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She’s In The Mood To Do The Nasty
Posted in Relationships, Sexual Intellectuals on 23. Sep, 2008
Getting the girl is the easy part, getting her out of clothes is the hard part. I’ve never been one to lie in order to get a girl in the mood. Doing that will only make you have to tell more lies to keep things going. A lot of men will use love, status or money they don’t have in order to get a lady in the bed, when they don’t have to lie. Here are a few simple things you can say to get her in the mood.
Shame The Devil – The best do a man can do is tell the truth. He should make her aware he finds her attractive. I am attracted to this girl, and I’m still not sure if she knows HOW MUCH I ACTUALLY LIKE HER. I get scared when we talk, chat or even when I get an e-mail from her. One good thing is, if you keep your thoughts to yourself long enough she’ll say. “Why do you like me? Or What is it about little ole me.” Another thing you can do is let her catch you checking out her swag. Telling her she’s cute, sexy or attractive when she’s coming out of the gym, on her way to work, coming from the grocery store or even when she uploads a new picture of myspace.
Be On Point – Get specific when you compliment her. Tell her that you love the way she walks the way she rubs her temple when you crack a joke or do something silly or even the way she chews her food. Personally I find the simplest of things attractive like the way a person writes. I once fell in love with a girl based off the way she fixed my dinner plate. It was like a gourmet meal.
Set The Mood – Women are a bit self conscious of their bodies, so soft dim lights can help set the mood. Also soft music and nice smells can go a long way into making her more comfortable with her surrounding environment and make it more likely for you to score the big one.
I asked a few of my twitter friends what gets them in the mood and here is what they said:
Rozzzan – Music/being around hot men/movies/the possibility of it happening/beautiful weather (hot and cold)/and, unsurprisingly, alcohol
deegospel – Rain and a husband who honored and cherished me.
promotingyou – kissing…I love kissing
acrush – Goose and great conversation.
Urbanbutterfly – Dirty talk…dirty text messages….
jlabean – …when the wind blows, when sun rises, the moon glows, when I think of “him”, when I wake up and when I go to sleep.
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As a woman in a relationship, who LOVES the shit outta her man, ANY and EVERY thing turns me on…
It's the little things as well as the big…
The way he looks after shaving, the way he smells, his smile, shit his Voice! LOL
Just being in his general vicinity is enuf to get my juices flowing..
And that look he gives me sometimes….
To me stimulation starts with my mind. It doesn't always have to do just with my body (this is TOO easy). Sure it starts there most often, but what leaves me saying wow lets do this RIGHT NOW is the way I feel knowing that I have babbled on and on and he has listened to every word and even laughed and talked to me. This is important when I finish a book and he lets me give him the retelling and asks question…yeah, he was listening. Listening to me speak my school talk (not having a clue) and just letting me vent. Breathless….Call me a freaky nerd, but every now and then I like to be mind f***ed 1st.
dudes dont realize that it's the simplest things that turn a girl on
don't be aggressive
surprise her with unexpected comments
sensual.seductive.sexy.
ya dig
what turns me on is when i come home from a hared days work and my man is already there from work and he has dinner prepared.
the rain really turns me on, th e way it sounds on the windows or hitting the roof of the house, the thunder, the way the world just stands still at that moment.
i love to be seduced, i love it when man knows the right time to be aggressive and when he a man begs. that is a big turn on!
I agree, it is the simplest things that turn me on. Just sitting back and watching the way a guy does things his own way could easily turn me on.
I love hugs from that right guy. I have a guy friend who's like 6'4 and very muscular and getting hugs from him are amazing! Being wrapped in his arms with that feeling that ur safe from everything just gives me a rush! Oh man, I need to go see him! lol But a lot of things turn me on…IF done the right way.
And Im Grown, I agree….being seduced is THE BEST!!! It's just sooo good I can't explain!
this was very good