Comments on: The Opposite Of Moderate http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/ The Premiere Urban Relationship Blog Online Sun, 08 Nov 2009 10:39:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.1 hourly 1 By: ChuckT http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8344 ChuckT Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:11:20 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8344 yo kinda off topic but i read atlas shrugged in HS and there are a lot of similiarities between whats goin on now and what happened in the book. that book and the fountainhead had a huge impact on my grind. good luck man yo kinda off topic but i read atlas shrugged in HS and there are a lot of similiarities between whats goin on now and what happened in the book. that book and the fountainhead had a huge impact on my grind. good luck man

]]> By: jo http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8343 jo Wed, 01 Oct 2008 23:03:33 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8343 Xilla, I've enjoyed you so much over the years. Your thoughts and opinions on different topics have challenged my ways of thinking. You have caused some many GREAT conversations to happen amongst my friends. Thank you. You've shared so much of yourself with us which is something I don't see myself doing. I wish you the best in all that you do and I hope you know that we are always here to hold you up. (I know Im not alone in saying that!) Xilla, I've enjoyed you so much over the years. Your thoughts and opinions on different topics have challenged my ways of thinking. You have caused some many GREAT conversations to happen amongst my friends. Thank you. You've shared so much of yourself with us which is something I don't see myself doing. I wish you the best in all that you do and I hope you know that we are always here to hold you up. (I know Im not alone in saying that!)

]]> By: BlogXilla http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8342 BlogXilla Wed, 01 Oct 2008 21:14:03 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8342 hey ladies... Neither one of you want to beef and internet argue with each other so let end this! Ttime I love you, for checking me. Miaz you know how we do!! So let's not bring this back to 06 out this piece. I got something special coming for all of y'all i'm writing it now! hey ladies… Neither one of you want to beef and internet argue with each other so let end this! Ttime I love you, for checking me. Miaz you know how we do!! So let's not bring this back to 06 out this piece. I got something special coming for all of y'all i'm writing it now!

]]> By: Ttime http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8341 Ttime Wed, 01 Oct 2008 21:11:16 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8341 I'm already in tears.................from a comment posted on a blog, by a person that I've never met! I'm already in tears……………..from a comment posted on a blog, by a person that I've never met!

]]> By: MiazFinest http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8340 MiazFinest Wed, 01 Oct 2008 21:07:21 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8340 Ttime, u must be a new reader who discovered Xilla a few months ago. Take it from someone who has been a reader of his for years, I should let u know that startin shit is not the way Xilla does things. If u're lookin for an e-beef, go on concrete loop or Sandra Rose. But starting shit with me will leave u in tears. So I suggest that u find another playmate because I am not the one....... Great post, Xilla! Never stop goin after ur dreams Ttime, u must be a new reader who discovered Xilla a few months ago. Take it from someone who has been a reader of his for years, I should let u know that startin shit is not the way Xilla does things. If u're lookin for an e-beef, go on concrete loop or Sandra Rose. But starting shit with me will leave u in tears. So I suggest that u find another playmate because I am not the one……. Great post, Xilla! Never stop goin after ur dreams

]]> By: ANuJS http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8339 ANuJS Wed, 01 Oct 2008 20:45:55 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8339 Beautiful poem! Reflection........ Beautiful poem! Reflection……..

]]> By: ANuJS http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8330 ANuJS Wed, 01 Oct 2008 20:41:37 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8330 "You know why a lot of dreams fail? because people stop pursuing them." This is my problem right now. Had the door (I thought I should go through) slammed and I am sitting (pissed of), but just sitting none the less. Sometimes when your dreams fail, it gets hard to keep dreaming. Especially, when they don't seem possible. You get complacent and accept status quo. And guess what, I don't even have xilla sized dreams (mine are a lot smaller). SIgh. “You know why a lot of dreams fail? because people stop pursuing them.” This is my problem right now. Had the door (I thought I should go through) slammed and I am sitting (pissed of), but just sitting none the less. Sometimes when your dreams fail, it gets hard to keep dreaming. Especially, when they don't seem possible. You get complacent and accept status quo. And guess what, I don't even have xilla sized dreams (mine are a lot smaller). SIgh.

