Comments on: Guess What? I Banged Your Boo

By: just_passin_by

just_passin_by — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 19:40:03 +0000

Secret sex is the best sex indeed! But...never with the man of somebody I consider my friend. That's off limits. Even if I had a slight crush on him or whatever. The minute he becomes involved with my friend is the moment the crush will be over ABRUPTLY.
But I do have a crush on this dude that has a girl. And I have to admit that I don't know if I'll be strong enough to resist temptation if he makes a pass at me. I don't know his girl, so....
I know I sound like a hypocrite, but dude's got me crushing over his ass for 3 yrs now.

I did almost sleep with a friend of mine, but I couldn't do it, because he had a girl. And eventhough I didn't really know her, I just couldn't bring myself to do it. We were kissing and things really started getting hot and heavy, but I just had to walk away from it. The kissing and everything felt good, but I didn't want to feel the guilt the next time I saw him with his girl.
And besides, I know how shitty I felt when it was done to me. A girl I used to call my friend slept with my then boyfriend. And it felt awful. I can't imagine putting someone I love through that.

By: philly gurl made in 88

philly gurl made in 88 — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 23:46:18 +0000

I BELIVE ALL DUDES THAT UR FRIEND LIKED B4, HAD A REALTIONSHIP WITH OR EVEN IF THE DUDE LIKE UR FRIEND IS OFF LIMITS… ITS JUST A TOUCHY SUBJECT… WOMEN ARE TERRORTORIAL. I KNOW I AM VERY SO IF I LIKED A BOY B4 OR IF WE WENT TOGETHER NONE OF MY FRIENDS BETTER NOT EVEN LOOK AT HIM AND I WOULD NEVER LOOK AT THE OTHER IF I WAS ON A DIFFRENT SIDE OF THE PICTURE. ONCE IT WAS THIS GUY THAT LIKED MY TWIN SISTER BUT I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM. MY SISTER DIDNT LIKE HIM THOUGH AND I WAS MADLY IN LOVE WITH THIS DUDE. BUT FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT HE LIKED HER AND THEY COULD HAVE POSSIBLY HAD SOMETHING GOING ON I NEVER SAID NOTHIN.. I WAS SUFFERING CAUSE HE WOULD COME AROUND AND WE WERE FRIENDS BUT I LIKED HIM. I TOLD MY SISTER LATER BUT I KNOW I COULD NEVER BE WITH HIM. I STILL GOT A LITTLE CRUSH ON HIM TO THIS DAY. BUT SOME THINGS ARE NEVE MENT TO BE.

By: IFavorMe

IFavorMe — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 23:20:26 +0000

Oh yes, there are definately 2 sides to this coin...the man side, and the woman side. men really don't trip...woman, on the other hand, will draw blood! for years i always said that i could never sleep with, or even date someone for that matter, that one of my friends used to be with. then one day, i found myself in that very situation that i had always avoided. my current bf and i share some mutal friends and one of them happened to be one of my closest friends from high school. all throughout hs, they "kicked it," slept together, etc, etc. but he was always her side piece. for 2 years, she cheated on her bf with him. so, i went away to college, came back and we all started hangning out again. then things began to sour between me and my female friend, but me and our guy friend remained cool, and even began getting closer. one day, he told me that he saw me as more then a friend and had developed feelings for me once we started spending more time together. by this time, my relationship with our female friend was pretty much out the window (even tho we had been friends for years, she had constantly abused our friendship, and had not only done some f'd up stuff to me, but to my family too, and thats where i draw the line!)

Once he told me how he felt, I confesed that I felt the same, but never allowed myself to act on it because of the history that he had with our friend. we thought about it long and hard, and talked to a few people about what we should do, and if we would be wrong for deciding to be together. no one seemed to have a problem with it. we planned to tell our friend, together, about us. by the time we decided to tell her, our friendship was over. i felt bad for telling her, but those who are to close to us said that we don't have any reason to feel bad because he was never anything to her other then a side dish and that u can't help how you feel about someone.

to this day, I'm not sure if she knows or not, but we both live in the same city and still communicate with some of our same friends, so i'm sure she does. she's even seen us out together, but she didn't speak. i'm not sure if this would fall under the umbrella of this post, but idk. what do u think?

By: richkid

richkid — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:51:14 +0000

I had a situation a couple of years ago, i was dealing with this young lady out of my neighborhood. She always said that she was dealing with someone but not that serious so i didn't care who this dude was. Come to find out when i'm at her house one day i see a pic of this guy on her dresser and when i looked closer it was my little man from around the way. None the less i still tapped it but i never let her know i knew him. I didn't want her telling him out of spite if they ever got into a arguement, and i didn't tell him cause he would have been heart broken because i've heard him speaking on older dudes taking them young girls(legal age) away from the younger dudes.

By: Starr

Starr — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:36:42 +0000

Loyalty to your REAL friends. I agree. REAL friends don't do things like sleep with each other's swag behind backs. If there is any interest of some sort, REAL friends do ask just out of consideration for the other person's feelings. But just to up and be like 'oh yeah I'm gon' hit that one!” I know of plenty of ASSOCIATES who would jump at the chance because to them, ain't nothing to do it but to do it. But in the end, what will they have accomplished? A hit on some other chicks meat? Bragging rights? What's the real purpose? In situations like that, don't even worry about revenge. I like to think, “Hi my name is Karma. Yes I'm that b*tch” Oh cause you WILL get yours!

By: kyas_mami

kyas_mami — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:15:53 +0000

If you feel like you have to sneak to do it in the first place
chances are you already know or have a pretty good idea of how the person you are hdidng it from will react once they find out
so, avoid apolo-LYIN' and just keep it to yourself.

By: Ness

Ness — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:41:14 +0000

I've never f*cked around w/ any of my home girls boyfriends b/c all that is off limits. But to one female that i knew, that wasn't how she felt. a few yrs into our friendship I realized she was a bunny and would do anyone with a pulse and I ended our friendship b/c I don't roll like that.

But men can share women no problem for some reason, and I'm guessing b/c they're not an emotional rollercoaster like women.

I do admit that if I deal w/someone and I feel like he's not for me but would work w/ someone I know then i'll try to plug that situation for them to link up. It doesn't happen often but it has happened.

Secret sex is fun, but one time, my secret sex ended up being a triple secret sex, come to find out dude was messing w/ two other friends of mine and of course we were all having secret sex w/ him lol. when we all discovered what went down we laughed at it b/c it wasn't anyone's man.

By: ANuJS

ANuJS — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:29:43 +0000

I agree. This is how I no chicks are ruthless. Back in the day, I was that chick that u kept ur man from b/c if I wanted to *uck him, I would. Point blank. This is why everyone is so shocked at me now, ppl change right? My true friends, I would never consider doing this to (except that one time and I was real young). I also know from experience that no matter how much food you feed your man and no matter how great it was….nevermind you feed that nigg* dessert TWICE…he will still stop by another chicks house to eat. He'll stop by not only b/c he's greedy, but b/c the menu is different.

By: Ness

Ness — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:29:33 +0000

@ JustStep u do have a point. I learned a long time ago to keep that type of info to myself. Women like to challenge your bond or ur relationship.

By: BlogXilla

BlogXilla — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:26:22 +0000

Should be but to some people they are not! it's weird though but hey to each its own. I have many stories to tell about my friends and exes…