off and on for five years. he was a hustla. i left him because i was tired off the door being kicked in, gun shots all time of night and different itches talking to him. He had the audacity to call me a triflin hoe. I dont think i was wrong for leaving him. Everytime he get on, some scallywag come along and gets his attention and he dont want to be with me. he often blames it on me being in college. then when he aint on he wanna be all in my face. its not the fact that he got money that i am with him, i was with him when he didnt have a pot to piss in. but im a hoe because i am tired of putting up with the itches sucking and f*cking for a ride. Real women have it hard out especially the ones handling it on their own.
Good article and 100% true, blame it on the BET and VH1 era and the moms who had no parental skills and raised these b*tches to be the same thing. unfortunately society has gone to hell, these b*tches have no morals or self love and respect, they are beyond pathetic and do make it bad for real women out here, we can't blame the men, we allow them to dog and use us then the good guys pay for that. there is a book by Akil called Goddess Black Woman, Mother of Civilization. should be mandatory reading also Marcus Garvey. sometimes I really wish we had a drop squad for most of these brain dead zombi black folks. I just pray for them and keep it moving, you ain't gonna save everybody.
Good article and 100% true, blame it on the BET and VH1 era and the moms who had no parental skills and raised these b*tches to be the same thing. unfortunately society has gone to hell, these b*tches have no morals or self love and respect, they are beyond pathetic and do make it bad for real women out here, we can't blame the men, we allow them to dog and use us then the good guys pay for that. there is a book by Akil called Goddess Black Woman, Mother of Civilization. should be mandatory reading also Marcus Garvey. sometimes I really wish we had a drop squad for most of these brain dead zombi black folks. I just pray for them and keep it moving, you ain't gonna save everybody.
LMAO…OTFR!!! Don't you sleep with a married man and announce it like it's something you're proud of?? And don't you feel it's ok to have or be a side piece? So which one are you??
I'm just sayin'…
LMAO…OTFR!!! Don't you sleep with a married man and announce it like it's something you're proud of?? And don't you feel it's ok to have or be a side piece? So which one are you??
I'm just sayin'…
I do sleep with a married man…….. and quite well actually.
And yes, if you want to sleep with someone outside of your relationship, I don't give a shit, do you.
And why you so angry?????
I do sleep with a married man…….. and quite well actually.
And yes, if you want to sleep with someone outside of your relationship, I don't give a shit, do you.
And why you so angry?????
I caught up with an old friend from school via myspace. And the majority of her pics were of her high with a kid not a few feet away from her. One of the captions read on her daughters pic read “break them pockets girl” meaning she is teaching her daughter to be like her, and try to get any and everything they can from a man and it's so sad. She has about 4 kids from different guys and she is 26. A lot of these women were raised this way. Single mom, who is all about partying, drinking and going to the club. Children growing up, look up to their parents and want to be like them. Asking men for money and things is something I have never been comfortable with and I've been with my guy for 10 years now. But back to the point, girls that are hardcore in trying to get everything they can from a man, don't even know better half the time b/c that's all they saw growing up or that is all they were around.
I caught up with an old friend from school via myspace. And the majority of her pics were of her high with a kid not a few feet away from her. One of the captions read on her daughters pic read “break them pockets girl” meaning she is teaching her daughter to be like her, and try to get any and everything they can from a man and it's so sad. She has about 4 kids from different guys and she is 26. A lot of these women were raised this way. Single mom, who is all about partying, drinking and going to the club. Children growing up, look up to their parents and want to be like them. Asking men for money and things is something I have never been comfortable with and I've been with my guy for 10 years now. But back to the point, girls that are hardcore in trying to get everything they can from a man, don't even know better half the time b/c that's all they saw growing up or that is all they were around.
I'm sorry, but the way I see it, you get what your looking for, or paying for, or however you'd like to put it. I have no symapthy for a chick who's talking about being a real woman, but your dating a hustla? Who does this? Give me a break. This is why things are the way they are. Hustlas rule the world… At least “our” (black folks) world anyway.
Riddle me this: I'm a black male, just hitting 30, business owner, well established, mature, college educated on the graduate level, and by all accounts I'm a good looking, muscular, 6'4 guy…
I can't find a chick to compliment me to save my life…
I'm in Miami and all the chicks I've run into basically meet me for my looks, talk to me based on potential, and then fade away because I don't have golds in my mouth, I don't care to put 24's on my ride, and I don't have some stank ass dreads looking like Lil Wayne… I'm sorry, I have no sympathy for sistas now-a-days. Most of them would'nt know a good man if he walked up to them and spit in their eye…
I'm sorry, but the way I see it, you get what your looking for, or paying for, or however you'd like to put it. I have no symapthy for a chick who's talking about being a real woman, but your dating a hustla? Who does this? Give me a break. This is why things are the way they are. Hustlas rule the world… At least “our” (black folks) world anyway.