]]> By: trw http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8338 trw Wed, 01 Oct 2008 20:33:19 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8338 I have been reading your blog for a little over five months.. I love your play on words and how you intermingle the everyday emotions and happenings in life with the what ifs and what can be..<br>I can understand exactly what you are saying and the transitional phase that you have entered with the light popping on like "okay.. I am going to go ahead and live life now" so to say.. no you can't be everything to everybody and I have figured that out over the past few years and have taken control of my life by telling others "NO" I sure can't do that.. people will try and use you as a crutch to the point where you allow them to and are investing nothing in the future plight of you or your seed. Xilla the best thing you can do is you.. can't anyone do it better.. so just do you boo.. and as far as that someone in your life.. all this talk about marriage, love and the future.. I wish you the best but know that someone will cross your path to make you realign yourself with the stars and chase the fullness of the moon.. so cheers to when it happens! <br>here is a poem I wrote sometime ago when I swore I was in love.. so here is everyone finding someone who makes them feel like this.. <br><br>Why<br>I love you for bringing out the best in me<br>Making my smiles explode with rays of sunshine<br>Showering my days with sheer deliciousness<br>Oh how I sing 'dose songs of bliss <br>in the hours only bed bugs bite<br>My cup overflows with satisfaction <br>as you leave me drowsy in a dazed-state-of-mind<br>I hear my heart slow down as my nappy head<br>saturates the cotton twill pillowcase<br>Exhaustion rides my spine <br>causing momentary paralyzation<br>I breathe deep to regain my composure, <br>but one gaze of those soothing brown eyes<br>My high soars like the wind of a brisk Autumn breeze<br>Stimulation of the mind of a man<br>Consolation in the arms of strength<br>Persuasion of the presence of a friend<br>You are all 360 degrees of a man <br>TRW I have been reading your blog for a little over five months.. I love your play on words and how you intermingle the everyday emotions and happenings in life with the what ifs and what can be..
I can understand exactly what you are saying and the transitional phase that you have entered with the light popping on like “okay.. I am going to go ahead and live life now” so to say.. no you can't be everything to everybody and I have figured that out over the past few years and have taken control of my life by telling others “NO” I sure can't do that.. people will try and use you as a crutch to the point where you allow them to and are investing nothing in the future plight of you or your seed. Xilla the best thing you can do is you.. can't anyone do it better.. so just do you boo.. and as far as that someone in your life.. all this talk about marriage, love and the future.. I wish you the best but know that someone will cross your path to make you realign yourself with the stars and chase the fullness of the moon.. so cheers to when it happens!
here is a poem I wrote sometime ago when I swore I was in love.. so here is everyone finding someone who makes them feel like this..

Why
I love you for bringing out the best in me
Making my smiles explode with rays of sunshine
Showering my days with sheer deliciousness
Oh how I sing 'dose songs of bliss
in the hours only bed bugs bite
My cup overflows with satisfaction
as you leave me drowsy in a dazed-state-of-mind
I hear my heart slow down as my nappy head
saturates the cotton twill pillowcase
Exhaustion rides my spine
causing momentary paralyzation
I breathe deep to regain my composure,
but one gaze of those soothing brown eyes
My high soars like the wind of a brisk Autumn breeze
Stimulation of the mind of a man
Consolation in the arms of strength
Persuasion of the presence of a friend
You are all 360 degrees of a man
TRW

]]> By: VIChick http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8337 VIChick Wed, 01 Oct 2008 20:04:58 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8337 I don't think it's that serious. If you talking to Xilla, then you talking to Xilla. This is a peaceful post, reflecting on life and placement. I don't think it's that serious. If you talking to Xilla, then you talking to Xilla. This is a peaceful post, reflecting on life and placement.

]]> By: Ttime http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/comment-page-1/#comment-8336 Ttime Wed, 01 Oct 2008 19:52:24 +0000 http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/10/01/the-opposite-of-moderate/#comment-8336 There was a post called, "Ask Me Any Question"...I asked "do you ever want to be married" to which, if I recall correctly--I could be wrong----Xilla responded, "No, don't want to be married, but to find someone to spend my life with" (something to that affect). I could be wrong about the exact response, so Xilla just clarified it ---which was the PURPOSE of the question asked to XILLA, not you.<br><br>I, personally, don't see how asking a question about, what I percieved to be double talk, negative. The question was asked and answered. Also, it was based on a previous interaction with Xilla, which proves that I am a fan. If you are SO ABOVE my negativity, why not be TOTALLY ABOVE it and ignore my question---that was not directed at you in the first place. Your "sun should be shining so brightly" that it blinds your eyes from reading my question, that was---and I reiterate--- directed at Xilla and not you! Ever been told to mind your business? There was a post called, “Ask Me Any Question”…I asked “do you ever want to be married” to which, if I recall correctly–I could be wrong—-Xilla responded, “No, don't want to be married, but to find someone to spend my life with” (something to that affect). I could be wrong about the exact response, so Xilla just clarified it —which was the PURPOSE of the question asked to XILLA, not you.

I, personally, don't see how asking a question about, what I percieved to be double talk, negative. The question was asked and answered. Also, it was based on a previous interaction with Xilla, which proves that I am a fan. If you are SO ABOVE my negativity, why not be TOTALLY ABOVE it and ignore my question—that was not directed at you in the first place. Your “sun should be shining so brightly” that it blinds your eyes from reading my question, that was—and I reiterate— directed at Xilla and not you! Ever been told to mind your business?

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