Comments on: Love No Longer Exist http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sun, 22 Nov 2009 09:41:04 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: Tron http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10874 Tron Mon, 13 Oct 2008 07:54:19 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10874 I believe in "love", but not being "in love with someone." Love does exist but not the type of love that people want in relationships. I love alot of things and alot of people: My mother, my son, myself, my car, my music, etc. To me, that's true love. As far as relationships go, I think that people fall in love with what a person does for them rather who the person is. I believe in “love”, but not being “in love with someone.” Love does exist but not the type of love that people want in relationships. I love alot of things and alot of people: My mother, my son, myself, my car, my music, etc. To me, that's true love. As far as relationships go, I think that people fall in love with what a person does for them rather who the person is.

]]> By: Jazzie_B15 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10873 Jazzie_B15 Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:19:23 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10873 Love do still exist in the black community! As a race of people we just don't know how to communicate with one another with our feelings. Love is a very strong word that is used so freely that we don't think about the pain it could cause to another person in the long run. Love is patients and unfortunate we don't learn that until we get older or many lost lovers later. Some of our parents wasn't taught that and some of the were. Some that were just lost it allow the way when they were hurt by the ones that wasn't taught the meaning of love. My first love was my bestfriend and it hurts to know that I will never love like that again because he is gone but the love, pain, and fond memories are still within. Love do still exist in the black community! As a race of people we just don't know how to communicate with one another with our feelings. Love is a very strong word that is used so freely that we don't think about the pain it could cause to another person in the long run. Love is patients and unfortunate we don't learn that until we get older or many lost lovers later. Some of our parents wasn't taught that and some of the were. Some that were just lost it allow the way when they were hurt by the ones that wasn't taught the meaning of love. My first love was my bestfriend and it hurts to know that I will never love like that again because he is gone but the love, pain, and fond memories are still within.

]]> By: lethaschild http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10869 lethaschild Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:00:27 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10869 Actually Meat Eater I agree with you somewhat. If you truly loved that person, when you break up and go your seperate ways, it should just be that. Sometimes people forget though that the opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. People think that the only way to get over someone is to be mean to that person or say they can't stand them. They mistakenly believe that this will give them the "thing" they need to move on. If you just remember that you love that person even though you're no longer in love, then you can move on. Hating them just shows that you are still emotionally tied to them. If you wanna prove you're over them, leave it alone. Actually Meat Eater I agree with you somewhat. If you truly loved that person, when you break up and go your seperate ways, it should just be that. Sometimes people forget though that the opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. People think that the only way to get over someone is to be mean to that person or say they can't stand them. They mistakenly believe that this will give them the “thing” they need to move on. If you just remember that you love that person even though you're no longer in love, then you can move on. Hating them just shows that you are still emotionally tied to them. If you wanna prove you're over them, leave it alone.

]]> By: lethaschild http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10872 lethaschild Sat, 11 Oct 2008 03:54:43 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10872 As I hear your longing, I feel your pain. Loveis kind of like that. The more you want it, the further away it seems to be. But I can tell you from personal experience that when I finally found real love, it was when I stopped looking for it. Keep your eyes closed, keep learning her. Don't expect her to be perfect, just perfect for you. Once you do that and open your eyes, she'll be standing right in front of you. As I hear your longing, I feel your pain. Loveis kind of like that. The more you want it, the further away it seems to be. But I can tell you from personal experience that when I finally found real love, it was when I stopped looking for it. Keep your eyes closed, keep learning her. Don't expect her to be perfect, just perfect for you. Once you do that and open your eyes, she'll be standing right in front of you.

]]> By: K http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10871 K Sat, 11 Oct 2008 01:45:27 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10871 Honestly, I would love to be in love. It does exist, and one day when someone is willing to give me, everything that I want to give them, it will work out. There is nothing I don't want more, than to have a man to take care of, and have him care for me in return. It'll be hard to find but there are still good and genuine loving people in the world. Honestly, I would love to be in love. It does exist, and one day when someone is willing to give me, everything that I want to give them, it will work out. There is nothing I don't want more, than to have a man to take care of, and have him care for me in return. It'll be hard to find but there are still good and genuine loving people in the world.

]]> By: Trinity Scott http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10859 Trinity Scott Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:16:22 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10859 Preach on girl!!! Preach on girl!!!

]]> By: Trinity Scott http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10870 Trinity Scott Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:12:16 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10870 I believe that love does exist but people have a tendency to define love through material value. People nowadays are afraid to love because of the misconceptions that have be given in society. I think there is someone out there for evryone if you "look" hard enough. But a person has to be cautious because there are people out here that will take advantage. When you let that wall down and let love in it can be the most inspiring thing in the world. You just have to make sure you are not wasting it on the wrong person. Even if you have been hurt by someone that doesn't give you a reason to lock away your heart and your feelings for the rest of your life. If you do that can you honestly imagine meeting new people for the next couple decades and not having one bit of foundation or feelings for any of them? Thats sad.<br><br>I just think that in the african american community it is harder to find someone of quality because of the images that are put out there from today's mainstream and hip hop media. This genre is so caught up in nice clothes, nice cars and fat asses so now most men and women do not take the time to get to know each other like our previous generations. Hopefully we can get back on track. True love is out there but you have to weed out the foolishness to get to it. I believe that love does exist but people have a tendency to define love through material value. People nowadays are afraid to love because of the misconceptions that have be given in society. I think there is someone out there for evryone if you “look” hard enough. But a person has to be cautious because there are people out here that will take advantage. When you let that wall down and let love in it can be the most inspiring thing in the world. You just have to make sure you are not wasting it on the wrong person. Even if you have been hurt by someone that doesn't give you a reason to lock away your heart and your feelings for the rest of your life. If you do that can you honestly imagine meeting new people for the next couple decades and not having one bit of foundation or feelings for any of them? Thats sad.

I just think that in the african american community it is harder to find someone of quality because of the images that are put out there from today's mainstream and hip hop media. This genre is so caught up in nice clothes, nice cars and fat asses so now most men and women do not take the time to get to know each other like our previous generations. Hopefully we can get back on track. True love is out there but you have to weed out the foolishness to get to it.

]]> By: kingsmomma http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10868 kingsmomma Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:08:32 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10868 Or that person just hurt you so badly Or that person just hurt you so badly

]]> By: kingsmomma http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10867 kingsmomma Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:07:21 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10867 I think that is denial. You never stop loving them. You go on living like you're incomplete. People who say they can't stand the person really mean thet can't stand that they aren't in thier lives anymore. Love just doesn't go away like that. I think that is denial. You never stop loving them. You go on living like you're incomplete. People who say they can't stand the person really mean thet can't stand that they aren't in thier lives anymore. Love just doesn't go away like that.

]]> By: VIChick http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/comment-page-1/#comment-10866 VIChick Fri, 10 Oct 2008 22:46:12 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/09/love-no-longer-exist/#comment-10866 I can never understand when people who say their in love and then when their over they can't stand the person. If that is the case then in my opinion you were never in love. I have been in love 2x in my life, and even though they may have been bad break-ups I still love them, but not in love with them. I can never hate or despise them. We tried something that never worked, cool. I am glad that they made way for the right man to come into my life, even though it hurt when both relationships ended I wouldn't change a thing. I learned alot. I can never understand when people who say their in love and then when their over they can't stand the person. If that is the case then in my opinion you were never in love. I have been in love 2x in my life, and even though they may have been bad break-ups I still love them, but not in love with them. I can never hate or despise them. We tried something that never worked, cool. I am glad that they made way for the right man to come into my life, even though it hurt when both relationships ended I wouldn't change a thing. I learned alot.

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