Riddle me this: I'm a black male, just hitting 30, business owner, well established, mature, college educated on the graduate level, and by all accounts I'm a good looking, muscular, 6'4 guy…
I can't find a chick to compliment me to save my life…
I'm in Miami and all the chicks I've run into basically meet me for my looks, talk to me based on potential, and then fade away because I don't have golds in my mouth, I don't care to put 24's on my ride, and I don't have some stank ass dreads looking like Lil Wayne… I'm sorry, I have no sympathy for sistas now-a-days. Most of them would'nt know a good man if he walked up to them and spit in their eye…
If you notice I started the comment laughing, I actually find you quite entertaining I'm pretty much guaranteed a good laugh. Not angry at all Boo Boo… I was really looking for some clarification since I found it an oxymoron for you to be commenting on a post about women and bitches, considering your moral standing is questionable since you find it acceptable and seem to be quite proud of the fact you sleep with married men, I was actually curious as to which of the two you consider yourself.
And it does become an issue for WOMEN when bitches sleep around with WOMEN'S husbands or significant others with no regard for that WOMAN.
If you notice I started the comment laughing, I actually find you quite entertaining I'm pretty much guaranteed a good laugh. Not angry at all Boo Boo… I was really looking for some clarification since I found it an oxymoron for you to be commenting on a post about women and bitches, considering your moral standing is questionable since you find it acceptable and seem to be quite proud of the fact you sleep with married men, I was actually curious as to which of the two you consider yourself.
And it does become an issue for WOMEN when bitches sleep around with WOMEN'S husbands or significant others with no regard for that WOMAN.
AAAAAWWWWWW POOR THING………………………
You have nothing better to do than judge strangers on a blog?
The name calling is juvenile & I don't get offended easily, so if your goal is to get a rise outta me, you're going to have to come a lil bit harder………………..Go get some business……………
AAAAAWWWWWW POOR THING………………………
You have nothing better to do than judge strangers on a blog?
The name calling is juvenile & I don't get offended easily, so if your goal is to get a rise outta me, you're going to have to come a lil bit harder………………..Go get some business……………
Once again…LMAO, Nope why would I try to get a rise out of someone on a computer, and??? I made an observation and was just asking you a question you haven't answered yet.
And please read again where did I call you a name??
Once again…LMAO, Nope why would I try to get a rise out of someone on a computer, and??? I made an observation and was just asking you a question you haven't answered yet.
And please read again where did I call you a name??
Late addition to this post, but I have to say I can agree to some points in this post maybe most but I can't get behind some of these comments because I am an educated woman on the graduate level I am very independent can't say I'm one of the chicks that has to have a man but I have been considered “easy” back in the day and sometimes even now depends on how I feel but I don't do it for the status or what a man can give me sometimes I just want to be the one who controls the situation it makes me feel empowered in a way just to know that I'll probably fuck you and never call but I understand that karma will probably come back to me on the things that I have done past and present but I can honestly say I tried, when I first started dating, to be that great woman, that woman who did anything for her man but being that I started in college and most college guys don't feel the need for relationships when its being tossed at them in every direction I was taken for granted and cheated on so after being naive for a period I time I learned from it and stopped being stupid. I can't say that I've met a good man there was one that I thought was great but turned out to be a manipulative bastard who also cheated but lied about it until I just said fuck it maybe its the guys I'm attracted to or maybe its me and how it takes me a while to open up and most guys aren't patient in that aspect… and my last guy before i decided to lock up the cookie jar was a lying bastard so yeah … no good guy for me so I don't know would you still consider me a bitch.
Late addition to this post, but I have to say I can agree to some points in this post maybe most but I can't get behind some of these comments because I am an educated woman on the graduate level I am very independent can't say I'm one of the chicks that has to have a man but I have been considered “easy” back in the day and sometimes even now depends on how I feel but I don't do it for the status or what a man can give me sometimes I just want to be the one who controls the situation it makes me feel empowered in a way just to know that I'll probably fuck you and never call but I understand that karma will probably come back to me on the things that I have done past and present but I can honestly say I tried, when I first started dating, to be that great woman, that woman who did anything for her man but being that I started in college and most college guys don't feel the need for relationships when its being tossed at them in every direction I was taken for granted and cheated on so after being naive for a period I time I learned from it and stopped being stupid. I can't say that I've met a good man there was one that I thought was great but turned out to be a manipulative bastard who also cheated but lied about it until I just said fuck it maybe its the guys I'm attracted to or maybe its me and how it takes me a while to open up and most guys aren't patient in that aspect… and my last guy before i decided to lock up the cookie jar was a lying bastard so yeah … no good guy for me so I don't know would you still consider me a bitch.